//Is there something called soul-mate //

yup! It cna be ur friend, best friend, ur child, ur mom, dad,
relative or SOMEONE WHOM U DETEST.

kindly read about WHO IS A SOULMATE. The term is HIGHLY MISUNDERSTOOD.

Soul mate comes in ur life(every life) to help u understand
life OR EVOLVE IN LIFE. not necesarily to MAKE U FALL IN LOVE,
OR TO CUDDLE U.

As for romance at 43, why not, even at 73 ppl fall in love.

In case U HAVE FALLEN FOR THIS SO CALLED DIVINE romance,....

kindly confess it to ur wife and to ur romantic better half RATHER THAN ASKIGN IN A PUBLIC THREAD, IFFF SHE IS UR SOULMATE?

AT ANY POINT OF TIME, stay loyal to one, U DECIDE WHICH ONE U WANNA BE LOYAL TO.

GOOD LUCK N CHEERS.