Does Love Exist?

thiru

pls kantinuee ur Istory :lol2:

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Avan avanuku nadakkum bOthu thAn theriyum. :wink:
Practically speaking 'gouravam' is essential in 21st century.

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At the cost of precious lives?

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Avan avanuku nadakkum bOthu thAn theriyum. :wink:
Practically speaking 'gouravam' is essential in 21st century.

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:o Pulaingala konnuttu entha vithathila gauravam kidaikkuthu?

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Maanatha vAnggura piLLaigaL - appadi patta piLLaigaLE vEnAmngrEn...

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Love panninA maanatha vaanguradhu nu yaarunga sonna?

neenga solluradhu ellam andha kaalam... Situation now is way better than it was 10 yrs ago.... Parents are approving their children's love....

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Avan avanuku nadakkum bOthu thAn theriyum. :wink:
Practically speaking 'gouravam' is essential in 21st century.

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At the cost of precious lives?

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Avan avanuku nadakkum bOthu thAn theriyum. :wink:
Practically speaking 'gouravam' is essential in 21st century.

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:o Pulaingala konnuttu entha vithathila gauravam kidaikkuthu?

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Maanatha vAnggura piLLaigaL - appadi patta piLLaigaLE vEnAmngrEn...

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Love panninA maanatha vaanguradhu nu yaarunga sonna?

neenga solluradhu ellam andha kaalam... Situation now is way better than it was 10 yrs ago.... Parents are approving their children's love....

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:exactly:

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Originally Posted by viraajan

Love panninA maanatha vaanguradhu nu yaarunga sonna?

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Yaaru sonnA?

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neenga solluradhu ellam andha kaalam... Situation now is way better than it was 10 yrs ago.... Parents are approving their children's love....

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Oh...

TM,

:clap: :clap: :clap:. Thanks for sharing your history :D.

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Maanatha vAnggura piLLaigaL - appadi patta piLLaigaLE vEnAmngrEn...

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கொஞ்சம் தெளிவாக சொல்றீங்களா?

அதாவது, ஒரு பிள்ளை கொலைகாரன், ஊழல் பேர்வழி, திருடன், பலாத்காரி - அப்படியெல்லாம் இருந்தால் கண்டிப்பாக "மானத்தை வாங்குற" பிள்ளை என்று சொல்லலாம். மனதுக்குக்கஷ்டமென்றாலும் அப்படிப்பட்ட பிள்ளை தண்டனைக்குத்தகுதியானது என்று ஒத்துக்கொள்ளலாம்.

காதல்? அதில் என்ன மானம் போகுது? அவன் என்ன ஒரு பொண்ணைக்கர்ப்பமாக்கிட்டு கைவிட்டுட்டு ஓடுறானா என்ன?

மனம் ஒத்த ரெண்டு பேர் மரியாதையாக மணம் செய்வதில் மானம் எங்கே போகிறது?

புரியலை.

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காதல் பண்ணினால் மானம் போகும் என்று நான் சொல்லவில்லை. Problem arises (for some parents) when 'caste' becomes the issue.
மகள் ஒருவனை காதல் செய்கிறாள் என்று தெரிய வரும்போது, அவன் என்ன வேலை பார்க்கிறான், எப்படிப்பட்டவன், குடும்பம் எப்படி என்ற கேள்விகள் எழும்போது 'ஜாதி' என்றதும் கேள்விக் குறியாகிறது (ஒரு பகுதியினருக்கு).
பெற்றோர் ஒத்துக் கொள்ளவில்லையேல், ஓடிப் போவது, தற்கொலை முயற்சி போன்றவை ஏற்படுமேயானால், அது குடும்ப மானத்திற்கு கடுகளவாவது பங்கம் எற்படுத்தும் என்பது எனது கருத்து.
இதைத் தான் சொல்ல வருகிறேன். :)
Consequences matters.

K_K,
agree on the consequnces on such things.. But athukaaga kola panrathu entha vagailayum sari aagaathu.. :sigh2: ippa kudumba maanathoada uyirum saernthu illa bali aaguthu..

Stanley...

history aa :lol2: :P

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Maanatha vAnggura piLLaigaL - appadi patta piLLaigaLE vEnAmngrEn...

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கொஞ்சம் தெளிவாக சொல்றீங்களா?

