Does Love Exist?

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Fighting about love? :lol:

TM,

If not in your case, how do you know it for a fact that the girls asked for such conditions to the boy(s)?

1. The boy(s) could have simply cooked up the story

2. Even if the "demand" happened right in front of you, how you can be sure that they weren't faking and were serious?

Now, even if such a demand comes from girls, I don't find anything wrong with that - considering that the society has treated so many marumagaLs like slaves and what not :-( The system has built up so much of insecurity in women - there're just too many cases of abuse to them. Earlier days, with lack of edu / opportunities etc, they couldn't do much.

Now they have some freedom, which is good.

Actually, this is a case of 'kaN uLLa kAdhal' which you should applaud and not condemn (as you're condemning 'kaN moodiththanamAna kAdhal' as mere intoxication) :-)

TM,
present generation la - ponnungaluku kashtam ilai.

neraiya choices iruku.. select panranga...

neenga sorladhu

vara pora generation ponnunaluku kasham adhigam irukum.

ulagam poora - girls population is very low compare to the boys.


so - inum 2 generation la - dhrowpathigal uruvaka padalam.

ipadi than sollanam - ponnungaluku vara pora kashtathai...........

very sorry to say.............

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Originally Posted by tvsankar

TM,
adhu paravayilai.

mosam enna na - oruthan kite love sollitu -

avanai katti potutu,

ponnunga matum - friends gara perla
pasanga kite pesuvanga.. pazhaguvanga..
suthuvanga.

paiyan matum - karpoda irukanam

idhu dhan TM - murpagal seiyin pirpagal vilaiyum garadhu.

30 varushathuku munnadi - GEns senja kodumaiyai
ipo

ponnunga - pasangaluku seiyaranga.

vera vazhi ilai. anubavichu than aganam.

idhula enga - pure love, unselfish love varum...

oru love oda success
inniki

andha ponnu kite dhan iruku.. andha paiyan kite
sathiyama ilai........

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:clap: romba sariyaa puttu puttu vachchittenga, Usha! Recently when some of our old (in two senses) friends met the topic of this recent trend was discussed with concern. One of the friends quoted an example of a girl listing a loooong list of conditions for marriage at the initial stage of alliance talks. The boy's side(my friend's relatives) got scared and looked elsewhere for alliance. The conditions included settling in the US, his parents forbidden to visit them etc! :shock:
The new-found freedom has made boys toys tot he girls!!! :twisted:

They are the side effects of love is my understanding. :P

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Originally Posted by Appu s

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Originally Posted by Appu s

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ippa entha thread layum digressions nadakaatha maathiri illa paesura :lol2:

love ngra paerla ippaiyum cases irukkunnu thaan solraen :poke:

on the topic itself there are still questions unanswered.. u can still get to the topic :poke:

atha paththi nee konjam kooda vaai thorakka maatra..vaera yethaachum diversion irukaannu paakurathulayae time spending :lol2:

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Originally Posted by ajithfederer

They are the side effects of love is my understanding. :P

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Originally Posted by Appu s

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:exactly:

there are several such cases too in the so called love.

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Originally Posted by app_engine

TM,

If not in your case, how do you know it for a fact that the girls asked for such conditions to the boy(s)?

1. The boy(s) could have simply cooked up the story

2. Even if the "demand" happened right in front of you, how you can be sure that they weren't faking and were serious?

Now, even if such a demand comes from girls, I don't find anything wrong with that - considering that the society has treated so many marumagaLs like slaves and what not :-( The system has built up so much of insecurity in women - there're just too many cases of abuse to them. Earlier days, with lack of edu / opportunities etc, they couldn't do much.

Now they have some freedom, which is good.

Actually, this is a case of 'kaN uLLa kAdhal' which you should applaud and not condemn (as you're condemning 'kaN moodiththanamAna kAdhal' as mere intoxication) :-)

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So, marumagaLs slaves-aa nadaththapattathunaala ippO poNNunga paNNuRathu right? What a logic!

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Originally Posted by app_engine

TM,
If not in your case, how do you know it for a fact that the girls asked for such conditions to the boy(s)?

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i know and can analyse on certain things.. i dont believe just like that anything..

It is upto others to believe or not..

On the rest of ur things u said, that is different topic which again requires a detail discussion.. i wont completely disagree u on that.

But w.r.t to the topic,when u come with such conditions then imo there is no love existed between them.