see, in our system, the love gets strengthened because of the parents rejection. '
The couple starts realizing "how much they love each other" only after they got married. Until then, they were not given a chance to measure the strength of their love. Their calculation is wrong as they miscalculating. That is the bigggest draw-back in our love marriages.
They really dont understand each other but they think they do. The biggest problem is, if they have some misunderstanding after marriage, the folks are going to blame them rather than helping them!
Imagine a situation like this:
this is just like trying to work on a problem going exactly against your Indian prof suggestion or will or way. When you fail, he is going to blame you all the way. when you win you are going to get into his bad book! At least here it is one against one!
But I think our kind of love marriage is worse than an arranged marriage as it involves "two people" and "folks"!
If they live together and see how it goes and break up if necessary then the success rate may be more. well if we are going to do that v r going to end up losing our culture and what not. :(