Dating Tips

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ss,

DATING atleast what they sought here in THIS THREAD was to impress partner, which involves ATTRACTION!

Who ever said dating is sinful? I needs the right person place and t ime. Thats all. DEfinitely u WONT date a good friend.

Thats NOT dating. Thats just hanging out with a friend.

engalukku ellaam puriyura maadhiri ENGLISH'la ezhudha maatteeengalaa :? ? :hammer: :hammer:

[SoftSword]

ss,

DATING atleast what they sought here in THIS THREAD was to impress partner, which involves ATTRACTION!

Who ever said dating is sinful? I needs the right person place and t ime. Thats all. DEfinitely u WONT date a good friend.

Thats NOT dating. Thats just hanging out with a friend.

this is also a kinda dating..

[Shakthiprabha.]

ss,

I DONT THINK PPL ARE TALKING ABOUT THAT KINDA HANGING OUT WITH FRIENDS *IN THIS THREAD*

[SoftSword]

ss,

I DONT THINK PPL ARE TALKING ABOUT THAT KINDA HANGING OUT WITH FRIENDS *IN THIS THREAD*

while u date, wont you try to be friendly or make friends with the other person??

[Shakthiprabha.]

ss,

I think u are BORED today. Your arguments are unncessary and U KNOW THAT.

I said

* This thread is NOT talking about general hanging out with friends

* you DONT NEED tips to impress friends. FREINDSHIP happens.

[SoftSword]

ss,

I think u are BORED today. Your arguments are unncessary and U KNOW THAT.

I said

* This thread is NOT talking about general hanging out with friends

* you DONT NEED tips to impress friends. FREINDSHIP happens.

polachi ponga... :evil:

[Shakthiprabha.]

ss,

I think u are BORED today. Your arguments are unncessary and U KNOW THAT.

I said

* This thread is NOT talking about general hanging out with friends

* you DONT NEED tips to impress friends. FREINDSHIP happens.

polachi ponga... :evil:

thx same to u :poke:

[SoftSword]

ss,

I think u are BORED today. Your arguments are unncessary and U KNOW THAT.

I said

* This thread is NOT talking about general hanging out with friends

* you DONT NEED tips to impress friends. FREINDSHIP happens.

polachi ponga... :evil:

thx same to u :poke:

thoo.... neenga ellaam oru boss...
edho payyan arvakolarula doubt kaekkuranae...
avanukku edhachum oru figure pick up panni tharuvom...
andha madhiri edhachum ennam irukka... neenga mattum settle aagitteenga... cha... suyanala ulagam...

[littlemaster1982]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9R32i6otk60

chanceless :lol: .....OMG, one of the best "pickup" i have ever seen in my life..........andha payyan enna naaalu ara vitta kooda, avanoda knack enakku varadhu :notworthy:

What video is this? Vodafone ad (chota credit)??

[MADDY]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9R32i6otk60

chanceless :lol: .....OMG, one of the best "pickup" i have ever seen in my life..........andha payyan enna naaalu ara vitta kooda, avanoda knack enakku varadhu :notworthy:

What video is this? Vodafone ad (chota credit)??

yup :)

SP akka, u think 7th std or 8th std kids dont date :lol2: .....my cuz's who are in 11th and 12th std are my Gurus 8-) ......

and how did u assume that was frndship??? any special indication in that ad??? :roll: .......as i saw it, it was a adhoc help from a unknown guy, bcos the girl's smile had a element of surprise in it - as in seeing a uknown person, who cant be a frnd........such small things go a long way, which was my point.......10 perk chocolate vaaangi kudukkaradhum onnu dhaan, indha oru drop ink-um onnu dhaan 8-)

[Nerd]

And what's wrong in friending then dating then lubbing and finally marrying?? :roll:

[littlemaster1982]

I don't know whether this can be considered as pickup, but the ad is wonderfully shot :thumbsup:

Maddy,

If the same ad had featured a college guy and a girl, it would have been ordinary, IMO.

