BECKHAMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
:shock: :evil: :roll:
I can tell u, i have had sooooooooooo many freinds, all close enough YET ONLY FREINDS :evil:
grow up beckham :huh:
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BECKHAMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
:shock: :evil: :roll:
I can tell u, i have had sooooooooooo many freinds, all close enough YET ONLY FREINDS :evil:
grow up beckham :huh:
Hmm......yea in many cases guys can also hav a crush over sumone else acuainted/related to the person they 'befriend'.....Quote:
Originally Posted by Beckham
They may even befriend tat person w/ the intention of getting closer to the one they hav a crush on! :oops:
But I've never had this motive in my experience! :P :lol:
Excuse! A guys perspective would be absolutely different!! Dont get confuse it with yours!Quote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
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They were my friends beckham. I am clever enough to realise any hesitation on anyone's part. :roll:
Do u ppl mean there can never be ANY PLATONIC RELATIONSHIP AT ALLLLLLLLLL??????
I cant buy that. defintely NO.
Now this is a open challenge to all the Guys? Answer this from your heart! Have you ever had crush with your friend(Girl) .. Or Do u really think that there is a relationship called 'Thozhi' exist? I mean that this relationship with that girl should be as close as to a guy!
God after yesterday having to stay in office late due to extra time on forum, thought I would say away for a while. But looking at your question, there is a bit of guilt not to respond.
I prefer and enjoy male friendships than females (may be this will change after marriage if that is in my planet. If you want to know the reasons for my preference, only ask, I have a long one). There is a variety of situations here, from pure friendship, to him or I wanting something more (I mean something closer), but it just can't be, so we stay friends. Some you speak to ofent, once in a while and for others, a year could pass. They say however, that there is no such thing as pure male/female friendship, there is always something more :P I don't really think so.
Yesterday I posted in the "aging thread", my experience about that "crush" thing and soon after I realized what I did, I deleted it and edited the pevious one. I hope not too many people saw it 8-)
Beckam, I agree with you!!! I am reminded of the song,"thozaa thozaa, kanavuth thoza" from "Paandavar boomi", a song that makes me gnash my teeth!!!
Agree there is always an "element of romantic interest" when it comes to friendship with girls.Quote:
Originally Posted by Beckham
The "I" here is that of a woman. Let us see how many men share the same thought. As Bekham says "from the heart".Quote:
Originally Posted by goodsense
I prefer male friendship than female friendship, for reasons beyond me to understand, primary being
********I am comfortable with men********
I am I should say rarely comfortable with a woman at first stance. It takes time for me to get closer to her.
Atleast definitely the tag u are married, PUTS A BIG FULLSTOP to any other interest other than pure freindship.
SP,
Common eh, prefer male friendships too :D
Just out of curiousity, were you always like that or it started at certain time in your life? For me, I hanged around only females up to high school, never spoke to boys before that. Interest in male friendships started really in my mid twenties :)
Only answer if you feel comfortable.