Does Love Exist?

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Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

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Originally Posted by hamid

and on a side note.. when u said .. pethavangala pathi kavala padaama oodi poraangannu.. the basic culprit in most of these cases are the parents (their stupid so-called pride, fear about the soceity).. y not blame them??

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hamid,

Its not just fear of society. what if the DIVINE love blesses 2 ppl of different religion? There are hurdles to cross for the said couple when bitter truth strikes them hard, but the parents would not be too happy wit the choice. They are just PLAIN WORRIED about the kids. (this happens only when reliigion is diff cause the difference is too much to withstand for normal human mind)

So sometimes give parents their due creidt...pavam pethavanga.

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SP... enna periya kastam? pasanga vaazkaiyavida ethu perisu??? if you go in deep it is either their "so-called pride" or "the fear of the soceity" or "who the hell are you and what do you know.. I know whats better for u" thaan..

Sari.. leave inter caste for now... if both lovers are of same caste and if they express their love to the parents, do u think most of the previous generation parents will even care to look whether the choice is right? (again thr r exceptions and I have seen at least one exception.. )

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Originally Posted by Wibha

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

'enakkoru girl friend vEnumadaa girl friend illaa vaazkai waste allavaa'-nnu cinema-la paadi paadi pasangaLa usuppEththi, college campus-la( it starts in school itself), IT office-la innum pala idangaLla ithu oru 'virus' maathiri paravi, oru naagareegam maathiri kadaipidikkap pattu kadaisila- 'nallaa'(I don't know to what limit!) pazagittu ta-ta solRavanga niRaiya irukkaangaLaa illaiyaa?

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AND there are also others from the same places- schools,colleges, companies whatever, that actually GET TO KNOW a person, fall in love with their character and get married.

Why don't you see such people and state them as examples?

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exactly...

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

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Originally Posted by sathya_1979

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Originally Posted by Wibha

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

Today's 'lovers' are alive only to the call of primal instincts only and intellect or sense takes a back seat! :lol:

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This is a ridiculous accusation. :x

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+22

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michcha 21 enga :noteeth:

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I meant, I strongly disagree with what PP Madam mentioned and support Wibha. 22 is a random number generated to show the strength of my support.

Hamid,

These days parents have mellowed down, IMO. Esp factor called "social pressure or society's sake" is absent. Pride probaby yup.

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

what abt the first one ?

nee manasaara sonniyo illayo..maththavanga maathiri pin vaangaama sonnathukku oru :thumbsup:

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I meant yes for both. Love is about understanding and compromising.

TM you still haven't said what do you mean when you say love?

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Originally Posted by Wibha

TM you still haven't said what do you mean when you say love?

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It does not exist acc to him. :evil: He has not seen any live examples :roll: how can he say what it means?! :think:

SP,

though whether it is acceptable here or not.. I strongly feel that the current generation is lot lot better in understanding and upholding human values.. I do see better harmony and understanding among people in the years to come...

and that is the same reason for the mellowed down u have mentioned.. and for the same reason i quoted wil the previous generation parents accept?

People who support (Or In Love / Loved / Expecting a love etc) will always look for the positive examples to substantiate their case.

People who oppose will quote negative examples to substantiate their case.

Hence, nett-nett I doubt whether there would be any change of stance or opinion.

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

Agreed, Hamid! Even TM allows a fraction for such exceptions. There are true, patient, responsible adults who wait with restraint and on the other hand OdippOga thudikkiRavanga, parents-ai insult paNNi thookki eRiyaRavangathaanE majority?

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well they wouldn't have the need to run away and get married IF the parents actually supported them. WHY can't parents for once trust their own children and stand BY them.Parents and kids should come to a compromise.

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Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

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Originally Posted by hamid

and on a side note.. when u said .. pethavangala pathi kavala padaama oodi poraangannu.. the basic culprit in most of these cases are the parents (their stupid so-called pride, fear about the soceity).. y not blame them??

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hamid,

Its not just fear of society. what if the DIVINE love blesses 2 ppl of different religion? There are hurdles to cross for the said couple when bitter truth strikes them hard, but the parents would not be too happy wit the choice. They are just PLAIN WORRIED about the kids. (this happens only when reliigion is diff cause the difference is too much to withstand for normal human mind)

So sometimes give parents their due creidt...pavam pethavanga.

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athe..

Parents are from different generations.. they have their own way on understandings.. neenga puriya vaingalaen.. lover pinnaadi ishtathukku suthta time panna mudiyura ungalaala.. peththavanga kooda time spend panni yaen puriya vaikka mudiyaathu? I believe it is very much possible.. u guys dont have the patience in spending time for ur parents.. athaan naan solluvaen...

20 + years ungalukkaaga kastapattavanga manasa purinjikka theriyaatha lovers kku eppadi recent aa love panna aarambichavangala mattum purinjittu irukka poareenga :huh:

there could be worst parents.. but they are exceptions..