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Originally Posted by Sanguine Sridhar
Do u really think that the only way for us to differenciate us from animals is by signing a document? :)Quote:
Originally Posted by SS
Agreed taht Security, happiness, relations, enjoyment and sadness is what makes a person's life. But since when is all of this only attainable through marriage? (Not saying that it isn't, I'm not 70+ :wink: ) But just curious...how are all these things only attainable in marriage? :)Quote:
Originally Posted by SS
I beg to differ...:P Maybe not in TN, because TN is a faily conservative State (Or atleast pretends to be), and as long as u have bored housewives gossiping about other ppls business, it proly isn't gonna happen, but it is easily possible in otherparts of the nation. :)Quote:
Living together system is not possible in India
Shalu,Quote:
Originally Posted by shalushalu
Ennaga ithu! Tamizh pada villain maathiri bayankaramaa sirikkiReenga!
Aama Temporary Sori-Observer .... apadi patta siripu thaan varathu .... enna seiya ??? Irunthaalam, ungal avatar siripu maathiri cute-a illaiye ....Quote:
Originally Posted by temporary sori-Observer
ShaktiPrabha .... I loved the way u said a few things despite not agreeing with all. Nice. :thumbsup:
I'd like to put my 2 cents here altho not sure how agreeable it sounds.....
Marriage in our society was originally devised as not just a mere uniting of 2 individuals but also 2 families...also the purpose of marriage of 2 individuals was intended not to promote their own desires for physical relationship but to care for the upline family (of the husband) & promote progeny of said family.
The relation between a husband & wife was meant to be sumthing like a team tat was dedicated to tend to the family needs more than their own. Duties/responsibilities played more a role than personal desires (wich I'm not against either!)
It was for this reason tat arranged marriages wer preferred in our society & love-marriages wer looked down upon as the latter wer thot of as selfish individual desires w/ no responsibilites/care for the rest of the family, besides feared to bring complications among each others' families.
But eventually w/ mostly men straying away from the value system & seeing marriage as mostly a means to permanant physical satisfaction & more recnetly w/ the increase of nuclear family concepts, the purpose of marriage narrowed down to jus seeking a partner for nearly lifelong physical bliss (wich is also mainly y sexual satisfaction has become such a major concern for ppl. to be married!) w/ having children becoming a little more than a by-product or coincidence of the relationship!
I guess w/ the purpose behind marriage thinning out gradually, the idea of marriage is becoming questionable nowadays....
thx shalu :D :D
Lambretta,
Truth is there in ur argument. QUITE a lot infact.
Yet, however SELFISH or whatever be the motive, MARRIAGE keeps the society goign on in a decent way. Thats the ONLY WAY To prevent MULTIPLE relationships.
It becomes............ worse without one such system.
Tks SP/KK akka, :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
However, no I'm not against the institution of marriage, count me out of tat crowd! :exactly: :P
I was merely poiting out the basis of questioning the custom of marriage as of today......ie. to say these r the reasons tat led to the gradual 'shallowness' tat marriage is now being viewed w/.....
IMO if today society, atleast in India, made one to undersatnd the depth in married life, it wudnt hav led to as much likelihood of debating/questioning the same! :)
Uh, hope tat makes it sound clearer.... :P :)
SP : :exactly: :yes: btw u hv got the guts to be honest about wat u felt some years ago ! :clap: :2thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
Yea tats very brave no doubt......but wats more amazing is tat she actually developed a POSITIVE view abt marriage NOW, rather than 10 yrs ago......wen it shud've normally been the OTHER WAY round w/ most in our society....:shock: :confused2: :idontgetit: :roll:Quote:
Originally Posted by ramky
Nevertheless, in tat case I guess shez lucky she already got married 10+ yrs ago, since wat she felt then REMAINED as only wat she felt then...... :exactly: :wink: :D