Violence against women

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It can be otherway too. There are many women, who take adv of beign a woman. I am sure all mustve seen 'sigappu rojakkal'.

Stories are not just out of nowhere. It portrays real life in many cases.

It is such a shameful thing to think, that MOTHERS OF THESE DAYS, are too careful about child abuse, (as young as 3 or 4 year old children) that they dont even let any distant relative carry the child. :(

Feeling sad bout the scenario. One becoems sceptic about everything, every situation and every person around. THAT IS NOT HEALTHY.

I wonder what else is the solution ?!?

Recently, my freind had her 6 yera old daughter complaining of indecent touches by the GYM owner :(

My friend WAS UNBABLE TO initially handle it. Then she I guess, spoke to that guy(though he had explannations reg the same), and to her daughter.

When the child is small enought that they cant express, many men(or women too?!? ..not sure) take adv. SICK AND SAD.

Sad that mothers need to educate a child about BAD AND GOOD TOUCHES at the age of 6!!!!!!!!!!!!! :(

Where are we heading? :(

so much for indian culture!

Oops!Not too sure about that Indian culture part.In western culture,it is probably more than what we see in ours.

It is only a child's right to discover his or her identity in this world without having to carry the burden of other people's sins.
And I feel outraged to hear such incidents as I am sure that all these children will virtually spent their childhood in shame and humility,which they certainly don't deserve.They feel the guilt all the way,while they are only victims!

And as you said it is very unfortunate that a mother has to teach a six year old about good and bad touches.

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Originally Posted by shakthi

It can be otherway too. There are many women, who take adv of beign a woman. I am sure all mustve seen 'sigappu rojakkal'.

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Exactly !! Good you came out with it coz, I was planning to discuss on that too. I have seen by myself and have heard from various people about these kind of perverted women who try to hang on their male superiors with the idea of getting increments, promotions and various other benefits. :x This kind of perverted behaviour of these women gives a bad impression about the other women too.
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I saw a news item recently about a female teacher in Australia - who was accused of sexual abuse of one of her male students who was around 12. :twisted: Sickening creachers ! :twisted:

[quote="RoshanI have seen by myself and have heard from various people about these kind of perverted women who try to hang on their male superiors with the idea of getting increments, promotions and various other benefits. :x This kind of perverted behaviour of these women gives a bad impression about the other women too. :evil: [/quote]

Yea I agree whole-heartedly! :)
I'm sure I'm not the only one whoz heard of those boss-secretary stories! I'd even read in the local paper tat secretaries behave like tat and even dress the way they do so the boss won't regard them as 'nobodys' or 'wimps'......tats of course considered part & parcel of the promotion/bonus idea from their side! Y go 4 such jobs then?! Sick ppl.! :evil:

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Originally Posted by jaiganes

Are there any female dominated offices?

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Um....not many offices but public schools in India r more or less 'female-dominated' workplaces.....nearly all of the teachers there r women, and the Principals r also in most cases women so I (personally) think tats one of the jobs 4 women in India where they seldom face ne interference/troubles, as opposed to the ones where males r the majority/superiors......just IMHO!
Conversely, one of my lecturers here in sing. told me abt countries like Australia where there r chances of males getting harassed in such workplaces..... sorry but I cudn't help finding it amusing to think abt it at 1st......cos we r more used to hearing abt women being at the receiving end! :)

It is better that schools are female dominated as we donot want young minds to get corrupted by some nuts. I had a Thamizh teacher who used to come to class fully drunk!! There were instances where he corrected mid term "French" papers in mabbu (influence) and one student got 110 out of 100 as our drunken monk gave 2 marks for 1 mark questions!!! :lol: :lol: :lol: Cannot imagine a lady doing the same!!!!!

hey i wonder, how many watches hindi movies.

There is one recently about male harassing issue.

cast : akshay kumar, priyanka and kareena..in 'AITRAAZ'
(A remake of english movie 'DISCOURSE'-demimoore, douglas)

Hey Shakti i know it was said before but i really have to commend you for coming out and discussing a valid issue...again i do agree with Roshan about the testing...that's why i thought it was too drastic... i too have had an ECG (electrocardiogram) done when i was about seven for slight heart murmer...again female doc and lots of nurses...well mostly cause i was trying to get away! :roll: anyways let it be past..hope talking about has lessened some of the strife you have associated with the incident...

btw Davie thanx alot for the advice...will watch out for that...but i have been taking iron supplements which seem to be helping me :D

There are not only direct 'hang ons' but also indirect ones.
If they cant get anywhere near the boss, well you can then detect them within the 50m radius with the ppl the bosses are close to.

But then again, this indirect 'hang ons' are done by both the genders.

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Originally Posted by Roshan

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Originally Posted by shakthi

It can be otherway too. There are many women, who take adv of beign a woman. I am sure all mustve seen 'sigappu rojakkal'.

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Exactly !! Good you came out with it coz, I was planning to discuss on that too. I have seen by myself and have heard from various people about these kind of perverted women who try to hang on their male superiors with the idea of getting increments, promotions and various other benefits. :x This kind of perverted behaviour of these women gives a bad impression about the other women too.
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I saw a news item recently about a female teacher in Australia - who was accused of sexual abuse of one of her male students who was around 12. :twisted: Sickening creachers ! :twisted:

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I think hangons such as the ones to get increments and promotions need not be between men and women. We all know that similar things happen every where, in tamil (kaaka pudikkuradhu) :) . We are always attracted by the opposite gender. I think its our innate human characteristic. Most of the dads like their daughters more than their moms and vice versa. We can notice many such kind of similar behaviors in humans. I think there is nothing wrong in all these. Exclude abnormal beings like the teacher that roshan was mentioning. I am just refering to mentally healthy human beings. Ratchasi was saying about direct and indirect kind of hangons. Well indirect never works most of the time :rotfl: