Marriage at an early age for girls in rural areas

[bingleguy]

hey hey hulk n crazy .... cmon guys ... be cool !

Hulk ... dont put down those words ... it may not be sounding funny to ppl ... that too when u both are on opposite poles !

Crazy ... cool yaar .... chill out ! we all have different opinions ... lets not directly come to conclusions !

[Fire111999]

enna nadakkudhu inga

u don;t want to know vasanth. hulk is saying all sorts of crazy thing! like the girl who gets raped will get married to the guy who raped her if she values her dignity and honour. what rubbish!

No no no Fire ... i shall try to interpret what he might be trying to say !

he meant values n dignity meaning that she doesnt want anybody else to see or touch her body ! that could be the reason he says !

if not ... then i stay with u guys !

Yeaps that was what i meant and fire...please read my next post after that...yemma slow and steadya padinga pa...intha mathiri adukka pudukka padikaathaenge...approm misunderstanding thaan varum...)

of course any girl wil feel that only one guy must see or touch her body. but in the case of rape? that's y girls commit suicide when they're raped. but how would her dignity allow that she get married to that idiot? i think rather commit suicide than marry that idiot. if she can't forget that incident, stay single. there's more to life than marriage. but best is to treat it like a bad dream and get on with her life, get married to someone nice, etc.

[Hulkster]

Just a question out of the topic....Have you guys ever tried thinking when your alone of how sex comes about and what causes it?...Sometimes by thinking of such things we can get the solutions of how this happen and why this happen.

[Fire111999]

ellei ellei...lust does not always have to lead to sex..im implying that it plays a major part in the arousal of sex...lust is there when you see and admire models for their beauty...and you see soft porn books or movies...that is also lust....love as i said is totally towards emotions and feelings..it comes due to the admiration of the person's character and care for you.

Its not lust without permission as lust is a individuals own natural feeling...permissionoda varathu ellei....what you mean is sex without permission and that is rape...which is of course violating a girl without her willingness.

excuuse meeee!

and anyway, u're changing what u said. u started out with saying that sex has nothing to do with love and it was just hormones, etc. now u're shying from tt!

[bingleguy]

Hulk ... is she right ? is that wat u initially said ?

[Fire111999]

Just a question out of the topic....Have you guys ever tried thinking when your alone of how sex comes about and what causes it?...Sometimes by thinking of such things we can get the solutions of how this happen and why this happen.

hallo! if sex is just abt hormones, pple will be having sex with anybody and everybody left and right. and girls wouldn't feel that only one guy should touch them.

sex is a whole deal more abt love than abt lust!

[Hulkster]

enna nadakkudhu inga

u don;t want to know vasanth. hulk is saying all sorts of crazy thing! like the girl who gets raped will get married to the guy who raped her if she values her dignity and honour. what rubbish!

No no no Fire ... i shall try to interpret what he might be trying to say !

he meant values n dignity meaning that she doesnt want anybody else to see or touch her body ! that could be the reason he says !

if not ... then i stay with u guys !

Yeaps that was what i meant and fire...please read my next post after that...yemma slow and steadya padinga pa...intha mathiri adukka pudukka padikaathaenge...approm misunderstanding thaan varum...)

of course any girl wil feel that only one guy must see or touch her body. but in the case of rape? that's y girls commit suicide when they're raped. but how would her dignity allow that she get married to that idiot? i think rather commit suicide than marry that idiot. if she can't forget that incident, stay single. there's more to life than marriage. but best is to treat it like a bad dream and get on with her life, get married to someone nice, etc.

hmm....it seems your looking at rape as only one type....as i have mentioned...rapes done in the form of seriously causing hurt to the person...gangrapes...rapes cum murder are things the girl will never accept...but oru chinna advice...tappa ninaichikathaenge...please try to look from a general viewpoint as well...not all rapists are idiots...some rapists have mental illnesses that makes them have pleasure in seeing other people suffer...and there are some rapists who do it in haste although they are actually nice people...a rape can be a sudden hasty thought of a person regardless of whether he is good or not...naan thaan sonneinae...in certain cases the girl feels it is okay to marry the rapist if the rapist is actually a good person and she feels she can reform him...there are many different scenarios which can be seen from here....i do agree with the rest of your points though.

[bingleguy]

Sex s not just about Harmones hulk !

It needs the ingredient LOVE to be complete along with LUST !!

Reading P*RN books is just to get aroused and just LUST without any LOVE ...

I would say LOVE n LUST shld exist ... n shld not be an open thing !

[Fire111999]

love has nothing to do with sex...the arousal of sex is more towards the lust that ensues in the mind.

i think he said the same thing once before. but couldn't find it. too many posts.

[Lambretta]

hallo! if sex is just abt hormones, pple will be having sex with anybody and everybody left and right.

Sadly ther r many ppl. (inc. girls) who do tat....more now than b4 perhaps.....but of course, NOT EVERYBODY by ne means.....!