Does Love Exist?

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Originally Posted by Wibha

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

Today's 'lovers' are alive only to the call of primal instincts only and intellect or sense takes a back seat! :lol:

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This is a ridiculous accusation. :x

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+22

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

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Originally Posted by hamid

yappa.. thread pala thisaiyila payanikkuthu pola :lol:

TM,
u r changind stands :notthatway: But, that was enough said already and u indirectly accepted that too.. so letz move on to the next topic..

the percentage of true love (or exceptions as per ur view) in soceity..

thr is no way we can arrive at a % for tht.. but yes.. thr is a big increase in the so-called loves offlate.. and it is not good for the soceity..but terming it as 99.999999% ellam romba oovar... a pure pessimistic view.. ellame thapputhaannu nambikittu/mudivu pannnittu paarkira paarvai.. ithuvum samuukathuku nallathilla..

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'enakkoru girl friend vEnumadaa girl friend illaa vaazkai waste allavaa'-nnu cinema-la paadi paadi pasangaLa usuppEththi, college campus-la( it starts in school itself), IT office-la innum pala idangaLla ithu oru 'virus' maathiri paravi, oru naagareegam maathiri kadaipidikkap pattu kadaisila- 'nallaa'(I don't know to what limit!) pazagittu ta-ta solRavanga niRaiya irukkaangaLaa illaiyaa?

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PP madam.. I agree to that and I sincerely share your concern.. already ithe thread-la I have said mostly I will agree to TM's view on the so-called love's...

but at the same time, I cant agree with the view that every love is of this kind... for me the true love exists very much in this world even today.. and their % is definitely not less than than the so-called ones...

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Originally Posted by hamid

and on a side note.. when u said .. pethavangala pathi kavala padaama oodi poraangannu.. the basic culprit in most of these cases are the parents (their stupid so-called pride, fear about the soceity).. y not blame them??

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hamid,

Its not just fear of society. what if the DIVINE love blesses 2 ppl of different religion? There are hurdles to cross for the said couple when bitter truth strikes them hard, but the parents would not be too happy wit the choice. They are just PLAIN WORRIED about the kids. (this happens only when reliigion is diff cause the difference is too much to withstand for normal human mind)

So sometimes give parents their due creidt...pavam pethavanga.

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

'enakkoru girl friend vEnumadaa girl friend illaa vaazkai waste allavaa'-nnu cinema-la paadi paadi pasangaLa usuppEththi, college campus-la( it starts in school itself), IT office-la innum pala idangaLla ithu oru 'virus' maathiri paravi, oru naagareegam maathiri kadaipidikkap pattu kadaisila- 'nallaa'(I don't know to what limit!) pazagittu ta-ta solRavanga niRaiya irukkaangaLaa illaiyaa?

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AND there are also others from the same places- schools,colleges, companies whatever, that actually GET TO KNOW a person, fall in love with their character and get married.

Why don't you see such people and state them as examples?

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

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Originally Posted by app_engine

SP,

Nice post!

The last statement alone seems to be factually incorrect :-) i.e. this one :

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Originally Posted by SP

At any point of time, in any society, both men and women are equally responsible for the growth or the curse of the society.

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At least in some societies, at some point of time, women were / are suppressed to ugly levels as to not have a significant say on how things are run.

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opposite to this there are many places now, woman has all the say.. the fact is now the condition of the society has gone to ugliest level.

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Deivame! Eppadi ungaLaala mattum ipdiyellaam mudiyudhu! Top :clap:

Ennanga ennai kekkuringa?. Naan enna Naatamaiya?. Sambandhapatta ninga than sollanum. :)

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Originally Posted by app_engine

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Originally Posted by ajithfederer

Any love-married hubbers here??. They can share their experiences here. Aarumae illaya? :lol:.

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I "arranged" my marriage (not my parents, but they agreed to it). Will you call it a love marriage? :-)

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Originally Posted by Wibha

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

For Girls (not Shakthiprabha :poke: ) :
1. the above one..
2. He is no way can find a job and can provide bread and butter and u come to understand that at a time..

Will u still marry him..?

Be honest :roll:

appaala meet panren :wave:

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Of course.

Lets not forget even girls can earn and provide for the family. it doesn't matter who's the one with the job.

Thiru what is love to you?

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what abt the first one ?

nee manasaara sonniyo illayo..maththavanga maathiri pin vaangaama sonnathukku oru :thumbsup:

Agreed, Hamid! Even TM allows a fraction for such exceptions. There are true, patient, responsible adults who wait with restraint and on the other hand OdippOga thudikkiRavanga, parents-ai insult paNNi thookki eRiyaRavangathaanE majority?

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Originally Posted by sathya_1979

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Originally Posted by Wibha

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

Today's 'lovers' are alive only to the call of primal instincts only and intellect or sense takes a back seat! :lol:

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This is a ridiculous accusation. :x

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+22

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michcha 21 enga :noteeth:

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

responsible adults who wait with restraint and on the other hand OdippOga thudikkiRavanga, parents-ai insult paNNi thookki eRiyaRavangathaanE majority?

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As much as increasingly ppl are open to select their choice, I disagree that 'majority' of them do not consider their parent's consent. Atleast in India it does matter. Even now.