Marriage at an early age for girls in rural areas

**bingleguy** · 21st April 2006, 07:30 PM

Hey dude ... nalla manushanga oru nimisham manasu madiri thappu panninalum ... avanga nalla manushanga dhaan nu solreenga ... ok !

But appadi oru manushanukku eppo venumnaa yaaraiyaavadhu paathaa andha aasai vandhuduchunnaa " appadinnu andha ponnu ninaikalaam illaya .. so appadi oruthanoda eppadi kudumbam nadatha mudiyum !?

I meant
"Hey dude, though a good man does a mistake due to some reason, they are good men is wat u said ... fine

but why shld not the girl think that "am man who has made a mistake once, may do the same with another person" she can think this and wish to stay away from him, though he is good !
So how will she run a family with him !

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**Fire111999** · 21st April 2006, 07:30 PM

Originally Posted by Hulkster

and there are some rapists who do it in haste although they are actually nice people

what????????? some rapists are actually nice pple!!!!!!!
yeah, i;m sure some murderers are real nice pple too!!!!!!

**Fire111999** · 21st April 2006, 07:33 PM

Originally Posted by bingleguy

Sex s not just about Harmones hulk !

It needs the ingredient LOVE to be complete along with LUST !!

Reading P*RN books is just to get aroused and just LUST without any LOVE ...

I would say LOVE n LUST shld exist ... n shld not be an open thing !

thanks, vasanth. but could u translate ur other post to english? right now, i don't have the patience to make out the tamil! sorry!

**Hulkster** · 21st April 2006, 07:33 PM

Fire unga kitae eppo enna sonnein? see my posts slowly and carefully...i say hormones play a part in the arousal of sex...i was describing how sex is done and how it is aroused....of course we must have self control over lust when it comes.

As for the one about soft porn...i was saying that lust is a natural feeling that appears in everyone of us and explaining how it comes about...i was describing lust...lust is just a feeling...sex is the process or the action...and please read carefully that i was describing the process of how sex happens...like how they teach you in sex education.

Of course you will have sex with the person whom you love...but love does not interplay with sex as in the process when it happens...when sex happens it is just the work of your lust..hopefully this time you can see what i mean carefully.

**goodsense** · 21st April 2006, 07:34 PM

I think I know what Hulk was getting at. I know one girl under 16. She went to visit a family. They had a son who no good girl wouild want to marry. He has a bad reptation and is even called a strange name than his actual name. When the got the girl to the hosue, they locked them in a room, then called the police. The police then order that he marry her since she was under age. They got married and had a few childen. Don't know if the thoughts of that woman changed, now that she is matured and can reflect on how she got her husband. Surely at the tme, her and her family were thinking that they would have a hard time getting her a husband, cause the whole village knew about what happened.

I know another case involving the police and an underage girl, but at least those two people were in love and the girl's parents were only too happy to take the police order and get them married.

**Fire111999** · 21st April 2006, 07:34 PM

Originally Posted by Lambretta

Originally Posted by Fire111999

hallo! if sex is just abt hormones, pple will be having sex with anybody and everybody left and right.

Sadly ther r many ppl. (inc. girls) who do tat....more now than b4 perhaps.....but of course, NOT EVERYBODY by ne means.....!

just cos some pple do it doesn't make it right! and also, it doesn't proof that sex has nothing to do with love as well! love is very important in sex!

**Hulkster** · 21st April 2006, 07:36 PM

Originally Posted by bingleguy

Hey dude ... nalla manushanga oru nimisham manasu madiri thappu panninalum ... avanga nalla manushanga dhaan nu solreenga ... ok !

But appadi oru manushanukku eppo venumnaa yaaraiyaavadhu paathaa andha aasai vandhuduchunnaa " appadinnu andha ponnu ninaikalaam illaya .. so appadi oruthanoda eppadi kudumbam nadatha mudiyum !?

Athukaaga thaan sonnein there are alot of scenarios that can arise from this...the scenario you gave is one such example...there is also another scenario that the person might be reformed if the girl is willing to forgive....yeppada..solliyae kanner vanthuthu...

**Fire111999** · 21st April 2006, 07:37 PM

Originally Posted by Hulkster

Fire unga kitae eppo enna sonnein? see my posts slowly and carefully...i say hormones play a part in the arousal of sex...i was describing how sex is done and how it is aroused....of course we must have self control over lust when it comes.

As for the one about soft porn...i was saying that lust is a natural feeling that appears in everyone of us and explaining how it comes about...i was describing lust...lust is just a feeling...sex is the process or the action...and please read carefully that i was describing the process of how sex happens...like how they teach you in sex education.

Of course you will have sex with the person whom you love...but love does not interplay with sex as in the process when it happens...when sex happens it is just the work of your lust..hopefully this time you can see what i mean carefully.

if u see sex as just doing it, i've nothing to say to you!

**Fire111999** · 21st April 2006, 07:38 PM

Originally Posted by Hulkster

Originally Posted by bingleguy

Hey dude ... nalla manushanga oru nimisham manasu madiri thappu panninalum ... avanga nalla manushanga dhaan nu solreenga ... ok !

But appadi oru manushanukku eppo venumnaa yaaraiyaavadhu paathaa andha aasai vandhuduchunnaa " appadinnu andha ponnu ninaikalaam illaya .. so appadi oruthanoda eppadi kudumbam nadatha mudiyum !?

Athukaaga thaan sonnein there are alot of scenarios that can arise from this...the scenario you gave is one such example...there is also another scenario that the person might be reformed if the girl is willing to forgive....yeppada..solliyae kanner vanthuthu...

vasanth, r u still there? can u translate ur part at least? thank you!

**Hulkster** · 21st April 2006, 07:39 PM

Originally Posted by Fire111999

Originally Posted by Hulkster

and there are some rapists who do it in haste although they are actually nice people

what????????? some rapists are actually nice pple!!!!!!!
yeah, i;m sure some murderers are real nice pple too!!!!!!

Fire...even a good person can be forced to do anything bad according to circumstances...yethu yeppo nadukkum nu namakku theriyaathu...what im trying to say that there are people who were good and decent before such things happened.