Pregnancy risks

Hi guys - looks like many enquiries have come forth but no sign of the father-to-be in question, though :roll:

Before I say anything else - I actually read it up in a simple pregnancy book, Pa!! So, the authors concerned being obsetrician/gynaecologists had merely given the usual biological data to support their theories! But of course, everything would have to have its 10% margin of failure, so please don't be up in arms, okay????!!!

This is not astrology, Pa!! :D And certainly, what they had said is nothing new, either! So definitely, no magic wand at work here!!

Before embarking on this planning method, all couples have to be strict and in the know about the menstrual cycle of the woman, okay??? For this to be fairly accurate, the woman has to be strict in charting her menses in the calendar, diligently without fail. A flip calendar is most useful, as it's easier to refer to previous months.

Always record only the 1st day of the menses, every single month for at least 8 - 10 months. Only after that, could we plan the conception!

To be continued ..........(Please post comments, if anything is displeasing)

Dear blah
Mind of the mother is the mind of the future. what mothers think during their pregnacy becomes the future mind of the child. I am exactly my own mother's mind. I will explain this a little more. My grandma has six children. Now all these six are different in thier way of thinking and approach in life. Now look at this fact, all the six are born to the same dad and mom, so genetics are the same, all of them been born in the same house and brought under the same environment, but why are all six different?.

Here is the truth from the vedic ayurvedic physcian ...susrutha.....(i will soon put the sanskrit verse in my web site next month) who says it is mother's mind in pregnancy that makes the mind of the child.


Now comming back to my grandma's story, the genetics are same and environment are the same , but still six different children. if everything the same then why difffernce?. We have to understand the fact that, our genrtics dont change drastically, it is our mind that changes.

So in six different pregnancies my grandma had six different mental states and it was stunning when I researched my grandma's six mental states during her pregnancy and six different nature of her kids. Though she cannot remember all that she thought but I could infer from her what she said it makes sense. I then checked this concept with lot of people and muself too and my sister.

Now our son is four year old. it is amazing that my research shows positive results (actually credit goes to our ancient Indian masters). Whatever my wife thought is reflected more and more in him. we then checked with her friends kids and their mental states and amazingly it matches. Genetics play only the role for phsical body and very less for the mental make up.

So my suggestion to blah is that dont get seperated. Be with your wife. That is very essential for the mental matruity of your kid in future.

Regarding the physical condition, dont plan your child without beign healthy. Husband and wife should be healthy to get a healthy kid. The husband health is critical only till he gives the sperms. But the wife's health is so important till delivery and even after that till breast feedign stops.

My wife did a three month pre-pregnancy act, which means for three months we behaved (rehersed) as if she was pregnant and so she was able to know how to handle in pregnancy and what is important. She never had any pregnancy problems which her freinds had. it was because of good mind condition and good healthy diet.

I hope this will be of help to you.

I forgot to write soemthign important. The reason why i wrote this is that everything is so focussed on the food part in pregnancy. Everyone avoids junk food and take proper vitamins (pre-natals) etc etc, but no one pays any attention to avoid junk thoughts, good nourishing thoughts that are vital for the kid's health.

Both food and good thoughts are to be taken in pregnancy. If we take good care of only the food then the body will be good but not the mind and vice versa.

Pregnancy is like baking cookies, whatever ingredients you add decides the quality of the cookie. Onece the cookie is backed you cannnot do anything. Same way is pregnancy. Many things that my wife taught the kid in pregnancy our son does effortlessly. There is no teaching required. Most of the parents try to change the kids behaviour after the kid is born, it is so difficult like changing the shape of the cookie after baking.

So susrutha's sanskrit verse make so much sense. The mother's thoughts decides the mental makeup of the kid.

Healthy food is simple. All l that is wholesome, unrefined, unprocessed, natrual is the best. Walking outside is the best exercise, there is no susbtitute to it.

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Now our son is four year old. it is amazing that my research shows positive results (actually credit goes to our ancient Indian masters). Whatever my wife thought is reflected more and more in him. we then checked with her friends kids and their mental states and amazingly it matches. Genetics play only the role for phsical body and very less for the mental make up.

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Aiya Pradheep, you are making me scared :lol:

Dear Raghu
:lol: :lol: sacred that I am encroaching into your area? :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Originally Posted by pradheep

Dear Raghu
:lol: :lol: sacred that I am encroaching into your area? :lol: :lol: :lol:

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:x :lol: :lol:

ok. let's get serious about this topic now


Blablah dude,

40 kg does seems under weight, but if her BMI (Body Mass Index) is OK, according to her height, you can check it here

http://www.bbc.co.uk/health/healthy_...al_index.shtml

Make sure she eats plenty of Fruits and Vegs, ask the aunties here they will tell you what fruit to avoid, tell her to do gentle exercises and drink plenty of milk.

BUT LAST BUT NOT LEAST, like our scientist friend Pradheep said, keep her mind happy, I SERIOUSLY suggests both of you take up YOGA to find inner harmony and tranquillity.

And best of luck!

Blah Blah,

This link too will give you some information.. and of course, this site has the chinese lunar chart, but anyway as it is ur first kid that u are planning.. juz go ahead..

http://www.thelaboroflove.com/chart/cal.html

Cindy.

Blahblah,

Do peep into

http://www.hemant-trivedis-cookery-c...pregnancy.html

Hemant trivedi has collected a lot of useful info on pregnancy and put it together in one place for easy ref.

Hi guys,thank you all for your suggestions.I am sure some of you guys may have ''googled'' a bit in an effort to help my humble self :lol: :lol: .But yet that effort matters for me.I wasn't around for a couple of days and am sure you will all accept a bit of a delay in thanking you. 8)

Jus check this

http://www.indiaparenting.com/pregna...reg05_00.shtml