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sinthiya,
I dont believe every pair can have it.
I wish to state, THERE IS A POSSIBILITY of JUST LOVE with no LUST. :) (May be a rarity, yet it does exist). Yeah ofcourse I am talkin bout wife/hus relationship only.
////////I can see where you're coming from.../////////
U lost me here :? come again plz.
SP,I disagree with u when u say lust is such a strong emotion that it does not stay in the background.I think it can.Any pair romantically involved (Lamby,GG pls note:I stress..pair and romantically involved here :P) has lust in the background.Whether they act upon it or not is anyones guess.If there is no lust in the background ,then I would think that theres something seriously wrong with them.
Refer to chappani's first post,he said that his friend refused to act upon his feelings bcoz his wife was not able to(she was physically not fit).Nowhere does it say that he(chappani's friend) didnt have those feelings.I dont think its in human nature.IMO a healthy dose of lust makes a relationship more strong and fun :).
I am not very sure what is there in this topic?
In the age lesser than 16 You never know what is lust or love rather you have some curiosity to know about that.
In the age from 16 to 20 you know what is love(Including Infactuations) and lust, but which one exceeds? it depends from person to person.A bunch of people will have interest on love and a set will have interest on the lust.It depends on the persons individual brought up and environment.
In the age range from 20 to 40 .. You marry somebody and you definitely need lust to increase your generation but You will love your partner also(Illana veetula saapadu kedaikuma :roll: )..Infact both lust and love will be weighed equally in this period.
Above 40... Love wins lust by a big margin.That is the pure love.25 to 30 years of married life ..lived a complete life..Shared everything..And definitely Love leads lust here...
So age is the biggest factor..It is the one which descides whether you prefer Love or Lust.So according to my view Lust might lead Love before your marriage....Again this is applicable if you are a normal human being :lol2:
I WISH TO WITHDRAW from this argument ATLEAST temporarily.
NO OFFENSE please :)
carry on all.
ok...maybe...rare situations...i understand....Quote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
even then, i think there is a little bit of lust...that's just me....
i'm sorry for the confusion...that's my slang for 'i understand what you're saying'....that's all....Quote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
:)
:D kewl sinthiya.
I actually feel stranded and quite lost as to how to argue with so many of u.
May be u all have a point. (u talk bout 99 percent of cases)
May be I have a point too (I talk about the rarest 1 percent case)
:)
yet, majority wins.
so cheers to all of you. :)
U may be rite.....but only upto a certain period & in certain quantities......u've got to know wher to draw the line! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by ssanjinika
Jus like a healthy dose of spice makes the dish more tasty & exciting but mus be cautious abt how to add & at wat point while cooking the dish.....adding too much or at the wrong time of cooking wud make the dish itself unfit for eating! And u surely cant substitute the spice as the salt of the dish at ne time!
Besides, IMO even otherwise u cud always manage having the dish minus the spice if the latter is unavailable for sum reason......?
Phew....best eg. I cud think of! :P :D
U got that rite Lamby!Quote:
Originally Posted by Lambretta
Anything in moderation :).Alavukku meeriNal amirthamum vishyam aagum!
Today no updation in this topic...??? Very Strange!
UPdation:Quote:
Originally Posted by Sanguine Sridhar
We have won the battle :lol2: