Terminator aahaa :shock: unga expectations vanthu Manisha "Gorilla" Koiralavukka? Just Kidding :D
serious ah sollungapa....what are your basic expectations of your future wife?
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Terminator aahaa :shock: unga expectations vanthu Manisha "Gorilla" Koiralavukka? Just Kidding :D
serious ah sollungapa....what are your basic expectations of your future wife?
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Originally Posted by terminator
Termi, naan SR padathile avanga nadicha character patthi sonnen......avanga patthi ille.....:P :wink:
termi, like that cartoon? :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by terminator
Wich one u mean? :?Quote:
Originally Posted by Fire111999
:lol:
HULK ... thanks kannu :lol:
the one his father draws according to his description!Quote:
Originally Posted by Lambretta
Well said Bingle :clap:Quote:
Originally Posted by bingleguy
Ohh....'think I missed seeing tat part....:?
But here one said about their future better half :roll:
Let me start.. even I have only expectation that he should believe in God and follow rituals as much as possible. Nothing else I want
Well Arthi ... not a bad expectation ... but probably i may be wrong ... there are very few guys n gals ... who believe in the supreme power in the current generation .....
So ... say if u know a person who has all the other qualities ... but for this ... what would u do ?
If u say ... NO ... is that wise ?
Um....tats nice Arthi but personally I dont believe tat rituals/customs nec. indicate sumone being pious....also these sumthing we can only see being followed physically in front of us, so we wudnt know how genuine tat person really is......Quote:
Originally Posted by Arthi
I wudnt really be bothered if my wife wants to wear a thaali or not....ie. I'm neutral abt it......wil leave tat to her...
Neways....:D tats jus me!
Okay .. guys ... time for my bus too ... :wave:
:lol: lamby .. will pm u ;-)
Arthi: A person who is not relegious or does not follow rituals is not a bad person. There are really genuine people who think doing good is much better than going to temple. So keep your mind open :)
i'll marry only a scientist/researcher i.e if i am able to find one. else I'll learn to live alone. It won't be a problem for me either way as I am a loner and prefer to brood in solitude.
Yea tats also true! To be good & to do good.....tats the whole point of religion, rite....:)Quote:
Originally Posted by Anoushka
Even I've stopped going to temples (for a personal reason), except for the RK math temples.....but I still believe in our religious values & scriptures.....
Neways, 'not trying to brainwash neone here......:lol2:
Jus my views! :)
r u a scientist/researcher yourself?Quote:
Originally Posted by rocketboy
:clap: .... I too have almost stopped em .... am religious no more .... though I just do them(going to temples , that too rarely) to please others.....Quote:
Originally Posted by Anoushka
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Originally Posted by Fire111999
Good question!
My father married my mother only bcos he wanted to marry only a doctor, being one himself.....he was of the opinion tat if he married sumone of the same profession as he was in, they cud both spend good time together, discussing similar subjects/topics at home...so tat way he wudnt hav to bore his wife (or vice versa), unlike otherwise.... :roll:
& also being doctors, one cud help the other in times of dire need..........well, tat was true of course, my mum cud help my dad a lot during his last days when he was ill.....
As for me, well......I dont wna marry neone in too high a profession as I cudnt adjust my life to sumone like tat....plus I'm never goin2 be in one myself.....def. not too busy profession, as I've learnt from observing my parents!
I'd at one point of time wanted to marry a (school) teacher (& still do) as tats one of the few professions I respect.....:)
'hav also been one for a while, altho only on part-time basis.....:(
school teacher-a, anna? :shock: semma bore! (IMO, but if tt's ur opinion, fine!)Quote:
Originally Posted by Lambretta
Anoushka wrote:
"A person who is not relegious or does not follow rituals is not a bad person. There are really genuine people who think doing good is much better than going to temple."
You can be both; religious and do good at the same time. They are found to be complimentary. Being religious don't mean going to temple all the time. I find it necessary to go (not necessarily frequently) and meditate with a group which is more effective than doing it alone.
The Gita clearly says, if one has to work and can't make it to places of meditation, the reason of work, is acceptible. If you are not working or can't make it to places of mediation/temples, you can listen to God's word; listening to bhajans is an acceptible compromise.
:)
:shock: Y do u think so? Actually IMO its one of the most underrated professions here.....everyday is like, a challenge....:)Quote:
Originally Posted by Fire111999
I find office jobs comparitively more booooring, esp. the typical routine desk jobs like receptionists etc...*yawn*
Oh btw, I meant to say I wasnt actually a school teacher, jus taught spoken english for adults, wich was conducted by a reputed school here (they also conduct computer classes, tally etc.)......only worked ther for 6 months last yr.....was indirectly shown the way out, after they found a 60+ lady who had nearly 40 yrs of experience plus job as a call centre trainee instructor @ HSBC here.....:roll:
So tats wen I stumbled into the Insurance line......:roll:
Neways, hav got another coupleo offers for teaching Spoken Eng. again ! :D
ok, you've gone off into a long digr. but, isn't teaching the same thing repeatedly year after year boring? i've never been a teacher before, not even part-time. but i have done and still do science workshops for kids and that's totally different cos it's only fun activities and interesting facts. not mundane teaching like a school teacher!Quote:
Originally Posted by Lambretta
And I think Amousk, temples now and then, reinforces spirituality which I think all human beings need. It is not something you can maintain doing alone for long periods.
I agree its our rote & write education system tat has made this job mundane.....:(Quote:
Originally Posted by Fire111999
Also the lack of motivation for this job bcos of factors like low pay etc....but wen I was teaching, I found it more fun to interact w/ differnt students from differnt backgrounds than keep in mind tat I'd be teaching the same thing again & again for each batch.....even at school we had many teachers who used to be lively & at times discuss many things other than the subjects they taught....so I feel its the interaction tat makes it go lively, as opposed to most office jobs & dont even talk abt customer service ones, wher almost the only interaction u hav comes in the form of complaints & frustrations.....:roll: added to tat, u hav to work for longer hours in most of these....!
Neways, been up for too long now.....signing off b4 my head hits the monitor! :lol: :wave:
When we talk of respectable profession I think we refer to those professions traditionally respected. What is a respectable profession these days? When it comes to medical, you find he doctors are failing to support the patients, as they should when legal issues arise. They do all they can to prevent having to go to court. They only care for the patient up to a certain point. The reports they provide on patients are often not truly reflective of the patients' records.
When it comes to the teaching profession, tell me about it. I have seen lecturers slopping together bits of notes just before the lecture, no effort to get new materials on current issues etc. and just give you straight from the book which you can read yourself in your own time :wink: . In many places it's a regurgitation of the same material. It's common in places where research is limited, common in countries developing at a slow rate if developing at all. Thus, the quality of teaching is poor and it takes no big brain, hard work and dedication to get through exams. The questions are likely to be the same year after year, only asked in a different way. Notes of pass students can be easly obtained and there you go, become what you want, no real sweat :evil: .
As a mater of fact, certain counties live off reputation and when examined closely, the reputation is far from present day realities in maintaining reputation. No changes to meet them.
We all can't be in the same profession, we need a variety. We chose according to what we thing we will be good at and our aptitude and we are supposed to do our best at what we do. If one study how each profession evolved, one would know that they are all meant to be reputable, but in reality, most are not and it's not an individual issue.
I know of people who started off at medical school, drop out, then hop to law school and that kind of thing. Did they first enter medicine because they think it is a reputable profession and was that their only concern? If so why the hop? :wink:
shud be like simba :D
Good Sense: I am not sure if I made myself clear. I have nothing against religion and I didn't say that a religious person is not good, all I said was a person who is not religious is no bad. And I do think relgion is a very private thing and each person can be religious in their own way, and there is nothing wrong in it. I was just telling Arthi to have a open mind about it, that is all :)Quote:
Originally Posted by goodsense
Fire: Teaching is not at all boring. The teachers I had in school used to love teaching. Each year a new set of students, a new challenge :) A good teacher uses his/her skills to take up the challenge of teaching the students from the best to the worst. They have to get the attention of the most inattentive student in the class, but at the same time keep the class interesting for the most brainy! Imagine catering to 30+ students of varying interests and concentration levels at the same time. How can that be boring? If a teacher does their job right then there is no boredom in that :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Fire111999
Anoushka: Besides, it makes you feel young ! :lol:
Gaayu,Quote:
Originally Posted by Ghlli
The lion cub from "The Lion King" :? :shock: :P
yeah :D
but i prefer human version :D :oops: :lol:
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Originally Posted by Surya
:? I have no idea how that would look...is it like T.Rajendar, except with much longer blonde hair? :P :lol:
Hmm...for me.....
Face = Shreya (Mazhai & Superstar's Sivaji!)
Eyes = Jothika
Lips = Trisha
Over all = Asin!
:rotfl:
Just Joking...Seriously...
The Biggest Thing!!
(1) Gotta be down with my ideologies...and have ones similar to mine....:P Mainly because I don't wanna be aruging with my wife like I do or used to in the Indian history section all my life about Periyar or other socio-political things. :wink:
This doesn't really matter that much..but
(2)Has to be somewhat good looking..there is no way I'm marrying a horse....but then again...my parents say that the actreses I like look like horses so.....:roll: WHAT-EVA! (srry for the cheerleader lingo. :P)
That's about it...I don't really care abt anything else...is she rich..is she educated...doesn't really matter. :P
I guess I'm too young to be thinkin about this....:P :lol:
a neelambari :roll:
Talkin of profession,
ANY LEGAL PROFESSION is clean and good enough if dealt with in a clean way.
Exactly wat even I was saying! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Anoushka
Whereas wat chances of such a thing happening do u hav in an office? Esp. if its like, customer service, u may get to interact w/ diff. ppl. every single day but the nature of interaction will usually be the same......each & every one wud usually hav sum complaint or need for sum service to talk abt.......& therez no way u cud interact w/ customers/encourage such interaction from them on ne other basis....its always (supposd to be) business-like, to-the-point. Tats it!
Exactly again! :D Even tho I was teaching only adults, tat too for jus 2 hrs a day, I had one batch full of lively & jovial students who wer not only quick in picking up but also became like good friends to me.....the next (last) batch was...well, ......:) but then ther wer only 6 students in it, so...! :DQuote:
They have to get the attention of the most inattentive student in the class, but at the same time keep the class interesting for the most brainy! Imagine catering to 30+ students of varying interests and concentration levels at the same time. How can that be boring?
Exactly again! :lol:Quote:
If a teacher does their job right then there is no boredom in that :)
The trouble is, teaching has lost its true value today wher most who take up this job do so as an only option for the time being or bcos of the convenience they get (less working hrs than office-goers & as GS says, no need for seeking more sources for teaching, enuff if u teach within the book syllabus!)......I'd notice the teachers in the school wher I worked......most of them looked like bored housewives going for daily shopping or on sum picnic! This lack of zeal within them themselves is responsible for making teaching a mundane, almost mechanical job! Apart form the fact abt low-pay!
Ironically, the Govt., wich is promoting techie jobs so much doesnt care abt a more important job like this!
Oh well! I seem to be digressing again.......! :P :lol:
:? :roll: :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by Ghlli
ok, relax guys, i accept that teaching is a good profession. all i can say is that i can't see myself becoming a school teacher. possibly a prof doing research or some other job at the same time.
*digrProf-aa?! Enaku athu ennum bore-aa thonathu! :P :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by Fire111999
Really, most profs. I've seen/herd of here take their jobs for granted....they come & take class wenever they feel like it......& all they do is stand & give a lecture for an hr, even if 1/2 the students r attentive/absent in the class, & then walk out..... :roll:
& the "research" most of them keep doing is to earn more initials after their names.....so they cud get guaranteed respectable status (& of course good salary), whether they work or not.....IMHO a school teacher def. has a far more commendable job, participating in relatively wholesome development of each student.....provided he/she realises this of course!
Neways, to each their own.....! :D
/digr
Ungalakku seriyana velai vanthu analayser thaan...your good at analysing...nichayam teaching ellam mudiayathu...school students ellam bayanthiduvaanga...Just kidding.
Simba as a expectation for a partner? ghili be prepared to be scrutinised by a playboy for your whole life since you beloved simba is one..:twisted: