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Sandeep : You left out these lines which I found the most bugging !
"It is not just my daughters. I will tell other women also about the hardships of sex work and then if they want to get into it, I won't stop them," Jameela says.
For her part, Jameela intends to continue with sex work as long as she stays healthy, saying she has had more freedom as a sex worker than she has ever had as a wife.
"Looking back, I find life as a sex worker more enjoyable. As a wife one has to listen, to always be dominated by someone," Jameela said.
"I like being a sex worker. Some become lawyers, doctors. It was my choice to become to a sex worker."
Its not a career choice .Will they be offering studies next :roll:
Incase any of you wantto read the full article..
http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20051215/...NlYwN5bmNhdA--
Dangerously misleading! Disgracefully awesome!
My post MAY NOT be appreciated by many. But just wanna give my 2 cents.
I always feel sex workers need to be respected. They do it as their profession. I remember reading (and also acknowledging it) somehwhere that if not for sex workers, RAPE, SEXUAL ADVANCES, SEXUAL HARASSMENTS etc would increase in multitude.
Like in many countries, India has legalised this profession. We need not glorify them, then again I find its not right on our part to PUT THEM DOWN. Its their career.
Sex is urged everywhere in india via media. We, who cant question those repulsive dance moveents, close-to-nude clothings, suggestive dialogues, are ready enough to question or look down upon sex workers.
This woman in her autobiography, I agree, is shockingly open. Her statement about encouraging sex-work as a career to ANY WOMAN, sounds very abhorrent. yes.
When the question of accepting sex-workers with ease amognst the society IS IN-ITSELF IS A QUESTION, such statements are not welcomed by many.
We encourage women being sold as sex symbols in many field around. Some Women in the name of fashion, do expose themselves unashamedly. Fashion shows and beauty shows are carried on and has become the talk of COMMON MAN.
This, I guess is one more step. When we keep mum about all those, we are helpless here too.
Isn't dating a form of prostitution? With the entry of dating culture has not prostitution gained surreptious entry into our society?
SP, you wrote my thought!!!...
But I didn't know that it has been legalised in India...
Dev,
They were fightin for it. As much as I know, I think it is legalised . (not sure on this part. someone can clarify)
PP maam,
Dating does not mean prostitution. Dating is just meeting of similar minds, and spending some memorable moments with them. Dating is mistaken by many youngsters and older gen ppl TO INVOLVE SEX.
One can have a date with DAD, MOM, FRIEND OR boy/girl friends(lovers). It need not necessarily result in sexual adavances.
A date is just PLEASNT time spent together.
SP:
In one thing I agree with you.A Sex worker also should be given equal respect in society.Afterall to them prostitution is work.
But what I cant accept is recognising prostitution as quality work.IMHO its demeaning to the feminine gender, to mankind itself as a whole.How can an act of nature existing soley as a display of affection/love and/or for the purpose of procreating be reduced to this?
Ssajinika,
I hear there are male sex - workers too :shock:Quote:
But what I cant accept is recognising prostitution as quality work. IMHO its demeaning to the feminine gender, to mankind itself as a whole
sad. I agree wtih u 500 percent ON THIS. Sex which actually is a display on love and affection, ruthlessly, sold out. Sold out everywhere in different names. :cry:Quote:
.How can an act of nature existing soley as a display of affection/love and/or for the purpose of procreating be reduced to this?
Well, if everyone wants only love and affection then this wont happen ssajinika. What ppl want is LUST. Thats when they go to these places.
If the world is a perfect place, many things wont be here.
I do welcome legalising them, and respecting them SO THAT ATLEAST THEY GET EDUCATED ON SAFE SEX. Aids and other dangerous diseases would reduce .
SP, my knowledge of present day 'dating' gathered from contemporary western novels gives me a fair insight into the lifestyles of western countries & what really "dating" is. The tragedy is our people are blindly aping the west in this also!