So you need special qualification to understand your post!! I strongly belive that a 'Karagatakaran' can understand your post a lot better than me :roll:Quote:
Originally Posted by swathy
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So you need special qualification to understand your post!! I strongly belive that a 'Karagatakaran' can understand your post a lot better than me :roll:Quote:
Originally Posted by swathy
adhu onnum illai sridhar ioorla irukeengala konjam kaathu adichiduchu pole :wink:Quote:
Originally Posted by great
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Originally Posted by Sanguine Sridhar
othukitta seri than :lol:
Swathy ungala naan kevalapaduthureyen!!Adhukku edhukku sirikireenga :o
karagatakaranukku thlaiala irukku ungalukku illainnu soldreengale sirikka thane seiyanum
Ungaltta naan idhukku mela enn yedhir paaka mudiyum?? :?Quote:
Originally Posted by swathy
Neenga eppadi Karagattakaaran pola eppvumey thalayula vachukittey irrupeengalo :shock:
nee yedhukku ippo karagattakarani ilutheynnu ippo than puriyudhu hihi .Quote:
Originally Posted by Sanguine Sridhar
Oh neenga tube-light veraya kashtam :banghead:
don't understand! is that telugu?Quote:
Originally Posted by Lambretta
relax. avarukku puriyalenaalum muthavangalukku puriyum.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sanguine Sridhar
nice one.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lambretta
and after some time, even if you don't give any flowers, she'll know that it's not due to lack of love but cos there are things more important that reflect your love for her.
True selva :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by selvakumar
but then women dont generally wear a lungi or veshti whereas a marriage does involve both the sexes rite :wink: anyways now that uve changed the heading,heres my view..
I somehow never contemplated staying alone..I really think its human nature to look for that one special person with whom you have the closest possible relationship.It is a high to come home knowing that there is someone waiting for u,someone who accepts you the way you are ,someone whose life you complete.Dont know if there is any other greater high than that.If there is ,then its gotto be the feeling of holding a person who you created.A person whose life you will influence to such a great extent.When you first hold your child in your arms,I am sure that feeling is unexplainable.Doesnt marriage now sound like the way to go :wink:
Yea its telugu....it means: neenga matrum correcta sonnenguh. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Fire111999
Nice one too! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Fire111999
r u telugu also?Quote:
Originally Posted by Lambretta
anyway, abt the topic, i feel that marriage would provide one with the sort of unique companionship that friends will never be able to provide. also, you can have lots of friends and they would also have other friends, but with marriage, it'll be just one person for each other.
*DIGR
No, I'm jus an Andhra-born Tamil.....can only speak Tamil (& Telugu)....:)Quote:
Originally Posted by Fire111999
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so pitty! iam not married! :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:Quote:
Originally Posted by Sanguine Sridhar
Exactly Goodsense.Quote:
Originally Posted by goodsense
Apart from that, we can free ourselves from the emotional barriers and concentrate on the broader spectrum.
If I am a bachelor, I can help others in a much more better way than as a married person. The reason is many people (almost 99%) restrict themselves to the idea of thinking about the welfare of the family rather than the society. If their son / daughter have lost something based on law and customes, they will blame it on the society. But a bachelor will understand the reality and will pinpoint the reality of the issues.
Good One, Goodsense. :clap:
Married life is cool...
U have someone to love you, someone who will share everything with you...
eh? do u really need to be married to love or to share everything/something?????????? :roll:Quote:
Originally Posted by Raikkonen
Ya..
Athu oru epdi solratu..
Feelingsu....
feelings?!Quote:
Originally Posted by Raikkonen
get marry to share feelings?! :roll:
Apidyum sollalam...
mhm feelings & marriage. hope u find them both! :)
I wanted to say that..
Before Marriage you only take care of yourself, selfishly..
After marriage,u become more of a matured figure...
ok, being a bachelor, you might have more time to spend to help others and you might be able to give a better, fairer point of view. but do u realise what you are losing if you don't get married? i'm not saying that it is wrong to give up sth for society. but you have to understand that you will be giving up sth, the companionship that only your spouse can give you. it's not for no reason that your spouse is also known as your other half!Quote:
Originally Posted by selvakumar
I dont know for sure, but married men seem always mentally troubled. Dont know if companionship is worth it?
Fire,
You are now forcing me to disclose something I was reluctant to do and people may have been having all kinds of opinions. OK, go to my thread "why women stay alone..." in this very section.
For some people marriage is a blessing and for some unfortunately its a pain.
I have seen many of my close friends and relatives suffering a lot in marriage but only one got divorce. :cry:
Guys, just rememeber after being so carried away, that poor Alan is getting married in a few days. We should hold it. Wonder what he is thinking reading through all this?
alaiya paaththu bayanthaa kulikka mudiyathu!
mm.. Ya.. We must hold the hold the discussion for a few days. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by goodsense
ask any married man. i'm sure they would say it's worth it and more!Quote:
Originally Posted by Sandeep
i shall read that and come back later.Quote:
Originally Posted by goodsense
how sure are you that they would say its worth it :roll:Quote:
Originally Posted by Fire111999
don't know. as far as my experience goes, it's been true. r u married?Quote:
Originally Posted by great
as long as their wives doesn't know, the answer might be "it's not worth"?! :roll: :) :( :oQuote:
Originally Posted by great
As far as ur experience :shock: :shock: are u married :?:Quote:
Originally Posted by Fire111999
I am not married thats why i am happy :wink:
sorry, by my experience i meant pple i know. i'm not married. i'm only a 19 yr old girl! but i know i want to get married in the future.Quote:
Originally Posted by great
how old are u? you don't have to ans if u don't want to. if u're still a youngster, that explains things. when u get older you might realise marriage can give you a whole deal more happiness!
how sure are u of that? they might joke like that when their wifes are around. but they couldn't possibly mean it!Quote:
Originally Posted by crazy