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Originally Posted by Thirumaran
Vivek says : ahaa enangada ithu Sunday's la podura 'Mahabaratham' mathiri Mega serial h irkue, yescape :rotfl2: :yessir:
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Originally Posted by Thirumaran
Vivek says : ahaa enangada ithu Sunday's la podura 'Mahabaratham' mathiri Mega serial h irkue, yescape :rotfl2: :yessir:
:rotfl: :rotfl:Quote:
Originally Posted by ajithfederer
Ramona :cool2:
btw what is ur real name ? same as the id :roll:
Final Part Hopefully :wink:Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
The good news which i got is a Job. My First Job. Almost 2 years after completing my degree :P
It was an instructor job in a different center and my first salary we as Rs. 5000 :P While in SSI, one of the Student, who is a Chartered accountant, was quite impressed with me and my talents (not the chatting talent :roll: ) introuced me to his Friend who started running a new computer center.
That is a bad news because, it was just few weeks we started talking a bit and i had to leave her without any further improvement :sigh2: I was placed in Churchgate, Mumbai.. which is nearly a hour travel from bandra.
[nalla vaela loosuthanamaaa, job offer avoid pannala.. illaina inga yaaraachchum, like vivek in Boys "Purithu, ava madilayae oru idam kidaikkumaanu paarthirukeenga" nnu mokka poattu irupeenga :lol2: ]
But i was lucky that my work timings there was 7 Am to 3 PM. Her shift timings in SSI is from 12 to 9 PM.
From that day, the following was my routine..
Wake up time : 5 am... Starting to work by 6 AM. Leaving from work 3 PM. Reaching SSI at 4 PM.. Since my java course was not completed there i could go there. As there too, i was helping no one questions me.. I leave for home from there by, wait... u shd know that now :huh: :wink:
ivvalavu kastapattum, the time i could spend with her would be 15 to 30 minutes in the institute.. Athuvum konjam teaching and few jokes and stuffs.. nothing else :sigh2:
Ivvalavu time paithiyakaarathanamaa spend panrathu Ore vishayathukaaga.. while leaving for home from SSI, me and her would start together from the institue till Bandra Railway station.. 20 minutes walk time.. The most valuable time during those period :P
[A note on bandra Railway station.. People are free to leave this. (Of course, they can leave the main story itself :noteeth: ) In Kaathalar thinam movie you could have seen that.. In chennai we have, Beach-tambaram line, Beach - Velachery line.. Similiarly there 3 different lines.. harbour line, Western line and central line.. From Bandra all the 3 different lines can be travelled.. while travelling home from ssi, i take harbour line... Bandra-kings circle.. From my work place, i take western line.. Churchgate - Bandra ]
From Bandra station, i take platform 7/8 towards my place Antop Hill.. She takes platform 5/6 to travel Sion (Central Line), her place.
We used to share few smiles from the platform itself till some one's train come. :P
This was routine for few months. Lots of talks.. As usual like i do, chinna chinna kindalgal.. Great times. In between there was a tour to Lonavala organised by SSI.. Great time there too :P But "paechu paechchaa thaan irukanum" nnu manasukkulla sollikuvaen...
Ennamo therila, en love ava kitta sollrathukku thairiyamae varala :sigh2: she knows i love her and i know she loves me :|
Climax : One day she informed me that she is transfered to another branch and would be leaving this institute in another 2 weeks. Ottu moththa body um varandu poana maathiri feeling...
Athu oru friday.. eppadiyum Monday sollidanumnu mudivoada annaikku veetukku poanaen... Niraya Sinthanaigal for the next 2 days...
Appa thaan Family paththina yosanaigalum vanthichchu...
From my side, there wont be any problems.. My dad would love to see that his son also capable of winning a girl's heart :noteeth: Ammaa konjam yosipaanga.. But it is a matter of few days to convince her.
naan romba yosichathu avanga side.. She has a younger brother and sister.. Ethirthtu kalyaanam pannikittaa, kandippaa few people would be affected.. Ethirkirathaala naanga appa pirinjaa, athoada vali yum romba athigam..
Sari, entha prachanayum illaama smooth aa poanaalum.. there is a language issue.. Definitely her family, relations would be eager to have conversation with me as well as my family side and the same case with my side as well.. Romba basic a sila vishayam affect aaguthae..
I decided better not to tell certain things. She might have thought few things too..The rest 2 weeks the days went so fast..
During the last day naan kaetkaamalayae, Avaloada phone number koduthittu poana.. But i never called her.. :
Memories are there and that is more than enough for me :)
TM, :)
TM,
jollya aarambichu sokama mudinju pona padam paartha effect... feeling sad :( not happy with the climax..
anyway great narration.. :clap: :clap: :thumbsup:
TM :D Neenga oru pakkaa gentleman. En manasula unga mEla vechirundha mariyaadhai pala madangu uyarndhudichu :clap: Ur wife is a lucky woman brother!
