Does Love Exist?

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Originally Posted by tvsankar

what is the percentage of unselfish love existing in current era etc

SP,

Unselfish - Idhai love ku matum yen kaekare..

indha vaarthaiku than ipo arthamae illaiyae....

IPo irukum indha ulagam - SELFISH to the core...........

adharkena oru nyayam, ilakanam - ellavatrukum - pudhiyadhai - vidhimurai uruvagi kondu irukum indha nerathil,

epapdi love ku matum - Unselfish ai expect panre?

No chance.

Particularly, ponnunga kite irundhu No chance......

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usha,

ithai thaan naan tm kitta sollitu irunthen....

love mattum illai ella relationship laiyum "UNSELFISH" enbathu kurainju pochu...

and it happens in man - woman relationship too. :|

ponnunga nnu mattum illai,
men keep moving with changing times too

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Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

For Girls (not Shakthiprabha :poke: ) :

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naan enna pavam paNNEn? ennai magaLir aNilaiye serka mateengala :rotfl2:

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1. the above one..
2. He is no way can find a job and can provide bread and butter and u come to understand that at a time..

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There are ppl like that.

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Will u still marry him..?

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If they are married, and the above situation happens how many spouses run away tm? dont they still cling and live?

When u know ur spouse cant give u sensual pleasure and is handicapped and cant earn u a day's bread, aren't there any ppl around u, living under the same roof (sometimes out of helplessness) and some other times out of compassion, affection (or whateer u name it) (and please dont qualify love as pure and contaminated grrrrr)

and again for nth time, again I repeat ( like many others did)

this thread IS NOT ABOUT

* how pure love is
* what are its after effects
* why it happened
* when it happened
* what if it fails
* what if they dont live under same roof or marry
* what happened later etc
* what is the percentage of unselfish love existing in current era etc

ITs abotu whether or not "it exists"

and it does. period.

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etho ekku thappa pesi maatikiteenga. ippo u are unsure how to untangle urself out of this :rotfl2: pavam tm :poke:

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Why compare the unexpected hardships coming after marriage to the 'situation' quoted by TM? Two completely different situations! :o

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Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

and again for nth time, again I repeat ( like many others did)

this thread IS NOT ABOUT

* how pure love is
* what are its after effects
* why it happened
* when it happened
* what if it fails
* what if they dont live under same roof or marry
* what happened later etc
* what is the percentage of unselfish love existing in current era etc

ITs abotu whether or not "it exists"

and it does. period.

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naanum athaan paesittu irukkaen :huh:

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Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

etho ekku thappa pesi maatikiteenga. ippo u are unsure how to untangle urself out of this :rotfl2: pavam tm :poke:

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innum naan kaetathukkellaam ozhungaa answer panna mudiyalainaalum intha vetti banthaakku onnum kuraichal illa :poke:[/b]

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Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

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Originally Posted by tvsankar

what is the percentage of unselfish love existing in current era etc

SP,

Unselfish - Idhai love ku matum yen kaekare..

indha vaarthaiku than ipo arthamae illaiyae....

IPo irukum indha ulagam - SELFISH to the core...........

adharkena oru nyayam, ilakanam - ellavatrukum - pudhiyadhai - vidhimurai uruvagi kondu irukum indha nerathil,

epapdi love ku matum - Unselfish ai expect panre?

No chance.

Particularly, ponnunga kite irundhu No chance......

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usha,

ithai thaan naan tm kitta sollitu irunthen....

love mattum illai ella relationship laiyum "UNSELFISH" enbathu kurainju pochu...

and it happens in man - woman relationship too. :|

ponnunga nnu mattum illai,
men keep moving with changing times too

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Shakthi,
naan athelaam marukavae illa.

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

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Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

We cant find PURITY in any kind of emotionally bound relationship. These are tangible , ie cant be measured and keeps changing. Why dont u complain about parents who forget to shower affection to kids or kids who forget to talk few caring words to parents? Or freinds who turn their faces away ? or siblings who curse each other?

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correct thaan... but say for example.. Mother - son/daughter relation.. at least from mother side in many cases it is not a selfish one.. expecting something in favor of the love / affection she shows towards his kid.. atha maathiri innum pala relation la u can find a considerable amount of people...

