Importance of Saree

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Originally Posted by selvakumar

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Originally Posted by Fire111999

oh ho! aptiya? aptina, ponnunga kamcha paapeengala? why don't u look away? oh god! if the girl doesn't dress decently, that's no reason for u to lower ur morals and stare!

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Fire,
I was posting something funny. But this comment of you turned me upside down.. Infact, a bit rude.. (to be precise)

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For this, Let me Tell you

"PAARKIROEMNNU THERIUTHULLA, APURAM AEN SEE-THOROUGH ETC FITTINGS VACHI, KAAMIKUREENGA..

eVALAVO NALLA DRESS IRUKKAE.. Atha eLLam poda maateenga.. naanga mattum SUMMA IRUKKANUMAA"

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i felt it was just funny the first time. but still felt like commenting. but i didn't think it was so funny when u insisted on it again!

i think i've already implied previously that i don't wear see-through blouse and i've said previously that if it's a translucent saree, i only wear it folded up such tt u can't see through! and i also mentioned that i won't have jannal etc. so i don't show anything!

but what i'm saying is that just becos a girl is wearing it indecently doesn't mean that it's ok for u to see. you have to have ur own principles as well! what do u mean by naanga mattum summa irukkanumaa? r u saying becos the girl is making a mistake u can make a mistake too?

THEE, Are you a serious person!!!

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Originally Posted by Fire

i think i've already implied previously that i don't wear see-through blouse and i've said previously that if it's a translucent saree, i only wear it folded up such tt u can't see through! and i also mentioned that i won't have jannal etc. so i don't show anything!

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I never said that I will see you.. :D I said that boys tend to see those girls who wear such outfits which reveal their body. I never pin-pointed that at you. How can I know about you? I said that one in the general sense

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Originally Posted by Fire

but what i'm saying is that just becos a girl is wearing it indecently doesn't mean that it's ok for u to see. you have to have ur own principles as well! what do u mean by naanga mattum summa irukkanumaa? r u saying becos the girl is making a mistake u can make a mistake too?

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This is altogether a different thing. Even in Law, "THOSE WHO PROVOKE OTHERS TO COMMIT SIN MUST BE PUNISHED THAN THE ONE WHO IS DOING IT"

You are viewing it from a different angle.. From the branches. I am looking at the ROOT OF THE PROBLEM. If the root is correct, No one will bother about the branches. If the root is not correct, Noone can stop others to care about the branches.

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Originally Posted by great

THEE, Are you a serious person!!!

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i didn't think so at first! but i think i am, actually!

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Originally Posted by selvakumar

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Originally Posted by Fire

i think i've already implied previously that i don't wear see-through blouse and i've said previously that if it's a translucent saree, i only wear it folded up such tt u can't see through! and i also mentioned that i won't have jannal etc. so i don't show anything!

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I never said that I will see you.. :D I said that boys tend to see those girls who wear such outfits which reveal their body. I never pin-pointed that at you. How can I know about you? I said that one in the general sense

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Originally Posted by Fire

but what i'm saying is that just becos a girl is wearing it indecently doesn't mean that it's ok for u to see. you have to have ur own principles as well! what do u mean by naanga mattum summa irukkanumaa? r u saying becos the girl is making a mistake u can make a mistake too?

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This is altogether a different thing. Even in Law, "THOSE WHO PROVOKE OTHERS TO COMMIT SIN MUST BE PUNISHED THAN THE ONE WHO IS DOING IT"

You are viewing it from a different angle.. From the branches. I am looking at the ROOT OF THE PROBLEM. If the root is correct, No one will bother about the branches. If the root is not correct, Noone can stop others to care about the branches.

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ok ok. but forget abt the other branches. u can avoid making that mistake right?

fire
i think girls have to be sensible more than that a guy does.(iam not backing up selva). i feel that girls should be aware of what they r wearing(saying too)
unless a girl wear decently, can't she expect(neither i) a guy to avoid looking at her!

obviously just b'coz a girl makes a mistake it doesnt mean that a guy has to do, but we cant blame them either!(don't u think so)

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Originally Posted by crazy

fire
i think girls have to be sensible more than that a guy does.(iam not backing up selva). i feel that girls should be aware of what they r wearing(saying too)
unless a girl wear decently, can't she expect(neither i) a guy to avoid looking at her!

obviously just b'coz a girl makes a mistake it doesnt mean that a guy has to do, but we cant blame them either!(don't u think so)

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yeah, i agree with you. but the guys are not totally without blame as well!

but of course, the worst is guys who make girls feel like they are not wearing enuf even when they are!

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Originally Posted by Fire111999

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Originally Posted by crazy

fire
i think girls have to be sensible more than that a guy does.(iam not backing up selva). i feel that girls should be aware of what they r wearing(saying too)
unless a girl wear decently, can't she expect(neither i) a guy to avoid looking at her!

obviously just b'coz a girl makes a mistake it doesnt mean that a guy has to do, but we cant blame them either!(don't u think so)

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yeah, i agree with you. but the guys are not totally without blame as well!

but of course, the worst is guys who make girls feel like they are not wearing enuf even when they are!

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u r right!
but i have never seen such guys, lucky me!

Fire,

YOu are asking me this question.

Definitly, I will not look at my sisters in that angle.

But I am not a BUDDHA / Vivekanada - to be away from women.

I am an ordinary human being.

I will never stop SIGHTIFYING GIRLS..

But it should not embarass them.. I will stay within my limits.. :D

HOpe u got it! :D

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Originally Posted by Fire

but of course, the worst is guys who make girls feel like they are not wearing enuf even when they are!

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Fire,
If a girl is like a KUTHUVILAAKKU, every man will look at her with utmost respect

If they are like KUDA MILAGAAI, You can see some idiotic stuffs from some goons too. :D