karthik, i dnt see anything offensive wrt 2, 3. 1 and 4, dnt remember and need to revisit. Brahmins dead body thookka koodaadhunnu irukkaa? Am not sure. I have seen many carry dead bodies to sudukaadu.
WRT dasa, paatti was under the illusion that her son is alive. When that defence mechanism is broken, she visualizes poovaraghan as her son, cry out to pacify herself. The only grouse here is characterization of the person accompanying paatti as jaadhi pisaasu. thamizh naattila, after 1947, nadandha ethana jaadhi kalavarathula brahmins kaaraNamaa irundhirukkaanga? Dnt have the exact percent numbers, but, generally brahmins are the ones who had involved on intercaste marriages more than any other. Jaadhi pisaasunnu maththavangaLa paaththu avaraala dhairiyamaa solla mudiyumaa?