Does Love Exist?

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Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

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Originally Posted by Wibha

TM you still haven't said what do you mean when you say love?

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It does not exist acc to him. :evil: He has not seen any live examples :roll: how can he say what it means?! :think:

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without knowing what it is how can he say it doesnt exist? and also come to a conclusion what he has seen is not love?


anyway..ithukullaye thirumba thirumba pokaama erkondu aaka veendiyatha paarpom :D

Hamid, maerkkondu enna aagaNum? :confused2:

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Originally Posted by Wibha

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

Agreed, Hamid! Even TM allows a fraction for such exceptions. There are true, patient, responsible adults who wait with restraint and on the other hand OdippOga thudikkiRavanga, parents-ai insult paNNi thookki eRiyaRavangathaanE majority?

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well they wouldn't have the need to run away and get married IF the parents actually supported them. WHY can't parents for once trust their own children and stand BY them.Parents and kids should come to a compromise.

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agreed.

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

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Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

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Originally Posted by hamid

and on a side note.. when u said .. pethavangala pathi kavala padaama oodi poraangannu.. the basic culprit in most of these cases are the parents (their stupid so-called pride, fear about the soceity).. y not blame them??

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hamid,

Its not just fear of society. what if the DIVINE love blesses 2 ppl of different religion? There are hurdles to cross for the said couple when bitter truth strikes them hard, but the parents would not be too happy wit the choice. They are just PLAIN WORRIED about the kids. (this happens only when reliigion is diff cause the difference is too much to withstand for normal human mind)

So sometimes give parents their due creidt...pavam pethavanga.

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athe..

Parents are from different generations.. they have their own way on understandings.. neenga puriya vaingalaen.. lover pinnaadi ishtathukku suthta time panna mudiyura ungalaala.. peththavanga kooda time spend panni yaen puriya vaikka mudiyaathu? I believe it is very much possible.. u guys dont have the patience in spending time for ur parents.. athaan naan solluvaen...

20 + years ungalukkaaga kastapattavanga manasa purinjikka theriyaatha lovers kku eppadi recent aa love panna aarambichavangala mattum purinjittu irukka poareenga :huh:

there could be worst parents.. but they are exceptions..

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TM,

I never said "worst parents" at all. I will never quote that way.. what I say is they lack the understanding and at these situations they cant see the right thing.. reason is quoted already..

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Originally Posted by hamid

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Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

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Originally Posted by Wibha

TM you still haven't said what do you mean when you say love?

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It does not exist acc to him. :evil: He has not seen any live examples :roll: how can he say what it means?! :think:

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without knowing what it is how can he say it doesnt exist? and also come to a conclusion what he has seen is not love?


anyway..ithukullaye thirumba thirumba pokaama erkondu aaka veendiyatha paarpom :D

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Exactly.To know if something exists or not one has to know what it is.

Oru mqanushan, oru forum-aiyE 2 nALA, 19 pageA OtturAn. Tm :bow:

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Originally Posted by sathya_1979

Hamid, maerkkondu enna aagaNum? :confused2:

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ella vithathulayum rendu jodiya pidichittu vanthu kathaiyalla nijam prokiram nadathanum :lol:

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

20 + years ungalukkaaga kastapattavanga manasa purinjikka theriyaatha lovers kku eppadi recent aa love panna aarambichavangala mattum purinjittu irukka poareenga :huh:

there could be worst parents.. but they are exceptions..

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tm,

2 situations. Tell me how u would handle it.

1. Parents threaten to commit suicide or sever the relationship if you dont marry the person they choose for u. (for the want of various reasons)

2. Parents are IMPOSSIBLE to be convinced cause a muslim boy and a hindu girl fell in love... .and... love is divine...

(what is the solution in both cases)

I can think of only one solution ...... remain unmarried afer all marriage is not the ONLY WAY TO LIVE eh?

Remember we talk of DIVINE love here.

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Originally Posted by Wibha

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

what abt the first one ?

nee manasaara sonniyo illayo..maththavanga maathiri pin vaangaama sonnathukku oru :thumbsup:

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I meant yes for both. Love is about understanding and compromising.

TM you still haven't said what do you mean when you say love?

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ippa nee sonniyae, ithaan love, imo :)

understanding, compromising, unconditional and unselfish.. ithu rendu side um irukanumnu illa... Oru side la irunthaalae periya vishayam :)

TM.. dont want to answer to my queries??? :huh: