Does Love Exist?

app,
edho vadham seiyadheenga.

ponnunga loda expectation - ipo - paiyanai
kashta paduthara alauvku iruku.

adhai than naan solla varen.

demands and expectation ai thappu sollalai.

oru example..

ponnu ipo earn panra. avaloda salary avalodadhu dhan..

adhai naan respect panren. adhu issue illai.

after marriage,

ava salaryum avalodadhu.
husband salaryum avalodadhu.

inga dhan idikaradhu...

like tat,
veetu velai...

kid ai pathukaradhu...

ella discipline um - husband or lover - avanuku matum dhan

avaluku onum illai.

idhu nyayama?

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

So, marumagaLs slaves-aa nadaththapattathunaala ippO poNNunga paNNuRathu right? What a logic!

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Where did I say what they're doing is "right"? I was merely countering that TM cannot take two stands :-)

Either kAdhal should be blind or with sight.

He can't say it should not be blind and then come back and say how it can have eyes :-)

Coming back to whether the girls putting some conditions to the boys during courtship - there's definitely nothing wrong. Better to be careful now rather than suffering years of abuse (or end in a kerosene / gas stove accident) or suffer a dirty divorce and carry the burden of rising up children alone etc.

Relationship has to be give and take. Gone were the days which held the policy of "women give men take, and run to another woman" :-)

ipo ponnungaluku kashtam ilai.

ana - puli varudhu kadhai pola,

future la, pasanga lala (konjama iruka poranga . apo)

ponnungaluku kashtam varum nu thonudhu.

ana vera madhiri..

5 paiyanuku - oruthi than wife... life tat.

seriously speaking here.....

so,

love um. unselfish um - meaning illamal pora kalam idhu.

tats all from my side......

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Originally Posted by ajithfederer

They are the side effects of love is my understanding. :P

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Originally Posted by Appu s

:rotfl2: :rotfl: :rotfl: This thread turn into somewhere else.... all comments about ava avan kooda odi poitta... thani kudithanam :rotfl2: athellam Inga vanthu yen pesurenga...

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I understood that feddy, but why talking this about here :huh:

FOR ALL THOSE,THE THREAD STARTED FOR THERE IS LOVE EXIST OR NOT,

THIRU SAYS NO, SO THERE IS NO LOVE AT ALL BETWEEN ANY MALE AND FEMALE,AS PER HIS OPINION EVERYONE IS JUST LIVING LIKE JADAMS.

no one Justifying about love and effects,maamiyar marumaga kodumai.. thani kudithanam.. that is totally out of topic,yoou guys are talking like as if all the arranged married couple are living in a heaven.

Usha chEchi,

I'm not throwing some statements merely for vAdham :-)

I strongly believe that "kAdhal without conditions" never existed and will never exist. (I understand that the discussion of this thread is only about "romantic love - kAdhal" and not about other forms of love - like the ones between friends, between blood relatives, towards things, towards unrelated people, towards God...)

The "conditions" should only come from boys and girls should simply agree to them is not correct. And vice-versa :-)

Women may be more outspoken, demanding etc now. I'm just trying to see the psychology behind it - centuries of suppression, possibly :-)

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Originally Posted by app_engine

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

So, marumagaLs slaves-aa nadaththapattathunaala ippO poNNunga paNNuRathu right? What a logic!

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Where did I say what they're doing is "right"? I was merely countering that TM cannot take two stands :-)

Either kAdhal should be blind or with sight.

He can't say it should not be blind and then come back and say how it can have eyes :-)

Coming back to whether the girls putting some conditions to the boys during courtship - there's definitely nothing wrong. Better to be careful now rather than suffering years of abuse (or end in a kerosene / gas stove accident) or suffer a dirty divorce and carry the burden of rising up children alone etc.

Relationship has to be give and take. Gone were the days which held the policy of "women give men take, and run to another woman" :-)

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But there should be some fairness in the 'conditions' put forward by these modern girls! What is the percentage of 'stove accidents', divorces, adulteries and other abuses? What about the unwritten stories of mils suffering unspeakable abuses in the hands of dils? I know many cases where such things happen. You think girls are right to be careful, but you fail to realise it is not 'carefulness' but pure arrogant atrocity! :shock:

app,

got it. apo sari.

ponnunga loda conditions - boys bayandhukara app.

adhan ipo vishayam.

love or arranged marriage...

adhan sonnen

apo epadi - love - unselfish elam....

boys ku - kannai moodindu love varum.

girls ku - adhai work out panni pathutu

maths madhiri - derivation ready pannitu

sari vandha - love ku sari nu solranga.

sari varalai na - no solranga.......

idhu dhan ipo nadakara love.........

I remember one song..


kangalE KangalE kadhal seivathi vitu vidungal
pEngalE pengalE vaalibarai konjum vaazha vidungal

:lol2:

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Originally Posted by Appu s

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Originally Posted by ajithfederer

They are the side effects of love is my understanding. :P

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Originally Posted by Appu s

:rotfl2: :rotfl: :rotfl: This thread turn into somewhere else.... all comments about ava avan kooda odi poitta... thani kudithanam :rotfl2: athellam Inga vanthu yen pesurenga...

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I understood that feddy, but why talking this about here :huh:

FOR ALL THOSE,THE THREAD STARTED FOR THERE IS LOVE EXIST OR NOT,

THIRU SAYS NO, SO THERE IS NO LOVE AT ALL BETWEEN ANY MALE AND FEMALE,AS PER HIS OPINION EVERYONE IS JUST LIVING LIKE JADAMS.

no one Justifying about love and effects,maamiyar marumaga kodumai.. thani kudithanam.. that is totally out of topic,yoou guys are talking like as if all the arranged married couple are living in a heaven.

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jadam? :lol: Not at all! Nature has provided all men and women with necessary instincts and impulses to keep itself ever alive! Luvvunnu paiyanga ippO poNNunga pinnaala pOna there is basic hormonal attraction underneath, poNNunga luvvunnu sonna bayangaramaana aayaththam for feathering their nest! ithaiyellaam luvvunnu sollikkiROm!!!