Is love an inflexible illusion?
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Is love an inflexible illusion?
Has progress programmed love out of our lives?
Where do we go from here? What can be done to stop the cycles of violence? Is there a peaceful approach, such as Gandhi's "soul force", to overcome terrorism? How about the problems of poverty, oppression and injustice in the world?
If love is the answer, why can't we find love's healing presence ?!!...
"We must grow in love and to do this we must go on loving and loving and giving and giving until it hurts" - Mother Theresa ("A Simple Path")
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suyamaNam (Independent Marriage) sariyaa - thavaRaa?...
Answer...
1. sari alladhu thavaru
2. Reason ?...
Friends... Dont make this as a Argument.. Fill it with
explanations... and questions... Please :)
barani,
indha topic padichavudan enakku immediate-a thoniyadhu....
Mudhalil 'thirumanan' sariyaa illa thavara endru discuss seidhutu, adhuku apuram
"kaadhal thirumanam... sariyaa - thavaRaa?... " endru discuss seiyalaamey...
:lol: :lol:
"kaadhal thirumanam... sariyaa - thavaRaa?... "
'kaadhal' enbathil endha 'thavarum' illai...
'kaadha thirumanam' mattum epadi thavaraaga mudiyum..?? :)
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barani,
indha topic padichavudan enakku immediate-a thoniyadhu....
Mudhalil 'thirumanan' sariyaa illa thavara endru discuss seidhutu, adhuku apuram
"kaadhal thirumanam... sariyaa - thavaRaa?... " endru discuss seiyalaamey...
«ôÀÊô §À¡Î «ÕÅ¡Ç! :clap:
Kadhal thirumanam "SARI" endru thaan naan solven aanal athu unmaiyaana KADHAL thirumanamaai irunthaal.
irunthaalum unmaiyaana kaadhal thirumathirkum intha kaalathil ethirpugal irunthu kondu thaan irukirathu, ennai poruttha varai, yaetho oru inam kulam theriyatha oru pennidamo illai aanidamo nam kaadhalai solli puriyavaika mudiyumpothu, nammudaya rattha sondhamaana appa,amma'vidam solli sammatham vaanga mattum aayiram thayakkangal
nam kadhalai ulagam muzhuthum velicham pottu unmaiyai perumithathudan sollvome, atharku mun nam nerungina ulagamagiya thaai thandhayidam sammatham vaangivittu, ivan thaan naan kaadhalipavan, ival thaan naan kaadhalipaval endru..ivan/ival'odu thaan en vaazhkai.. endru solvome.. nambungal athuvae oru migaperiya asthivaaramaai irukkum nammudaya unmaiyaana kadhal vaazhkaiku..
Aathalal kaadhal seiveer !
Kaadhal thelivaanathaai, thooimaiyanathaai,kalapadam illathathai irukattum .
Mothathil Kaadhal ... Kaadhalai irukattum.!
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hi bharani,
Thanks for ur pm to invite me to contribute my thoughts on love marriages.
Actually my conn screwed up for past 2 months and then my OS went for a toss for next 15 days. So wuz kinda handicap. Even otherwise yes, I do peep in rarely into hub these days.
Marriages. Is it necessary?
Well.... Here is my view.
MARRIAGES are NOT necessary, unless UNTIL THE COUPLE have a child born to talk about their live-in relationship.
Actually, even When a Child is born, a marriage is not necesary. Cause, a mother and father is all a child wants. Whether u stay married or stay as live-in couples IS NOT the child's problem.
Then why does marriage becomes necessary?
Because, if u are married, IT STRESSES on the fact that one has a say, on other person personal affairs, even after giving enough space for the other person to breathe.
If one can balance that intrusion, and personal space, with right healthy attitude, t hen MARRIAGE IS just a social function.
Staying committed is in each one's heart. One can stray after marriage, one can stray being married, also, one can be faithful and committed in a without marriage too.
()
Now that marriage is more a social acknowledgement, IS IT NECESSARY THAT MARRIAGE BE LOVE OR ARRANGED?
Well... if u love and marry u know the pros and cons of a person. U know what to expect and hence adjust faster.
IF u marry(arranged) and then fall in love, it takes lil
longer to know the person. But sure is damn exiting to go thro the phase of friendship blooming into love.
There is one song in tamizh....
Porthittu padutha enna
paduthutu pOrthittaa enna?
Its all the same.
Whether its marriage or no marriage, whether its love or arranged.... only 4 :) things are necessary.
1. ADJUSTMENT
2. COMMITMENT
3. personal space..
4. LOVE DEVELOPED STRONGLY over a period of time and patience to let that LOVE HAPPEN :)
:)
em... 8)
--- Malligai ----
Mudhalil 'thirumanan' sariyaa illa thavara endru discuss seidhutu....
ӾĢø '¾¢ÕÁ½õ' ºÃ¢Â¡... ¾ÅÈ¡...
'kaadha thirumanam' mattum epadi thavaraaga mudiyum..??
'¸¡¾ø ¾¢ÕÁ½õ... ÁðÎõ ±ôÀÊ ¾ÅÈ¡¸ ÓÊÔõ ???
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--- Sudhaama ---
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--- priyachary ----
aanal athu unmaiyaana KADHAL thirumanamaai irunthaal. ?!!...
¬É¡ø... «Ð ¯ñ¨ÁÂ¡É ¸¡¾ø ¾¢ÕÁ½Á¡ö þÕó¾¡ø ?!!...
.... Aathalal kaadhal seiveer !
Kaadhal thelivaanathaai, thooimaiyanathaai,kalapadam illathathai irukattum.... Mothathil Kaadhal ... Kaadhalai irukattum.! !! ???....
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---- shakthi prabha ----
Then why does marriage becomes necessary?
¾¢ÕÁ½ò¾¢ý «Åº¢Âõ ±ýÉ?...
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Enga bharanitharan,
Kashtapattu, etho private messege vanthirukkunnu mail la news vanthathukkaaga, inactive aaga iruntha en account ai,
hub admin uyir eduthu active akki,
menakkettu oru bathil ezhudinaa...........
" em :) "
apdeenu oru acknowledgement unga kitterunthu!
ithai ithai ithai ithaivida naan athigam edir parthEn. :)
Quote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
appadi illa... Shakthi !...
ippo just collecting the views... thats all...
sariyaa...
after collecting.. all the views... from different angles...
will post my comments... ok :)
** ungalukku mattum thaan.. andha " em :) " kooda... :D
Enga bharanitharan,
Etho private messege vanthirukkunnu mail la news vanthathukkaaga,
inactive aaga iruntha en account ai,
Kashtapattu,
hub admin "uyir" eduthu active akki,
//hub admin uyirOda.. thaane irukkaar :roll: //
menakkettu oru bathil ezhudinaa...........
" em :) " apdeenu oru acknowledgement unga kitterunthu!
ithai .... ithai .... ithai ....
ithaivida naan athigam edir parthEn.
// :D//
Sari indhaanga... pidinga...
neenga... kassssshhhhhtapattu ... ezudhinadhOda...
Hope... so... :| kastapaduthaadha badhil...
hi bharani,
Thanks for ur pm to invite me to contribute my thoughts on love marriages.
//thanks... Shakthi for your contribution too... //
*** My question is "kaadhal thirumanam ... sariyaa.. thavaRaa"
Well.... your answers ...
steps a little deep and gathers the answer from a 'being human' point of view...
//Marriages. Is it necessary?
MARRIAGES are NOT necessary,
unless UNTIL THE COUPLE have a child born to talk about
their live-in relationship.
//
*****
be sure that human beings are 'social-animal'
.... Thats why! marriage becomes necessary !!... :D
*****
Actually, even When a Child is born,
a marriage is not necesary.
Cause,
a mother and father is all a child wants.
Whether u stay married or stay as
live-in couples IS NOT the child's problem.
*****
indha answer'ukkum...
neenga kizhE ezudhi irukka...
1..... 2. COMMITMENT 3.... 4....
answerukkum sambandham'ea illingalea..
irandu veveru konangal... like different poles
*****
Because,
if u are married,
IT STRESSES
*****
Marriage'aagalanna Stress illennu sollreengalaa... :)
******
on the fact that
one has a say,
on other person personal affairs,
even after giving enough space for
the other person to breathe.
*****
idhu thirumanam.. engira...
ondril mattum illayea...
kudumba sUznilaigalulum
nadakkiradhea... em...
neechal kathukittu...
kadalula irangura maadhiri...
kudumbathukkula... pazaga (adaki vaasikka) kathukittu..
societyla... kaaleduthu vaippadharkkaaha...
society'oda oru miniature...
thaanea... kudumbam yenbadhu...
1... 2.... 3.. personal space 4....
Idhu thirumanam... yengira... neengal sonna 'pUttu'la mattum illa... kudumbathukkulum ... indha athumeeral undu...
*****
on the fact that
one has a say,
on other person personal affairs,
even after giving enough space for
the other person to breathe.
*******************
'other person' appadi
ninaikkumpozudhu
yeppadinga
andha....
4th point 'ok'.. aagum
:)
If one can balance that intrusion,
and personal space,
with right healthy attitude,
then MARRIAGE IS just a social function.
*****
yaa... marriage is a Social Function... I accept..
But... what to do.. We are social-animals :)
Add..
Family is also a Social Constitution....
Father and Mother are also ...
a Social Setup
:)
K.. Hope.. a right.. addition to your 'Social View'
*****
IS IT NECESSARY THAT MARRIAGE BE LOVE OR ARRANGED?
Well...
if u love and marry
u know the pros and cons
of a person.
U know what to expect and hence adjust faster.
IF u marry(arranged) and then fall in love,
it takes lil longer to know the person.
But sure is damn exiting to go thro the phase of
friendship blooming into love.
*** ok... ok...
After knowing the pros and cons... in the Case 1 and
crossing a 'Damn' exciting phase ... blooming in Case 2...
why the 'Family Court's are House ful in Both the Case ****
whether its love or arranged....
only 4 things are necessary.
1. ADJUSTMENT
2. COMMITMENT
3. personal space..
4. LOVE DEVELOPED STRONGLY over a period of time and patience to let that LOVE HAPPEN
*********
sariyaa.. soneenga... Sakthi..
adhuvum... nachunu irundhadhu... ---- Staying committed is in each one's heart. ---
There is one song in tamizh....
Porthittu padutha enna
paduthutu pOrthittaa enna?
Its all the same.
******
sari.. :roll:
idhu yeppadi onnaa aagum..
neenga...
rendayum seidhu paarthu irukeengalaa... em :?
pOthikittu paduthaa...
// meendum oru murai.. re check pannanum.. correctaa cover aagi irukkaanu//
paduthukittu Pothikitta..
// orea velai.. ju... aduthu straighta... kanavulOgam thaan.. :razz: //
Neennukittu pOthikiradhu vera...
Paduthukittu pOthikiradhu vera...
Oru rhymin'kkaaha sonnaalum...
rendumea.. differes...
******
aanaa... yen kealvikkenna badhil ???....
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08. º¢ýÉŧà ÓʦÅÎìÌõ ¸¡¾ø-¾¢ÕÁ½õ ¿¢¨Ä¡§Á¡?
09. À¢ïº¢§Ä§Â ¯¾¢Ã º¡¾¨É§Â¡ ?
10. §Å¾¨É§Â ¦ÅõÀ¢¼§Å¡ Å¡ú쨸 ?
idhuvarai thodukkapatta kilai kealvigal
01. thirumanam sariyaa.. thavaRaa?...
02. Thirumanathin avasiyam?...
03. meyyaana kaadhal enRaal?
04. kaadhal-poRuL-enna?
05. virumbivittaal kaadhalaa?
06. anbaa.. kaadhalaa.. kaamamaa.. miguththa utporuL kandeeroo ?
07. 'kaadhal thirumanam'.. eppadi thavaraaga koodum ??
08. sinnavarea mudivedukkum kaadhal-thirumanam nilayaamOa?
09. pinjilea udhira saadhanaiyO?
10. veadhanayea vembidavO vaazhkai?
03. ¦ÁöÂ¡É ¸¡¾ø ±ýÈ¡ø ...
04. ¸¡¾ø-¦À¡Õû-±ýÉ?
05. Å¢ÕõÀ¢ð¼¡ø ¸¡¾Ä¡?
06. «ýÀ¡... ¸¡¾Ä¡... ¸¡ÁÁ¡... Á¢Ìò¾ ¯ð¦À¡Õû ¸ñ˧á ?
03. meyyaana kaadhal enRaal?
04. kaadhal-poRuL-enna?
05. virumbivittaal kaadhalaa?
06. anbaa.. kaadhalaa.. kaamamaa.. miguththa utporuL kandeeroo ?
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aiyOO naan maattikondean
thappikka vazigal irundhum ...
veandaam endrean ...