அதாவது, ஒரு பிள்ளை கொலைகாரன், ஊழல் பேர்வழி, திருடன், பலாத்காரி - அப்படியெல்லாம் இருந்தால் கண்டிப்பாக "மானத்தை வாங்குற" பிள்ளை என்று சொல்லலாம். மனதுக்குக்கஷ்டமென்றாலும் அப்படிப்பட்ட பிள்ளை தண்டனைக்குத்தகுதியானது என்று ஒத்துக்கொள்ளலாம்.

காதல்? அதில் என்ன மானம் போகுது? அவன் என்ன ஒரு பொண்ணைக்கர்ப்பமாக்கிட்டு கைவிட்டுட்டு ஓடுறானா என்ன?

மனம் ஒத்த ரெண்டு பேர் மரியாதையாக மணம் செய்வதில் மானம் எங்கே போகிறது?

புரியலை.

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காதல் பண்ணினால் மானம் போகும் என்று நான் சொல்லவில்லை. Problem arises (for some parents) when 'caste' becomes the issue.
மகள் ஒருவனை காதல் செய்கிறாள் என்று தெரிய வரும்போது, அவன் என்ன வேலை பார்க்கிறான், எப்படிப்பட்டவன், குடும்பம் எப்படி என்ற கேள்விகள் எழும்போது 'ஜாதி' என்றதும் கேள்விக் குறியாகிறது (ஒரு பகுதியினருக்கு).
பெற்றோர் ஒத்துக் கொள்ளவில்லையேல், ஓடிப் போவது, தற்கொலை முயற்சி போன்றவை ஏற்படுமேயானால், அது குடும்ப மானத்திற்கு கடுகளவாவது பங்கம் எற்படுத்தும் என்பது எனது கருத்து.
இதைத் தான் சொல்ல வருகிறேன். :)
Consequences matters.

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adhukku kolaiyA?

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TM,

:clap: :clap: :clap:. Thanks for sharing your history :D.

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You will get your turn! Start collecting notes! :lol:

Kambar_Kannagi,

உங்கள் விளக்கம் புரிகிறது. அதாவது, சாதியைப்பெரிதாக எண்ணும் பெற்றோர் / சமூகங்கள் இப்படி ஒரு காதல் / கல்யாண முயற்சி / அது தொடர்பான வம்பு வழக்குகளை மானப்பிரச்னையாகக்கருதலாம்.

ஆனால், என்ன காரணங்கள் இருந்தாலும், சாதியின் அடிப்படையிலான வன்முறையை நீங்கள் ஏதோ ஒரு விதத்தில் ஆதரிப்பது (இப்படி ஒரு பிள்ளை இருந்தாலென்ன / செத்தாலென்ன இத்யாதி) மிகவும் உறுத்துகிறது :-(

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ஆனால், என்ன காரணங்கள் இருந்தாலும், சாதியின் அடிப்படையிலான வன்முறையை நீங்கள் ஏதோ ஒரு விதத்தில் ஆதரிப்பது (இப்படி ஒரு பிள்ளை இருந்தாலென்ன / செத்தாலென்ன இத்யாதி) மிகவும் உறுத்துகிறது :-(

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Yes yes.

About our Children

Nama kids kite - thavaru ena ninaikum

vishayathirkum - Parents dhan porupu.

So., is Love wrong? - naam sariyara valarthavilai endru dhan artham.

cast and other things - idharkum Parents dhan porupu.

Naam enna katru koduthomo - adhai kuzhandhaigal katru kollum.

Parents in pazhakum vazhakam

idhai kids gavanikaranga.

endha vidhathilo, nam kuzhandhaiku
naam role model agirom.

so,

Nam kuzhandhaigalidam parum thavaruku

kaaranam - Parents - nammai than serum.

endru unarndhu,

kuzhandhaigalai Guide panni, help panni,

Nalla Manidhanaga valartha vendum..

Love and cast - Pona Generation (enga period um dhan)

Love - thappana seyal. kadhalipavargal - kettavargal.
kolai seivadhai pola oru ketta kaariyam - indha love.....

ipadi valarka patta Ivargalal - epadi Love ai
easy aga eduthu kolla muidyum.......

enna anal enna...
kaalam kadandhu vandhagi vittadhu.

