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naan appadi eppavum sollavae illa :poke:Quote:
Originally Posted by Appu s
btw ivvalavu paesura yaarum, ennoadathu love thaan or pure love nnu sollravanga.. ennoadathu pure love nnu solla kooda mudiala :lol2:
avvalo nambikka avangavanga maela :wink:
not exactly...Quote:
Originally Posted by Sarna
Sirangukku marunthirukku...
Ethukku avangavanga personal pathi inga pesanum? ippa Love pannittu irukkiravanga mattum than inga post pannanumnnu irukka enna?Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
TM,Leave alone these younsters park love and all.... everyone knows the difference,you have told that there is no Love at all ... dont divert the topic... talk your points clearly instead of posting too much emoticons.
TM,
whats the name you give to those those who kill themselves for not being to live together?
naan en points sollittu thaan irukaen .. neenga thaan thiru kku intha problem nnu yethotho paesittu irukeenga..
you guys can try answering me instead of just talking abt your assumption abt my problems :P
P.S : Only one emoticon i used .
enna kelvi idhu :?Quote:
Originally Posted by hamid
Inability as their paithiyakaarathanam not being cured.Quote:
Originally Posted by hamid
Sari naan sollurathu irukkattum, what would u say for that?
TM, just one question.. answer it. that will make everything clear.
What is the relation between Husband and wife? I remember once you told that there is only lust between them......
Love is an emotion between any 2 individuals at any single point of time.
It can be amidst parents, siblings, children, freinds or lovers.
World CANNOT function without love. Its the basis of life moving around. Without love, its just hatred and none can live at peace.
There is nothing called "PURE love" from any perspective. Love is love.
Living beings tend to move on, in life and make new relationship or friendship. At any point of time, warm feeling would be extended between different individuals.
Love as an emotion EXIST. and its pure.
It need NOT exist only between two individuals, for indefinite period of time.
TM,
dont go into the practicality of it.. we r not discussing whether it is right or not...
when people say love is a feeling.. u said thr is no love.. just lust etc..
then what is the name of the feeling they had? is it not love???
I did not say that.. that is a different topic.. atha paesura alavukku ippa time illa..Quote:
Originally Posted by Appu s
As of now i am talking only on the relation between a boy and girl existing in the name of love.. :wink:
wellsaid.. esp the bolded lines..Quote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
Perusaa onnum illa.. u know here people gets attracted towars Shriya's, anushka's etc.. for girls Maddy's, siddharth, etc. they know everyone cant get they really like..Quote:
Originally Posted by hamid
They are getting settled with what they get :shaking:
Well said shakthi :thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
ok i remember you told that,even sridhar replied for the same..ok leave it.. what is the relation between husband and wife then?Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
ah.. u r talking about those :hammer: saary aabisar..u kantinuu :P..Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
i suppose the topic is about the love existing between two individuals of current generation.... ada thamizh'a kaadhal'nga... kaadhal'a paththi pEsunga'na anbu, paasam'nu pesureenga :huh:Quote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
Shakthi,
inga pothuvaana ellaarukkum idaila naama kaatura anba paththi paesala..
What this topic specifically abt the some people (boy and girl before marriage) involve in the name of love. :P
TM,
u r trying to take what u want :P
just answer Appu's question.. what is the releationship between husband and wife? dont they have love? dont they live for each other?
athu responsibility-nnu solli escape aakidaathaa raasa.. :lol:
Ithu andhar balti :lol: the topic is Love(yeah not anbu,paasam etc) is existing or not,marriage is not the big deal...Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
Sarna i guess you have not followed the previous arguments for the same topic long back in VTV thread,it was not just current generation or old generation,the topic was Love is not existing.... my question to TM is either married or unmarried, love is existing or not. thats it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sarna
hamid,
naan sollitaen.. kalyaanam topic different.. here i am concerned on the stupidy between a boy and girl in the name of love..
The fact is between them there is no love in real terms.
Note the bolded one.. That is the key..
Oru ammaa than payyana love panrathillainnu (anbu ) yaaraachum solla mudiyumaa :huh:
Whenever i wanted to talk on this i am talking only on the specific bolded one.. So let us concentrate there :wink:
I think u misundertood TM :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Appu s
appu,Quote:
Originally Posted by Appu s
the digression started on a love movie VTV not on love of any other relationship based movie.. So u shd get the point there :P
Paavam Shakthi.. Periya lecture adichittu poitaanga :noteeth:
Ippa specific topic layum yethaachum solvaanga unlike others. :wink:
sari saapidanum.. konjam vaela irukku.. later :wave:
tm,Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
enna relationship aa irunthaalum, ithaan fact.
andhandha nerathula rendu per kitta irupathu love nna andha nerathukku athu unmai. How long it exists between them IS NOT A FACTOR here to be considered to say whether or not love exist. And NOBODY can define any pure love because its "INTANGIBLE"
Divorced pair kitta poi keteenganna, when they cared THE CARE WAS TRUE. andha nerathula adhu pure.
tm,
Guess I m talking about hte CONCEPT called love, and you is talKing about its AFTER EFFECTS which differs case to case :P and hence cannot be UNIVERSALLY concluded :poke:
Its totally diverted now... i will try to find the old posts by TM.
Ok if it is the topic i am out here :wave: you cant generalize anything in that...no use of talking....
i just want to make clear whether you are married or not there is Love. :wave:
"concept called love is universally same, but after effects differs from case to case"Quote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
this statement really makes sense :victory: :victory:
:ty: SP akka
TM,
u r clearly diverting the topic.. and u give your own names and expect others to accept it :P
I dont know about VTV discussions and all.. but as you have said. we r talkign whether love exists between a boy and a girl or not..
for that matter.. u still havent answered my first question.....
yep.. it is a coward act, they dont know the value of life etc etc.. but what is the feeling the guy/girl have it towards the other person???
:exactly: We have a lot NRI relatives too! oru Russia-origin maappillaiya magaLukku anga kalyaaNam mudichittu inga vanthu bandhaavaa oru reception-um vachittu pORathu trend! niRaiya veLLaikkaara maappiLLainga kidaichaachu! :noteeth: yaathum oorE yaavarum kELir!Quote:
Originally Posted by dev
It is vayasu kOLaaRu! Pure infatuation- 'hormone seyyum sEttaiyammaa' to quote a Vijay song!Quote:
Originally Posted by hamid
In a car besides many machine parts like gears, accelerator etc there is one called brake. The so-called 'love' is being driven by hormones forgetting the 'brake' called 'sense'- aRivu. A vast majority of 'lovers' let their 'hearts'(read 'hormones') rule their head! A hundred and odd ingredients go into the making of true 'love' that can make two people live successfully and happily and meanigfully and with dignity. Marriage is a proven factory where this product is manufactured! :D
Some of you are saying that we need love for world to go around. We see suicide sometimes when love is not reciprocated or one is not allowed to love the other.
Love is an emotion yes. The emotional investment in someone makes it hard to break up. This is why a divorce can be a difficult thing. Some of the people who go to the divorce court still love their spouses.
People do live or learn to live without love. What choice do they have if it is not there? It is not something you find at all times. If as in the scenario above, it is not reciprocated and one is matured enough, one can love oneself. Some matured people are scared to even love; they rather protect their feelings from getting hurt and so they learn to live without love.
Have you heard of people cuddling and loving teddy bears and pillows? :) In most white societies, it is for these reasons too, they go out and get pets - to share love and affection.
Ramona :clap: :clap:
Some one gets addicted to drug like heroin.. some people try to get cured or maintain in that state.. When in that state they dont think abt any others.. extremely selfish... At one stage they die because of this if not cured...Quote:
Originally Posted by hamid
i dont call the drug addict is in love with the drug :wink:
ellaarum innikku nallaa pEsureenga :D yaarukku kaithatturadhunnu theriyala :?
anyway TM anna :clap: :clap:
PP mam :clap: :clap:
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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam
:yes: 1000000000000000000000% true :yes:Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
but really kodumai to be in that state :cry2:
sarna,
:lol2: podhuvaa kai thattidunga :lol2:
tm,
enna sonaalum, weird example kuduthu :evil: , edakku madakka pesara kuriyoda irukeenga. onnum panna mudiyathu :sigh2:Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
TM, still you are diverting the topic,noone here talking about infatuations,hormones surappi and all...hormones marriage aana udana surakkurathu stop aakiduma?
If love is not existing for you guys between a male and female,then what is cooking between them after marriage?