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'Love - A Positive Psychology'
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valiyavan
padaithu
eliyavan
yeatru
kondadhu
podhunalam
thannalam
yendra ondru
yendru thoandriadho
andru thoandriyadhu
podhu nalamum...
thanadhu endru
thoandriya
andru thaan
thoandriyadhu
orudhaara
muraiyum....
andru thaan
kaadhal enum
vaarthai
kuzappathil
maattikondathu.....
andruthaan
karpu enum
kavasamadhai
penmaikku
poottapattadhu....
andruthaan
karppai
kaiyil
yeduthukonda
aanaadhikkam
samuthaayam yendra
peyaril seyalpada
aarambithadhu...
adhuvarai
manidha
vilangugalaai
mattum...
thirindhavar
yaavarum
samudhaaya
vilangugalaai...
indru...
thanimanidha
viruppugalayum
veruppugalayum
samudhaayam
theermanikiradhu...
namadhu
athiya
avasyamaagum
uNavu udai
kalvi thozil
ivatrai yellam
indru
samudhaayamea
theermanikiradhu...
thirumanam
enum
oruvaziyai
manidhan
kandariyum varai
kondadhu
kaamam yenil ..
manam enum
vazi muraiyai
kadaipidippadhum
adharkkaagavea...
kaadhal
yenil
kaadhal
sariyaana ondrayea
sariyaa thavaraa endra
vivaadhathirkul
vidhaithu vittadhu
thani manidhan
mealulla
samudhaayathin
aadhikkam...
adhan adutha
azuthathin
aazndha
velipaadea
indraya
ilaya
thalaimuraiyinarin
indha... kealvi...
01. thirumanam sariyaa.. thavaRaa?...
02. Thirumanathin avasiyam?...
nanbargalea...
manadhil kollungal...
nam veetilum
idhai pOndra oru vidhaiyai
samudhaayam thoovi sendrirukka koodum...
yenna seyyappOgiropam .... ???
Selected §¸ûÅ¢¸û (Questions):
09. À¢ïº¢§Ä§Â ¯¾¢Ã º¡¾¨É§Â¡ ?
10. §Å¾¨É§Â ¦ÅõÀ¢¼§Å¡ Å¡ú쨸 ?
08. º¢ýÉŧà ÓʦÅÎìÌõ ¸¡¾ø-¾¢ÕÁ½õ ¿¢¨Ä¡§Á¡?
07. '¸¡¾ø ¾¢ÕÁ½õ'... ±ôÀÊ ¾ÅÈ¡¸ ÜÎõ???
09. pinjilea udhira saadhanaiyO?
10. veadhanayea vembidavO vaazhkai?
08. sinnavarea mudivedukkum kaadhal-thirumanam nilayaamOa?
07. 'kaadhal thirumanam'.. eppadi thavaraaga koodum ??
þó¾ §¸ûŢ측É.. À¾¢ø¸û... ¿¡ý §¿ÃÊ¡¸ ±ý ¦Àü§È¡Ã¢¼õ §ÀÍÅÐ §À¡Ä... ±Ø¾¢Â¢Õ¸¢¦Èý... þó¾ §¸ûÅ¢¸¨Ç... ¦¾¡Îò¾.. ±ý ¿ñÀ÷¸û... §¸¡Å¢òÐ ¦¸¡ûÇ §Åñ¼¡õ... ¾Â× ¦ºöÐ... þ¨Å... ¾í¸Ç¢¼õ... §¸ð¸ ÀÎõ §¸ûÅ¢¸û... «øÄ... ºÓ¾¡Âò¨¾.. §¿¡ì¸¢ Å£ºôÀÎõ §¸ûÅ¢¸û...
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indha kealvikkaana... badhilgal... naan nearadiyaaga en petroaridam peasuvadhu pola... ezudhiyirukkirean... indha kealvigalai.. thoduthaa... en.. nanbargal... thayavu seydhu.. koavithu kolla veandaam..
ivai thangalidam... keatkka padum kealvigal alla... samudhaayaththai.. nooakii veesapppadum kealvigal...
pin kurippu: ivai.. kavidhaikkaaha ezudhum... vetru vaarthaigal alla... en nanbargalaagiya... en peatravargalidam.. Edho oru pozudhil... utkaarndhu... vivaadham seydha... visayathin koarvaiyea...
09. À¢ïº¢§Ä§Â ¯¾¢Ã º¡¾¨É§Â¡ ?
10. §Å¾¨É§Â ¦ÅõÀ¢¼§Å¡ Å¡ú쨸 ?
09. pinjilea udhira saadhanaiyO?
10. veadhanayea vembidavO vaazhkai?
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aduppilirundha
paathiram thodugayil
pathiram.. pathiram..
yendru
paayndhoadi
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kalaipayum meeri
annathai
kavizthu
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sUdaana
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naan virumbum
kaadhal idhuvendru
kai kaatiya
pozudhu...
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ekkeadO
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odhungi
koNdeer !!