Indha Love um thappu ilai. Cast and other things ku value koduthu -

Manadhai suruki kolla vendam.

idhu dhan en feelings.

TM,
hmm ku artham - apram enna achu...

unga love story ai kaekaren nu artham..... :D

Thiru

Pls kantinue ur istory, we are all eager to here it, kathaiya start paniteeu mudikaaama vitta epadi saar, pls kantinuee ur mumbai gilma incident :lol2:

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Pls kantinue ur istory

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I don't think this is encouraging for him :). Is it his "history" of love incidents or is it just one love incident he is narrating?

Little busy with some home functions.. will try to complete today or tomm :)

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Little busy with some home functions.. will try to complete today or tomm :)

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pls o :redjump:

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Little busy with some home functions .. will try to complete today or tomm :)

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Oh - nEthu ezhudhina matterukkE, innikku vootula "poosai" nadakkudhA? ini engE nInga micha kadhaiya ezhudhuradhu?!

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Little busy with some home functions .. will try to complete today or tomm :)

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Oh - nEthu ezhudhina matterukkE, innikku vootula "poosai" nadakkudhA? ini engE nInga micha kadhaiya ezhudhuradhu?!

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no no , Anni hubbing ellam 'Perusa' panna maatangalam, so Thiru anNan is safe :lol2:

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Teaching continued for few days :yakyak:

Then came a good news which in one way a bad news :sigh2:

Keep Guessing. :roll: . That comes in next Part.. btw what happened to Miss. R ? athuvum aduththa part :noteeth:

kavalai vaendaam rasiga perumakkalae ( :shock: ), eppadiyum aduththa part la mudichiduren :think:

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:P :)

Continue tm :)

R to K's wife name itself was AN UNEXPECTED twist :lol2:

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Ok, indha pidiyungaL BGM

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:rotfl2: good ones!!

tm, pls kantinuu....

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Prasannaa matrum silarin vaendugoalukinanga en Muthan Muthal Kaathal anubavam :oops:

So Called Love Story 2000 :noteeth:

College mudichittu vaelayila illaatha samayam. (Engineering mudichaachu, Periya companies ellaam veetu kathava thatti vaela kodupaangannu ninaichittu job application kooda poatthilla. :sigh2: Ithukkum Final sem la Oru subject la arrear vachchavan :rotfl2: ) Chennai la irukiratha vida Job oppurtunities Mumbai la easy ngrathaala Mumbai la poi therinjavar veetla Daeraa poataachu.. (Antop Hill, Mumbai, November 1999)

Mumbai ennai vaada thonnai nnu koopttu sila unmaya puriya vachchathu.. Ithu vaelaikaagaathunnu, SSI institute la Java Course join pannaen.. Place : Bandra, Mumbai.

Like in all computer institutes, Java course which is suppose to be completed in 2 months, did not even complete 2 chapters even after 2 months.. It is better to start reading on own.. Computers are there plenty.. In a matter of 3 weeks niraya vishayam kaththukittaachu.. Anga vara other students kku vara doubts, bugs ellaam clear panra job a sambalam vaangaama en self improvement kaaga pannittu iruntha samayam..

March Mid, 2000 one day..
One person to a very sexy girl, showing me: "You can ask him, he may solve your doubts" :mrgreen: Her name starts with R :P In a jeans, a weather Jacket, she sat next to me :redjump: :bluejump: :black_jump: :mrgreen: :noteeth:

Institute la iruntha my Mumbai handsome friends galukku kaathula puga varaatha kura, during her arrivals and her stay and my doubt solving sessions to her :rotfl2:

Java therinji vachikittu nee panra rousu thaanga mudiyalainnu enkitta pulambi theerpaanga :P

For the Records sake, She was the first girl i officially started talking with (well, vayasukku vanthathukku appuram :oops: ) :boo:

Viewers response paarthuttu, To be continued :roll: Kathayila inimae thaan twist ae :think:

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Few Days after my intro with R... the same person who had shown myself to R, in similiar manner diverted a guy ( :argh: ) towards me to solve the doubts.. That time only i had noted that aal Kaatti person Properly.. Like in Vaali, It was love at second Sight :wink:
Oh yeah .. She was my first Love :P

First time naan yaen avala sariyaa note pannalainnu ellaarukkum purinjirukkum :fishgrin:

Antha payyana enna noakki vittuttu naan paarthathum chinnathaa Oru Punnagai.. Pachakunnu ava manasula ottikitta.. :P ( naan maththavangala paarthu sirichathukku pazhi vaanganumnu ninaikiravanga manasukullayae sirichikoanga :ashamed: )

Antha rendu paarvai kku munnaala avala naan note pannathilla.. Then i came to know that she joined as a faculty there a week before. :D

She was a faculty, I was a student there.. But for doubts clarification she was pushing people to me. :lol2: Well, she joined for teaching scripting languages like JavaScript, html, etc..

