வாழ்க்கை பிடிக்கவில்லை என்றால் தற்கொலை செய்து கொள். ஆனால்.......... தற்கொலை செய்து கொள்ளும் அளவுக்கு தைரியம் இருந்தால் வாழ்ந்து பார்!!.....
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வாழ்க்கை பிடிக்கவில்லை என்றால் தற்கொலை செய்து கொள். ஆனால்.......... தற்கொலை செய்து கொள்ளும் அளவுக்கு தைரியம் இருந்தால் வாழ்ந்து பார்!!.....
Hmm, interesting!
Does it take more courage to live or more to die?
Afraid of life, if one decides to end it, is that bravery?
Afraid of death, if one decides to endure life, no matter how miserable it is, is that bravery?
Quite a conundrum! :)
Actually quite the contrary, unless you think that feeling the loss of muscular control and cardiac arrest are pleasant.
I will say only this, suicide blinds us from the people that it really hurts, those who are left behind who have to contend with the pain, guilt and helplessness of not being able to help or understand.
Suicide is often a cry for help that isn't heard in time, so then knowing this make sure that even when it seems impossible, reach out and make yourself heard to a friend, family, neighbour, help line, doctor, even a spiritual higher being, my goodness even a pet, a well loved place, an ardent (maybe forgotten goal), or a visit to pleasant memories will do good to remember in that crucial pit of loneliness.
Ironic that you ask this question when your signature itself provides an answer :)
But it must be admitted that many a coward resorts to this easy, escapist solution - even a phase of depression, a peevish disappointment and silly quarrels trigger such an impulsive decision. That should be condemned. A desolate farmer seeing no light at all to survive takes this extreme step making everybody else- even us reading the news- utterly guilty for having been unable to help him out of his wretchedness. People drowned in debts mostly run away, but some take the suicide route. What is more ghastly is disheartened mothers killing their children also when they take the shortcut. family suicides do make the headlines often. The wisdom of this decision is debatable. Failing in exams, love affair, made to face public shame are the common causes.
But as I said earlier an aura of honour surrounds the event in certain situations especially when ennobled in great poetry. sati is by no means a practice known in north India alone. It has been an honourable rite in southern rural areas also!
Our ideas of honour, chastity, safety, self-esteem keep changing with the centuries.
If killing is fair in war so can be suicide attacks also!!! History says so!!! Extremists and terrorists have no qualms about this concept!!!
Naanag eppa pirakka poram ennu theiyatha naanga.. uyira maddum ethukku naangale edukanum... for me.. there cnt be a single problem excite in this world without a solution.. solutiona kandu pidikirathuthan life... so i dnt think suicide oru answer endu.
Thatkolai pannanum ennu ellarukkum lifela oru pointla kaddayam thoni irukkum.. but antha karanathi ippa yosichu paarunga.. sirippa irukkum...
Very sad suicide news
What do you folks think?