Hi Sakthi Prabha,
There was no mistake from your side and hence you need not feel bad for being alone during medical examinations. Just forget it and go on with your life.
In few countries and remote places in India, the numbers of female doctors are very less. For the examinations of breast cancer and fetus growth during pregnancy, I had taken some of my family members to male doctors. I considered those doctors as a noble person and never had any suspicious thoughts about their professions. In all the case they ask some of the close family members to stay with the doctor in examination room. Even in case if a female patient is checked by male doctor alone as long as the doctor performs his noble duty, the patient need not to feel bad.
There are rare incidences in which doctors didn’t show the noble characters that profession needs. In such cases, the sufferer should be brave enough to expose such crooks in order to avoid suspicion on the entire doctor community. In such cases also the sufferer need not to feel bad about themselves because mentally they have not done any thing wrong. As long as one’s mind is pure, they need not feel bad about themselves.
Ok, let me come to another issue related to the women’s rights.
Recently Indian judicial system rejected that caste of mother can not be considered as caste of the child for a case of women who won the election from a reserved constituency in AP. I feel this is degrading the women’s right to have full right on their babies after divorce or re-marriage. It may discourage inter caste marriages too in future since it indirectly imposes the children need to follow father’s traditions.
Any comments?