But only in the case of love as per topic such unselfish and unconditional affection cases is extremely low or nil.. That is the only relation which does not care (mostly) abt the surroundings.
BTW i am not complaining or pin pointing.. I am also part of all these relations..

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sp,
sorry to say.

ponnunga kite - unselfish - poyae pochu.

dhairiyama - theliva solren.

society la nadakaradha vechi than solren.

1. ponnunga - marriage stage la - avanga ishathuku than
paiyanai select panranga.

enaku therinju - nalla pasanga - 4 per - appa amma kite
ponnu pakka solli - marriage ku wait pannitu irukaga..

age achu ipo - 30,32,33, 35

kalyanam agalai.

ponnu kedacha podhum nu irukaga.

oru rules um sollalai.

elllarum - B.E. - software company la velai.. nalla salary....

yen marriage agalai theiryuma....

ellarum - india la irukanga.............

idhuku enna solre.........

appa amma - simple type - nejama nalla quality oda

(foreign dhan usathi nu nenaikadha nalla quality)

avanga ponnunga elam - india la irukara paiyanai
kalyanam pannindu irukanga.....

ipadi irukarachae....

love epadi irukum???????????

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Originally Posted by tvsankar

sp,
sorry to say.

ponnunga kite - unselfish - poyae pochu.

dhairiyama - theliva solren.

society la nadakaradha vechi than solren.

1. ponnunga - marriage stage la - avanga ishathuku than
paiyanai select panranga.

enaku therinju - nalla pasanga - 4 per - appa amma kite
ponnu pakka solli - marriage ku wait pannitu irukaga..

age achu ipo - 30,32,33, 35

kalyanam agalai.

ponnu kedacha podhum nu irukaga.

oru rules um sollalai.

elllarum - B.E. - software company la velai.. nalla salary....

yen marriage agalai theiryuma....

ellarum - india la irukanga.............

idhuku enna solre.........

appa amma - simple type - nejama nalla quality oda

(foreign dhan usathi nu nenaikadha nalla quality)

avanga ponnunga elam - india la irukara paiyanai
kalyanam pannindu irukanga.....

ipadi irukarachae....

love epadi irukum???????????

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itha sonnaa nambuveengalo illayo..

marriage times la ponnunga, kalyaanathukku munnaalayae thani kudithanam thaan vaenumnu condition poadurathu niraya kaelvi pattirupeenga..
atha vida koduma love panna aarambichathum.. peththavangala othukki vaikirathula irunthu munnaadiyae condition poatta rendu cases enakku theriyum :sigh2:

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

rendu cases enakku theriyum :sigh2:

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பாவம், பெர்சனல் வாழ்க்கையில ரொம்பவே பாதிக்கப்பட்டிருக்கீங்க போலிருக்கு :-)

TM,
adhu paravayilai.

mosam enna na - oruthan kite love sollitu -

avanai katti potutu,

ponnunga matum - friends gara perla
pasanga kite pesuvanga.. pazhaguvanga..
suthuvanga.

paiyan matum - karpoda irukanam

idhu dhan TM - murpagal seiyin pirpagal vilaiyum garadhu.

30 varushathuku munnadi - GEns senja kodumaiyai
ipo

ponnunga - pasangaluku seiyaranga.

vera vazhi ilai. anubavichu than aganam.

idhula enga - pure love, unselfish love varum...

oru love oda success
inniki

andha ponnu kite dhan iruku.. andha paiyan kite
sathiyama ilai........

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Originally Posted by app_engine

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

rendu cases enakku theriyum :sigh2:

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பாவம், பெர்சனல் வாழ்க்கையில ரொம்பவே பாதிக்கப்பட்டிருக்கீங்க போலிருக்கு :-)

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not anything personal to me.. :)

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Originally Posted by tvsankar

30 varushathuku munnadi - GEns senja kodumaiyai
ipo

ponnunga - pasangaluku seiyaranga.

vera vazhi ilai. anubavichu than aganam.

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Cant agree more!

I am concerned abt the next generation girls.. intha circle la avanga pasanga kitta aniyaayathukku baathikka paduvaangannu thoanuthu :|