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Originally Posted by thamizhvaanan

lambyna , there are two sides to a coin. u can look at the same thing in different ways.

eventhough i wud prefer a wife who doesnt work and live like a normal housewife, i do think that job gives women the freedom that they deserve. these days women are talking abt equality and stuff, but that wont come unless they take the responsibility. and i beleive earning contributes a lot to a modern day girl's ego. i personally dont wish to damage that.

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Appadi podunga thamizh..:thumbsup:...it does not really damage their ego...it depends on the character or how they perceive it.

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Originally Posted by crazy

oh ppl

i just want to adopt kids, iam not going to give birth to so many kids(its quite impossible)

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So TV, wud u rather hav a wife whoz totally independant...like, too busy w/ a job all day, comes home late at night, dead tired, barely manages to make it to the bedroom, expects u to know how to cook, clean, make her coffee, change the babies' (if she agrees to hav ne) nappies, know wat groceries to buy everyday, even tends to forget ur b'day...the list goes on.......!

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beside iam not sucha a girl, i will help my future husband. i will learn coocking.., i dont drink coffee in the morning, neither in the evening so my fut, hus dont need to worry!
i spend time on eating, i eat whatever veg thats necessary to keep my day going!.. thanda sooru thanda sooru..:evil:
and i never asked for a fut hus who cleans the house, coz iam good at house chores!

inga enga irundhu TV vandhaar?

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Originally Posted by crazy

oh ppl

i just want to adopt kids, iam not going to give birth to so many kids(its quite impossible)

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So TV, wud u rather hav a wife whoz totally independant...like, too busy w/ a job all day, comes home late at night, dead tired, barely manages to make it to the bedroom, expects u to know how to cook, clean, make her coffee, change the babies' (if she agrees to hav ne) nappies, know wat groceries to buy everyday, even tends to forget ur b'day...the list goes on.......!

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beside iam not sucha a girl, i will help my future husband. i will learn coocking, i dont drink coffee in the morning, neither in the evening so my fut, hus dont need to worry!
i spend time on eating, i eat whatever veg thats necessary to keep my day going!
and i never asked for a fut hus who cleans the house, coz iam good at house chores!

inga enga irundhu TV vandhaar?

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crazy chellam, naan wife work pannanumnu sonnaen. adukku than inthd kelvi. naan inga thaama irukaen appothilendu :lol:

so lamby na, it doesnt matter if i prefer such a girl or not, but crazy is not one :rotfl:

yaara paadhu thandha sooru enneenga?
if thats for me, its ok
if thats for my fut hus--------------mind ur language!

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so lamby na, it doesnt matter if i prefer such a girl or not, but crazy is not one

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eh? enna sollureenga?

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Originally Posted by thamizhvaanan

lambyna , there are two sides to a coin. u can look at the same thing in different ways.

eventhough i wud prefer a wife who doesnt work and live like a normal housewife, i do think that job gives women the freedom that they deserve. these days women are talking abt equality and stuff, but that wont come unless they take the responsibility. and i beleive earning contributes a lot to a modern day girl's ego. i personally dont wish to damage that.

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Ok ok.....'didnt mean to scare u! :D
Yea even I feel tat a job wud make her feel more active/responsible & even worldy-wise than sitting at home & doing jus 'regular' shopping etc.....but personally I wudnt want a wife who'd be in a career tat'd tend to make her like, too immersed/preoccupied to take interest in spending time w/ me/sharing my (personal) dreams/interests &/or devoting to matters related to the home/family....& I def. wudnt think it healthy if its a career tat tends to escalate her ego......ego is the last thing I'd want to get in our way! :D
As even I dont want to work for building an ego but out of necessity as its only a practical option.....! :)

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Originally Posted by crazy

yaara paadhu thandha sooru enneenga?
if thats for me, its ok
if thats for my fut hus--------------mind ur language!

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so lamby na, it doesnt matter if i prefer such a girl or not, but crazy is not one

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eh? enna sollureenga?

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I meant my chellamana super hubber crazy...who eats all the vegetables which is the main reason for loss of vegetables in earth..:evil:

if a woman shudnt be too distracted by her job, the same goes for men too right?? most of the gr8 ppl ( i dont mean gr8 the hubber) spend very little quality time with their family. it is a price that they and their family have to pay for his success.

but, on the other side, i also wudn like my wife to be carried away by her job alone. if her ambition demands it, no problem. but, sometimes wives do that to try and stand up to their husband. if the husband is too busy with his work, atleast wife shud look after the family. but ladies from some elite families try to match their husband and their child suffers a lot. so it has to be one of them and other making a sacrifice :D

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Originally Posted by thamizhvaanan

if a woman shudnt be too distracted by her job, the same goes for men too right?? most of the gr8 ppl ( i dont mean gr8 the hubber) spend very little quality time with their family. it is a price that they and their family have to pay for his success.

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I agree tat men too shudnt get carried away like tat....tats y as I said, even I dont want to! :D

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but, on the other side, i also wudn like my wife to be carried away by her job alone. if her ambition demands it, no problem. but, sometimes wives do that to try and stand up to their husband. if the husband is too busy with his work, atleast wife shud look after the family. but ladies from some elite families try to match their husband and their child suffers a lot. so it has to be one of them and other making a sacrifice :D

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Also true....! :(

what ever iam not such a kind of girl!
i will take care of my home, my husband and also kids! thats why i want a good walker, such that i can speak to him, share blah blah blah. money doesnt matter for me! my fut husb, should make/earn money for ur living, iam not gonna ask him for other stuffs(hope so)

i dont get it where these topics actually came out of!

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Originally Posted by crazy

what ever iam not such a kind of girl!
i will take care of my home, my husband and also kids! thats why i want a good walker, such that i can speak to him, share blah blah blah. money doesnt matter for me! my fut husb, should make/earn money for ur living, iam not gonna ask him for other stuffs(hope so)

i dont get it where these topics actually came out of!

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this is wat i meant :lol:

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so lamby na, it doesnt matter if i prefer such a girl or not, but crazy is not one


eh? enna sollureenga?

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