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Why is it wrong for a non-commited person to have sex with a prostitute or another non-commited woman?
The topic of consentual sex between to non-committed people was discussed elsewhere.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sandeep
As for a prostitute,I don't think she would be graceful enough to stick to clients who are non committed! :lol:
Leaving aside PROSTITUTES whose duty or profession is to SATISFY ANY type of customers,
if we are talkin of non-committed sex from a man and woman's point of view.....
Everybody PREFERS to have disciplines LAID down in life. A clear and well planned life leads us to happiness.
Culture ws developed as against primitive man, only to let us enjoy a healthier life.
Nothing WRONG in enjoying non-comitted sex.
IF u look at sex, from the point of view of love(as many do) Its sad that sex-without-love but lust is resorted to.
If u resort to sex-with-love, THEN COMMITMENT happens naturally.
That is why its PREFERRED TO HAVE sex-with-commitment.
Again there is nothing like WRONG OR RIGHT. one can chose what they want.
One way is culture bound
other way is primitive.
thats it.
one more thing.
CULTURE SAYS...... dont hurt others
CULTURE SYS..... love others
CULTURE SAYS........... be tolerant towards other
CULTURE SAYS....... avoid JEALOUSY, ANGER, PRIDE N PREDUCE.
Most of us or almost all of us cant follow all that..... or dont follow all that.
atleast lets TRY and follow...
ONE-MAN ONE-WOMAN culture. :smile:
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non-committed sex from a man and woman's point of view
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No No I was not asking about non-committed sex, I am asking between to non-commited persons (That is between who are not commited to anyone else-they may of may not be commited to each other).
And going furthur on that I agree with Blahblah that
//As for a prostitute,I don't think she would be graceful enough to stick to clients who are non committed//
But here how is the prostitute wrong. Isn't it the customer (who is commited to someone else) at wrong.
YES . Its the man who failed in his commitment. PROSTITUTE just did her job.
Regarding ur first question,
By non-committed person do u mean not married ppl yet IN LOVE who before marriage indulge in sex?
//By non-committed person do u mean not married ppl yet IN LOVE who before marriage indulge in sex?//
A person who is "not married to"/"not in love with"/"not fiance" of another person.
He may or may not be in love with the person he is having sex with.
okei okei............ i got ur diffrence.
at any POINT OF TIME, a person who is not committed to any other person........
hmm....
Tommorrow assuming they commit themselves to SOMEBODY ELSE? (other than the person he or she had sex)
its all the same right.
u are not in love, but just indulge for lust.
Whatever said and done, its healthier to maintain
ONE-MAN ONE WOMAN....
Our ancestors were not FOOLS to suggest the same to us.
Weve gone far away from so many nice suggestions(not commands or orders) said by ancestors, this is the ONLY thing ppl are still adamently abiding on.
Body-mind-soul IS something we can present wholely to our life-partner ALONE.
In many cases mind and soul is missing. LET ATLEAST the body be chaste. Something is better than nothing right?
My personal view is I SUPPORT the culture of COMMITTED SEX.
I rule out however, that ppl who dont resort to it should be disgraced.
Sorry for sounding like a question bank but here I go again.
1) Can a person have sex with his/her lover before marraige
2) Can a person have sex with his/her spouse just for procreation without any intention of giving/sharing pleasure.