[Her name is Karnan's wife name :P She is not modern like most Mumbai girls.. Romba simple aa iruppaa, Konjam traditional Maharashtrian girl :P ]

For Practice purposes Computers were kept in 2 big cabins separated by a glass window. when she is on the other side, naan avala note panrathum, ava enna note panrathum was continuing for few days :)

Ippadi paarthutae irunthaa enna aagurathu..aduthta step kku poaga vaenaamaannu naan :think:
She itself came to me few days later, asking me to teach Java to her :wink: Karumbu thinga ethukku kooli :boo:

Teaching continued for few days :yakyak: (yethaachum oru nalla bgm/ songs poattu kaetukoanga :lol2: )

Then came a good news which in one way a bad news :sigh2:

Keep Guessing. :roll: . That comes in next Part.. btw what happened to Miss. R ? athuvum aduththa part :noteeth:

kavalai vaendaam rasiga perumakkalae ( :shock: ), eppadiyum aduththa part la mudichiduren :think:

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Let me complete with the Side Story.

R became a good friend for me and in turn for some more friends of mine there. Most of the times she would come with a jeans and a sleeveless T shirt :P No wonder, the whole institute's eyes were on her and she had real sexy looks too :wink:

In our group One guy (Raj) was in love with R.
After a month or So..

Raj was asking me some ideas for conveying his love or whatever to her :lol2: . He is of my age.


I told him : Dont get deceived by the looks. i am pretty sure she would be definitely elder than us by 2-3 years. Will u still be interested in her :P

Raj : Thiru dont say that.. How are u so sure :roll:

Me : that is business secrets. :poke: What will u do if she is elder than you ?

Raj : Dont know . :(

Me : :rotfl2: dont worry she might be having a sister. :P

Raj : :noteeth: .. How to find her real age ?

Me: Wait for few days :P

In a day or 2 when R was present, Oru chinna puzzle i conducted for few along with R.

ungalla niraya paerukku therinjathuthaan. oru number ninaichikanum,and with certain multiplication, addition etc.. in one way the real age of the person could be found. A 3 digit number would be result.. The first is the number the person thought and the next 2 digits is the age.

Athulayum ovvoruthara conduct pannaa therinjidum.. So i made to participate all at a time.. When R's turn came she said 427 but in a moment she changed it to 422, realising what it would be.. :rotfl2:
:P

At that time we were 23 years.

Raj appuram oru maasathukku thaadiyoada irunthaangrathu vaera vishayam :mrgreen:

Main story's Continuation in the next and final part.. :P

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Pls kantinue ur istory

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I don't think this is encouraging for him :). Is it his "history" of love incidents or is it just one love incident he is narrating?

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onne onnu thaan.. history of love incidents ellaam sonnaa wife, ponnu, payyan ellaam saernthu uthaipaanga :sigh2:

eppadi safe aa friend nnu solli mudichitoamla :noteeth:

Ok, no specific BGM for this but theme music ready for Thirumaran's story:
ooru vittu ooru vandhu kaadhal keedhal paNNAdhInga

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Ok, no specific BGM for this but theme music ready for Thirumaran's story:
ooru vittu ooru vandhu kaadhal keedhal paNNAdhInga

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:lol2: :thumbsup:

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In our group One guy (Raj) was in love with R.
After a month or So..

Raj was asking me some ideas for conveying his love or whatever to her . He is of my age.

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Reminds me of something in high school. Many girls had their eyes on one attractive good looking guy about four five years older than my self. I had a crush on him too. :D :lol: It was coming up to valetine. Then one girl I know Val, came to me and asked me to deliver a valentine card to the guy and I did. :wink: But something more interesting happened about three four years later. :o

TM wrote:

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I am pretty sure she would be definitely elder than us by 2-3 years. Will u still be interested in her

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It is not uncommon these days for a man to marry an older lady by few years. I don't like it personally.