[littlemaster1982]

And what's wrong in friending then dating then lubbing and finally marrying?? :roll:

Adhaane ;)

[Wibha]

And what's wrong in friending then dating then lubbing and finally marrying?? :roll:

Adhaane ;)

:x :x :x

friendship is different. dating is different :notthatway:

[littlemaster1982]

What's wrong in friendship turning into love :roll:

[Nerd]

if you cut the dating part, which is not so normal (in India) the sequence is pretty good.. Also I don't know how can someone date an unknown girl (online sites) :sigh2:

[MADDY]

And what's wrong in friending then dating then lubbing and finally marrying?? :roll:

thappe illa :D ....reminds of my own experience - i proposed to a girl within 2 weeks of frndship , she told "we are not even frnds, how do u expect me to accept u?? " .....then i went after the next girl, befriended her and went around with her group(mokka dogs) for 6 months and then proposed....she told "i never expected this from u, being my frnd" ayyo, en aadu thirutte pogala, thiruttu pona madhiri kanavu kanden :x :lol:

LM, i somehow felt it was not frndship :)

[littlemaster1982]

LM, i somehow felt it was not frndship :)

Hehe, OK :noteeth:

[Wibha]

What's wrong in friendship turning into love :roll:

how can you love a friend apart from the love you have on him/her as a friend :roll:

[littlemaster1982]

:confused2: If I like to marry a girl who has been my friend, what's the problem?

[Wibha]

then what happened to the friendship? :?

[littlemaster1982]

Can't your life partner be a friend too :huh:

[Wibha]

there's a difference between friend becoming your life partner and life partner being as good as a friend . :cool:

[littlemaster1982]

What is that difference exactly :roll:

[Wibha]

i'll let you know after i get married :lol2: :poke:

[Nerd]

:confused2: If I like to marry a girl who has been my friend, what's the problem?
its the most natural way of louu IMHO.. I am not a fan/believer of LAFS like maddy is :P

[littlemaster1982]

i'll let you know after i get married :lol2: :poke:

Nalla excuse :lol2:

[littlemaster1982]

:confused2: If I like to marry a girl who has been my friend, what's the problem?
its the most natural way of louu IMHO.. I am not a fan/believer of LAFS like maddy is :P

That's what I think too. I seriously don't get this 'friends cannot be lovers' concept :?

[MADDY]

That's what I think too. I seriously don't get this 'friends cannot be lovers' concept :?

adhavadhu, frnds are frnds.......lover is lover.......rendayum confuse panna koodaadhu :lol: ......i feel somewhere down the line ur frndship is not pure if u fall in love with ur frnd......

Nerd, LAFS is pure fun, esp when it clicks, it becomes so hilarious :lol:

[littlemaster1982]

That's what I think too. I seriously don't get this 'friends cannot be lovers' concept :?

adhavadhu, frnds are frnds.......lover is lover.......rendayum confuse panna koodaadhu :lol: ......i feel somewhere down the line ur frndship is not pure if u fall in love with ur frnd......

I was looking for this word only. What is so 'pure' about friendship that love doesn't have :roll:

[Wibha]

That's what I think too. I seriously don't get this 'friends cannot be lovers' concept :?

adhavadhu, frnds are frnds.......lover is lover.......rendayum confuse panna koodaadhu :lol: ......i feel somewhere down the line ur frndship is not pure if u fall in love with ur frnd......

Nerd, LAFS is pure fun, esp when it clicks, it becomes so hilarious :lol:

exactly. friendship is questioned the moment you fall in love with a friend.

LAFS is BS to me :oops:

[littlemaster1982]

exactly. friendship is questioned the moment you fall in love with a friend.

But why??? No one tells me why is it so :twisted:

[Nerd]

LM, the four letter word which has the last vowel as its second letter perhaps :sigh2:

NammallAm (normal tamizh payyan) brad pitt / madhavan maadhiri iruntha LAFS work out aagum may be :oops:

[Wibha]

LM, the four letter word which has the last vowel as its second letter perhaps :sigh2:

NammallAm (normal tamizh payyan) brad pitt / madhavan maadhiri iruntha LAFS work out aagum may be :oops:

many words can fit in that category. which word do you mean nerd :lol2: :yessir:

:exactly: :lol2: jk :D ............ maddy's love was like LAFS ;)

his friend's sister :P

[littlemaster1982]

LM, the four letter word which has the last vowel as its second letter perhaps :sigh2:

May be. If so then the logic is :banghead:

[ajithfederer]

naansenss :twisted:



That's what I think too. I seriously don't get this 'friends cannot be lovers' concept :?

adhavadhu, frnds are frnds.......lover is lover.......rendayum confuse panna koodaadhu :lol: ......i feel somewhere down the line ur frndship is not pure if u fall in love with ur frnd......

Nerd, LAFS is pure fun, esp when it clicks, it becomes so hilarious :lol:

exactly. friendship is questioned the moment you fall in love with a friend.

[MADDY]

i think it all depends on each ones' perspective.......i hold frndship at a much higher pedestal than louuu.....i wouldnt want to mix both.........in love, there is a bit of attraction factor, however sincere it may be.......but frndship has nothing to do with attraction , which is a bit like mom-son or a dad-son/daughter relationship.............expectation, assumption illama varradhu dhaan frndship.........so when u fall in love, u r obviously attracted or u have expectation which breaks the very backbone of frndship ideals.........

also, for me a frnd is frnd - be it girl or boy.....just like i wont fall in love with male frnds, i wont fall in love with my female frnds as well.........

[MrIndia]

friend love-ku help panna thappilla..

aana friendship love-ku help panna kuththam :x

nothing wrong in loving ur friend if you think [s]he will reciprocate.

[MADDY]

nothing wrong in loving ur friend if you think [s]he will reciprocate.

i have seen so many frnds of mine (girls and boys) who have lost their frndship bcos of proposing to a frnd :oops: .........i have mediated in so many of such cases , but frndship never comes back.........

[MrIndia]

i have seen so many frnds of mine (girls and boys) who have lost their frndship bcos of proposing to a frnd :oops: .........i have mediated in so many of such cases , but frndship never comes back.........

It better to have proposed and lost a friend then to become a hidden lover/admirer which will hurt a lot later. believe me :)

[MADDY]

i have seen so many frnds of mine (girls and boys) who have lost their frndship bcos of proposing to a frnd :oops: .........i have mediated in so many of such cases , but frndship never comes back.........

It better to have proposed and lost a friend then to become a hidden lover/admirer which will hurt a lot later. believe me :)

exactly, i dont want to lose a frndship over louuu :) i can take the hurt of not telling louu than losing one

[MrIndia]

exactly, i dont want to lose a frndship over louuu :) i can take the hurt of not telling louu than losing one

once you start feeling louuu...than that is not friendship alone..

u cant contrl louu like

#ifndef($friend)
louuu
#endif

u might end up having fake friendship and lost louu :(

[Wibha]

each one have their own perspective when it comes to love or friendship. it depends on circumstances and situation

[MrIndia]

each one have their own perspective when it comes to love or friendship. it depends on circumstances and situation

ippadi solliye escape aayidunga..
this is solution for all the discussions in the hub.

thalaiver baashaila sollanumna

silaperuku kaadhal, roja chedi maathiri.. oru poo poothu vizhundhudichina innonu..

silaperuku athu antha roja maathiri.. oru tharava poothu kila vizhundhuduchina.. avalothaan 8-) 8-)

[littlemaster1982]

i think it all depends on each ones' perspective.......i hold frndship at a much higher pedestal than louuu.....i wouldnt want to mix both.........in love, there is a bit of attraction factor, however sincere it may be.......but frndship has nothing to do with attraction , which is a bit like mom-son or a dad-son/daughter relationship.............expectation, assumption illama varradhu dhaan frndship.........so when u fall in love, u r obviously attracted or u have expectation which breaks the very backbone of frndship ideals.........

It's idealistic to say that we don't expect anything in friendship. In reality, we expect a lot of things from friendship too. And we have someone as a friend only if we like them.

Friendship turning into love is natural most of the times. What's wrong if two friends (a male and female I mean) feel more close and want to live their life together?