I had to think carefully before responding. Coincidentally, the rest of the story, coincides with my true identity, the very reason I decided not to tell it here.Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
Funny enough, you asked for my real name. :musicsmile:
I have a friend who is in love with a girl from north. She accepted his proposal. But, he decided to back-out because the girl's parents are very conservative and may harm that girl. Also, he said to me that he can get married to her and make her live safe in TN. But, he does not want to get married without the blessings of the parents and create problems for that girl's siblings's future. TM story padichappa idhudhaan nyaabagam vandhadu.
The rest of my story falls somewhere along these lines. Further details are concealed in keeping peace.Quote:
Originally Posted by sathya_1979
Idhukkudhaan ore oru ponna love panna koodaadhu. Namma policy (Courtesy Gounder Annan) - "I will marry you, all I will marry you" :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by Ramona
Love marriage namadhu pirappurimai, adhai seidhe theeruvOm!
It's interesting that you made that post right after mine as if you knew what I was withholding. :lol:
mmm. Maybe coincidence.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ramona
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Originally Posted by crazy
Got a strange feeling and didn't know what to write. AdhaanQuote:
Originally Posted by sathya_1979
For what? my post? Or TM Story? Or wanted to write ur own experience?Quote:
Originally Posted by crazy
My experience ....It's on going. Kalyanathila vandhu mudicha udan post pannuren :)
It was for TM's story.
Best wishes! Yeah TM kadhaiya padicha udane enakku VTV ganesh dialoguedhaan nyaabagam vandhadhu "En manasula ninnutta da thambi (Annan)"Quote:
Originally Posted by crazy
:ty:
:)
Can't get over TM asking me my real name which coincide with the untold part of the story, the reason for not telling it and Sathya telling a story that kind a ends off mine; the untold part, right after a certain post. All happening one after the other.
This is all very suspicious. :wink: :think:
Thiru: Based on the story you wrote in here seems like, it was a just a crush (the love which was never expressed). I believe that many of us do live with crushes no matter you are married or not married.
There is a huge difference between untold love than the ones who have love stories. A female and a male looking at each other on an everyday basis, or having fun conversations is normal.
This thread deserves a title of either 'crushes in my life' or 'unexpressed love'.
Love is a very powerful word and feeling. Without love, we won't have parents, husbands, wives, children, girlfriends or boyfriends and so on. Regardless married or not married, loving someone or being loved is a wonderful thing. It gives you a great disappointment to read the title and to go over the posts that were written in here. Please don't compare having crushes with love. Love is eternal and it exists even after you die!
:exactly: You have hit the nail on the head, Priya! I suppose TM also wants the youngsters to know the difference between love and crush.
'Act first and rue later' is the proverb that came to mind when I finished reading the final part of TM's story. How is it possible to forget/ignore the incompatibilities/problems right at the start, before entertaining marriage thoughts/dreams/desires? :roll: 'Love'(the socalled love) is blind(thoughtless)? :huh:
The heart aches, headaches and other consequences from a simple proposal is enough. Sometimes you wish it never happened.
Who is to be blamed? How often youngsters know the difference between love and crush if they ever gave it a thought or were ever in the position to do so. How worse would it have been in the circumstances, had it been love and not crush. :)
Can't imagine 'love' divorced from wisdom!!! :huh:
When there is wisdom automatically follow patience, acceptance and decision.
TM,Interesting story,i Had a similar crush story when i was doing my 10th Std. :) anyhow thanks for sharing :cool2:
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Originally Posted by priya32
oh I didn't know u were out with ur final part.
:D 'setha poNam' mathiri feel panna kooda chance irukku... :lol2:Quote:
Ottu moththa body um varandu poana maathiri feeling...
I know what it is!!! Apramum vazhnthukittu thaan rukkom :) ...illaiya?!
Sorry tm.... A BOLD STEP was awaited from ur part and U DIDN'T TAKE THAT STEP. Very dissapointing. No stone should be left unturned. And then if things dont work out, one can always back out or decide for their parents or whatever acc to their pesonal view and choice.Quote:
Sari, entha prachanayum illaama smooth aa poanaalum.. there is a language issue.. Definitely her family, relations would be eager to have conversation with me as well as my family side and the same case with my side as well.. Romba basic a sila vishayam affect aaguthae..
Ramona,
:) Thanks for sharing ur story.
It is how we look at Shakthi, which is bold or which is not. :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
Well from the perspective of Love, that is not a bold one.
Actually at a different stage of life, i thought, there might be lots of fun within the family and relation because of the language itelf. I might have learnt her language and vice versa.. apuram atha spread panrathula ulla santhoasangal nnu innum kooda interesting aa irunthirukalaam :P
That is the thought i had that time.
But overall aa paartha, love ngra oru vishayam maththavangala affect panrathaa irukka koodaathu..In my case mostly it would end up in affecting people.. It is not just only abt my love ending up in success.
vedha vaakku :clap: :clap:Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
I understand and give u full credit for that.Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
tm, life la , oru sila perai affect panaama padhi vishayam seyyave muydiyathu. Yup in this case, HOW MUCH is the impact and HOW IMPORTANT are ppl who would be unhappy with your decision matters.Quote:
But overall aa paartha, love ngra oru vishayam maththavangala affect panrathaa irukka koodaathu..In my case mostly it would end up in affecting people.. It is not just only abt my love ending up in success.