Younger men were always interested in older ladies and vice versa, but not necessarily for marriage. I guess, the reason being, it is not a socially acceptable thing.

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Younger men were always interested in older ladies and vice versa, but not necessarily for marriage.

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always nnu ellaam solla mudiyaathu.. But why not :noteeth:

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I guess, the reason being, it is not a socially acceptable thing.

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yeah.. but love ippadi patta ilakanathayellaam meera vaenaamaa :P

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In our group One guy (Raj) was in love with R.
After a month or So..

Raj was asking me some ideas for conveying his love or whatever to her . He is of my age.

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Reminds me of something in high school. Many girls had their eyes on one attractive good looking guy about four five years older than my self. I had a crush on him too. :D :lol: It was coming up to valetine. Then one girl I know Val, came to me and asked me to deliver a valentine card to the guy and I did. :wink: But something more interesting happened about three four years later. :o

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What's that! Why suspense? :) ;)

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In our group One guy (Raj) was in love with R.
After a month or So..

Raj was asking me some ideas for conveying his love or whatever to her . He is of my age.

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Reminds me of something in high school. Many girls had their eyes on one attractive good looking guy about four five years older than my self. I had a crush on him too. :D :lol: It was coming up to valetine. Then one girl I know Val, came to me and asked me to deliver a valentine card to the guy and I did. :wink: But something more interesting happened about three four years later. :o

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What's that! Why suspense? :) ;)

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itha naan miss pannitaen..

athaanae, enna athu :noteeth:

No no Plum, No nakkaling. Annan TM's love is deiveegamanadhu. We will use this :lol:

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Ok, no specific BGM for this but theme music ready for Thirumaran's story:
ooru vittu ooru vandhu kaadhal keedhal paNNAdhInga

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What's that! Why suspense? :) ;)

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I am only adopting TN's tricks - to keep the suspense. 8-)

sigh ive been controlling my desire to dedicate bgm for tm.

so here it goes

oyaari paanipuri
bambaay naari nee than enthan nagma nagma nagma :rotfl2:

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Does this thread still exist? :o

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Now this thread exists for sharing personal love(so called thaan ) experiences.. :P

next u can share urs :P

TM, idhu unga sondha story'a? :shock:

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TM, idhu unga sondha story'a? :shock:

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Story, screenplay, dialogues, direction ellaamae enthu thaan..

BGM kku mattum Plum.. Plum rest edukkum boathu Shakthiprabha kku chance :boo:

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Does this thread still exist? :o

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Now this thread exists for sharing personal love(so called thaan ) experiences.. :P

next u can share urs :P

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You will make people here like me re-live days of young sweet hearts. :fishgrin:

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TM, idhu unga sondha story'a? :shock:

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PinnE kovilla yaaro ezhudi koduthadha inga vandhu type pandraarunnu ninaikkareengalaa?

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TM, idhu unga sondha story'a? :shock:

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PinnE kovilla yaaro ezhudi koduthadha inga vandhu type pandraarunnu ninaikkareengalaa?

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:rotfl2:

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In our group One guy (Raj) was in love with R.
After a month or So..

Raj was asking me some ideas for conveying his love or whatever to her . He is of my age.

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Reminds me of something in high school. Many girls had their eyes on one attractive good looking guy about four five years older than my self. I had a crush on him too. :D :lol: It was coming up to valetine. Then one girl I know Val, came to me and asked me to deliver a valentine card to the guy and I did. :wink: But something more interesting happened about three four years later. :o

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What's that! Why suspense? :) ;)

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Yea! It was about four plus years later (I had to truly recap), he came to meet my parents and propose marriage. He didn't say I love your daughter. He only spoke of my character since he knew me. He was the first one to propose. We never dated or anything like that – those things unheard of - the gap remained during those years. No love expressed or anything. I only know at the movies he would find a seat behind me and on the way home, he would ride at the side of me on the other side/corner of the road. I guess the love must have been implied or instinctual. :?

If dating or speaking was allowed then, I don’t know what it would have been.

I have nothing more to add as to what happened next, so don't ask. :wink:[/tscii]