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Originally Posted by MADDY
the whole system of Indian marriages is flawed :hammer:
Arranged Marriages:
Girl/ her family are looking for a boy with Good job,decent background/family, onsite/offshore - :hammer: ..........so, the girl invariably tells a "yes" if the guy is in a good position - :hammer:
but there are somethings exclusive to me - which the girl shuld ideally like and tell a yes......adhellam enga - :hammer: .......i dont want a girl to marry me bcos i work in a MNC :evil: ...........imagine a Maniratnam/ARR bashing girl, as my wife, who married me for just my company - my life will be crippled :rotfl: .........arranged marriages are way too kiddish even now.....the process of selection shuld mature......
:exactly: :clap:
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Love Marriages:
Ideal for me - but girls seem to have a hatred for good guys with very strong ideologies :cry: - nowadays girls/guys want a good popcorn than a healthy meal.........when they apply the same logic to marriage partners, it goes horribly wrong..... :rotfl: ..........atleast, yes, love marriages is not all about money.career like arranged marriages - again, the decision making power of girls/guys have to mature.......also, the ugly caste/religion equations lying beneath :shaking: ........its way too complex to decipher :banghead: ....but yea, u cant adjust with mutually opposite cultures..........imagine, u praying sun and ur wife praying moon :oops: ......
ultimately, its people who have to mature and stabilise the process of marriages in India - :D
Agreed again! :( :|