[Sinthiya]

What's wrong if two friends (a male and female I mean) feel more close and want to live their life together?
nothing...you'll get to know the other person as a good friend first (as if you're talking to any friend - that is the best approach) :roll: ...many friends have become lovers...and then if it didn't work out, some continue to be friends, while others don't....

you decide what's important to you - pursuing your friendship or risking it for love and marriage possibility with your best friend.....:)...best is not to have any regrets in life, so take a chance...

[sarna_blr]

Friend'aa pazhaguna ponnayum LOVV'a koodaadhu.... 1st time paakkura ponnayum LOVV'a koodaadhu... appuram yaaraththaan LOVV'uradhu :huh:

appa Arranged Marriage dhaan BEST'aa :huh:

[Shakthiprabha.]

Friend'aa pazhaguna ponnayum LOVV'a koodaadhu.... 1st time paakkura ponnayum LOVV'a koodaadhu... appuram yaaraththaan LOVV'uradhu :huh:



:lol2:

[Shakthiprabha.]

My personal view is (though not invited here in a thread full of young ppl )....

Friendship can turn into love. Nothing wrong about that.

If such a thing happens with any one friend, I dont believe it puts an end to the friendship.

If it turns into love. It just takes a different route.

period.

I am very much in agreement with Sinthiya's view point here.

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Try panni paaththuda vEndiyadhudhaan :boo:

[MADDY]

couldnt resist posting this....i saw Jaane tu ya jaane na 2 days back......louu sorry love is described so beautifully in the movie........adhu dhaan love-yaaaa :) .......this movie gave me a feeling "idhu varaikkum naa aaniye pudungunadhilla" or "naa pudungunadhu ellam theva illadha aaninga" :) .......

love is such a beautiful thing - it has to happen man........no tips/tricks can get u love.........and u shuld realise it even if it happens, some ppl. are so dumb that they wouldnt know they are in love :( ........very very very late realisation :lol: ...aduthha jenmam-nnu onnu irukkula :)

[MrIndia]

those kinda of things happen only in the scripts..
real life-la andha maathiri nadakarathu.. remba kammi :?

[P_R]

MADDY, Tyrewala unga mEla vaNdiyai EthittAr pOla theriyudhA. Such a deep impression - pardon the pun. Naan innum padam paarkkalai.

"realization" appidinnnu periya periya vaarthai ellAm solreengaLE. enakku ippo padam paarkkavE bayamA irukku :P

[SoftSword]

"kadhal.... kalatti potta seruppu maadhiri....
size sariyaa irundhaaa..... yaar vena maattikkalaam..."

courtesy: vivek

[selvakumar]

"realization" appidinnnu periya periya vaarthai ellAm solreengaLE. enakku ippo padam paarkkavE bayamA irukku :P
:lol:
Athaanae !

Maddy - neenga padam paarthuttu athoda "Impact" lla oru 10 naal saapidala, thoongalennu pottruntha, Prabu baya padaama padatha paarthu rasichiruppar. Keduthuteengalae :(

[P_R]

Exactly ! May be going to Subramaniyapuram later today :lol:

[MADDY]

MADDY, Tyrewala unga mEla vaNdiyai EthittAr pOla theriyudhA. Such a deep impression - pardon the pun. Naan innum padam paarkkalai.

"realization" appidinnnu periya periya vaarthai ellAm solreengaLE. enakku ippo padam paarkkavE bayamA irukku :P

:lol: :lol: film did have a impression on me.......baya padama paarunga :)

selva :lol: 8-)

[Raghu]

those kinda of things happen only in the scripts..
real life-la andha maathiri nadakarathu.. remba kammi :?

yes, when i realised that it was too late :( :oops:

[sarna_blr]

those kinda of things happen only in the scripts..
real life-la andha maathiri nadakarathu.. remba kammi :?

yes, when i realised that it was too late :( :oops:

yEn :roll: romba vayasaayiduchchaa :? :lol2:

[Raghu]

those kinda of things happen only in the scripts..
real life-la andha maathiri nadakarathu.. remba kammi :?

