Anou,
Love at first sight?
nah.
It can just be ATTRACTION at first sight, developed into love later. :)
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Anou,
Love at first sight?
nah.
It can just be ATTRACTION at first sight, developed into love later. :)
Aha.....egg-jack'ly! :thumbsup: :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
Happy Valentine's Day!
Anoushka, here is my opinion about your question. If beauty is the only expectation, then love can happen at first sight. All other things like talent, knowledge, character, even wealth - are not visible or cannot be judged at the first meeting.
True, esp. character! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by sv
Happy V'Day to Everyone!
Anou,I dont believe in love at first sight.Chemistry is what happens..but lasting kind..hmm..doubtful.Infact dont think it can happen :P.
lambretta :)
I think it will be interesting to hear the answers from men as women are generally cautious.
Just a question:
In an arranged marriage, how does one agree to marry the other (leave aside family status, caste, creed whatever nots as it is taken care by the 'elders' of both couples)? Do the elders allow the couple to talk, go out and then decide whether they like each other enough to get married or are they allowed to get together only after agreeing to marry after the first encounter?
The later, does it not constitute love at first sight?
It depends on culture. In the west thy expect you to go out with someone to get to know him or her. That can be seen as a relationship :wink: . In the west too, marriages are arranged, you don't see the person until you lift the veil the wedding night (after the marriage) :lol:, like in the old days elsewhere according to my grandother. Every thing is arranged by the parents and they see the person before. I know of a recent case :wink: Nowadays, there is no standard, it varies from family to family.
I am sorry to pull out the same old topic..Anu your comment on Love-First sight is a weapon which attacks guys first.If i am not wrong all girls talked here think your past :) .. Between if it grows into love it depends on how that female handles that relationship. Hope i am correct.
IMO Love at first sight is not at all wrong (Eventhough this love mostly comes out of by physical attraction) It is how you make the affair more sensible one by talking,sharing,knowing postive and negative of your pair,Understanding etc.,
Yes I believe many parents allow this nowadays.....infact many even agree for the couple to get engaged for say 6 months b4 getting married.....Quote:
Originally Posted by a.ratchasi
Hmm.....I wud agree w/ SP tat in this case it'd be Attraction at first sight! :wink: :)Quote:
The later, does it not constitute love at first sight?