MARRIAGE ...Aspects & PROBLEMS.!

[Sudhaama]

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Dear Friends,

POLL - OPTIONS Description :--

(1) LOVE MARRIAGE ignoring the Parents :-- Choice and Decision by the Lovers independantly... irrespective of both sides Parrents' Wishes - Even if unconsented by the Parents, IGNORING their advice and Objections... getting Married by Lovers' exclusive decision only.

(2) LOVE MARRIAGE with the consent of Parents :-- After taking initial decision independantly by the lovers, getting the Consent of both sides Parents by any means of Persuasion, and then getting Married.

(3) ARRANGED MARRIAGE by the Loving Parents :-- This does not mean the Age-old method of joint-decision by both sides Parents only.. at the tender age of the Couple before adolescence... and getting them Married by means of exclusive decision by the Parents.

But the Spadework is performed by the Loving Parrents. Various options of the proposals are searched for by them.. who function as the Secretaries for the couple, and on the youngsters behalf... selection is made by the Couple on the recommendation and advice of the Parents...

Finally decided jointly by the Parents and the Couple.

Here the persuasion is from the Parents to their Son/ Daughter... whose concurrence is the most important...

...although unanimously decided by the Parents and the Couple.

In our present days.. which is the Best?...Arranged or Love Marriage?... Why?

By Your experience...SEEN AND HEARD... how many Love-Marriages are Successful.. and

....How many NOT?...Why.?... What were the PRACTICAL problems.. comparatively?

How many Arranged Marriages had failed... or had lot more problems.?.. What sort of problems?

What is Your Advice to the present day Youngsters on the matter?

Shall we discuss?
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