yes, when i realised that it was too late :( :oops:

yEn :roll: romba vayasaayiduchchaa :? :lol2: :twisted:

illapa, kooti kazhichu parunga kanaku sariya varum :lol2:


what i meant was, even i was fooled in to love thinking it would be so sweet and beautiful like how they show in film, but in realliy, it is all maya, i learnt that the hardest way :cry: i guess men maturity in such matters are pathetic :cry:

[Shakthiprabha.]

raghu,

:) its not just men
its the same with women too :)

we mature with age (supposedly)

[Raghu]

raghu,

:) its not just men
its the same with women too :)

we mature with age (supposedly)

SP akka

Yeah may be, but i feel when you love some one(b4) marriage u ONLY c the possitive of that person, but then once you are imprisoned you begin to see the other side of it, (negative)

:? :?

[Shakthiprabha.]

hmm I cant comment on this :)

[Raghu]

hmm I cant comment on this :)
:lol:

[sarna_blr]

raghu,

:) its not just men
its the same with women too :)

we mature with age (supposedly)

SP akka

Yeah may be, but i feel when you love some one(b4) marriage u ONLY c the possitive of that person, but then once you are imprisoned you begin to see the other side of it, (negative)

:? :?

kaadhal enbadhu inikkum virundhu kalyaanam enbadhu vEppangozhundhu yE kannE
oa niraiyil mattumE kaadhal paarkkum kuraiyil mattumae kalyaanam paarkkum yEn kannaa
kaadhal paarppadhu paadhi kannil kalyaanam paarppadhu naalu kanniladi pennE
kili mookkin nuni mookkil kObangaL alaiginRa rasikkum rasikkum kaadhal
kalyaanam aanaalae thurumbellaam thoonaaga yEn yEn yEn mOdhal

[crazy]

adada :bow:

[sarna_blr]

adada :bow:

:roll:

[Raghu]

raghu,

:) its not just men
its the same with women too :)

we mature with age (supposedly)

SP akka

Yeah may be, but i feel when you love some one(b4) marriage u ONLY c the possitive of that person, but then once you are imprisoned you begin to see the other side of it, (negative)

:? :?

kaadhal enbadhu inikkum virundhu kalyaanam enbadhu vEppangozhundhu yE kannE
oa niraiyil mattumE kaadhal paarkkum kuraiyil mattumae kalyaanam paarkkum yEn kannaa
kaadhal paarppadhu paadhi kannil kalyaanam paarppadhu naalu kanniladi pennE
kili mookkin nuni mookkil kObangaL alaiginRa rasikkum rasikkum kaadhal
kalyaanam aanaalae thurumbellaam thoonaaga yEn yEn yEn mOdhal


adengappa,

Pineetenga ponga, intha dialogue-a TR.Rajender kittu kudunga avara ungalakku oru batchi vaangi oduthu, ungalaiyum adautha padatha hero- aakividuvaru :lol2:

[sarna_blr]

raghu,

:) its not just men
its the same with women too :)

we mature with age (supposedly)

SP akka

Yeah may be, but i feel when you love some one(b4) marriage u ONLY c the possitive of that person, but then once you are imprisoned you begin to see the other side of it, (negative)

:? :?

kaadhal enbadhu inikkum virundhu kalyaanam enbadhu vEppangozhundhu yE kannE
oa niraiyil mattumE kaadhal paarkkum kuraiyil mattumae kalyaanam paarkkum yEn kannaa
kaadhal paarppadhu paadhi kannil kalyaanam paarppadhu naalu kanniladi pennE
kili mookkin nuni mookkil kObangaL alaiginRa rasikkum rasikkum kaadhal
kalyaanam aanaalae thurumbellaam thoonaaga yEn yEn yEn mOdhal


adengappa,

Pineetenga ponga, intha dialogue-a TR.Rajender kittu kudunga avara ungalakku oru batchi vaangi oduthu, ungalaiyum adautha padatha hero- aakividuvaru :lol2:

ARR paatta kEkkaadhavanga kooda namma oor'la irukkaangaalaa :rotfl:

AlaipaayudhE padaththukkaaga Vairamuththu ezhudhina varigal :)

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