Whether or not it was possible or feasible, a beautiful feeling left UNCOMMUNICATED, I feel such a relatiosnhip is incomplete :|
Amma appa, siblings, freinds, cousins evlovo relationships irukku. Beautiful relationships! Friendship! Dont we communicate how much they matter to us! How happy we having them around us. Even if they are miles apart how lovely to know someone somewhere wishes good and cares for us! Love is not a weird relationship, its one amongst that. Azhaga communicate pannitu, apram, sariya varlaiya varuma nnu yoschu one can decide their life.
Sariya varlaina kooda paravalla...completing a beautiufl relatioship, with warm wishes and good feeling, wishing them well in life and if possible moving on sounds nice. May be that would give u an assurance love exists :)
Love is an excellent relationship. Its beautiful. I do not understand why it has to be looked upon as a taboo or something alarming to be conveyed or communicated. Love NEED NOT end in marriage. Love need not end with sexual or marital relationship alone. Marriage or sex alone need not be the clmax of any nice sincere love.
That is what vtv climax says......athanaala thaan ungalukku pudilaiayo :lol: ) now that the topic is back to vtv, this thread is complete too :rotfl2:
My 1000 cents!
athe thaan naanum solla varen.. Konjam time eduthtu yosichchu paarunga... There is lots of chance for such things in my case.. naan appa 2 days yosichcha vishayam ellaathayum inga kondu varathu saathiyam illa.. neenga out of box la konjam yosichchu paarunga :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
and regarding yaarayum affect pannaama onnumae seyya mudiyaathunnu.. ippa oru super figure enna love pannuthunnu vachchikonga.. :shock: :roll: pala paera affect pannalaam.. athellaam oru case naa naan eduthtukka mudiyum :noteeth:
Of course.. naan complete nnu sollavae illayae :wink:Quote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
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Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
Do u think i cant communicate well for such things ? :P It is not abt that.
Athe than naanum solraen with one more point.. Love need not to be told necessarily. For almost 5 months of relation we know each other very much, we care for each other a lot and so on, by Orally not saying that i love her or vice versa.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
There is a dialogue in VV .. Jothika to Kamal when kamal expressed his love "sila vishayangal sollaama irukirathe nallathunnu ungalukku theriyaathatha" .. Mine is not exactly the case.. But for me too i thought on the same lines.
Love pannaa antha love Oru theliva undu pannanum, nithaanaththa kodukkum.. May be u might get anger with the ones u love, but namma koavam on them extend aachchunu to others that might not be love. Love ngrathu nammala paththi mattumae yosikka vaikaama maththavangalukkaagavum yosikka vaikanum...
Sila vishayangala sacrifice kooda pannalaam :roll:
paarunga, neenga solra vishayam ellaam right aa wrong aa ngrathu vaera vishayam.. nithaanamaa paesureenga, neenga paesura vishayathula thelivaa paesureenga.. because u love ur daughter, husband and ur surroundings..
Ippa enakku enga appaava romba pidikkum.. Atha sollithaanaaa avar therinjikkanum.. avar engala romba virumbinaar ngratha ithu varaikkum sonnathae illa. . athukaaga avar engala love pannalainnu aagi poidumaa..Naama oruthtar paerla vaikira kaathal sila activities moolamaa kooda purinjikalaam. whether the concerned person know or not.
btw..ennoadathu kooda so called love thaannnu naan title layae sollitaen :noteeth:
Thiru - two years after degreeQuote:
Originally Posted by Appu s
Appu - 10th std
Appu pinjulEyE pazhutha case-A illai TM late pickup-A?
Thiru, btw, :bow:
But, as Priya32 said, love story-nA, innum konjam edhir pArthEn - oru gowtham menon levelku :-). idhu only crush dhAn.
Without offence, namma sathya1979-ai avarOda crush pathi ellAm sollunganu indha thread-ai nadathinA evLO page thErum. sathya?
VTV paththi paesaatheenga.. Naama friend ship a pazhaguvoamnu sollittu next day train la manmatha leelaigal ellaam panna aarambichiduvaar Simbu... Trisha aduthta naal, "naan yaen unna athukku allow pannaennu therila" nnu sollum :rotfl2: what a comedy.. :lol2:Quote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
neenga kooda thamizh cinemaa paarthu kettu poana kootathula oruththara irupeenagnnu naan ninaikavae illa :yessir:Quote:
Originally Posted by Plum
appu manmathan illayaa :wink:Quote:
Originally Posted by Plum
ellaam irukkattum free ya story padichchavanga either share their ones to come to conclusion on what was that :lol2:
or keep some money in my bank account :evil:
பேராசை :lol2:Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
Goundamani :- nee sonna indha vaakkiyaththa appadiyE thanjaavur kalvettula ezhuthittu (GM fans complete the sentence)Quote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
:yessir: