This thread was created with a sincere intention to guide youngsters. I wish some positive and constructive thoughts are shared here.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shekhar
Best regards
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This thread was created with a sincere intention to guide youngsters. I wish some positive and constructive thoughts are shared here.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shekhar
Best regards
Balaji, that's our good old Shekhar for you.
He's one hubber with a great sense of humour.
Better get used to this!! :) :wink:
By the way, we have far more pressing issues on hand to tackle like the evil influence of western clothings.
Though your intention to guide youngsters is good it is always better to have one or two or a couple more who owns humor.Quote:
Originally Posted by S.Balaji
And by the way this is not an instruction manual.
My question is why should one marry another? What is the purpose of a marriage? Can't it go without a marriage?
Its obvious that you are young..Quote:
Originally Posted by sivajayan
I am sure people who thought y get married regretted it late in life. I feel one of the main reasons a person gets married is for companianship.It might not be necessary when one is young and can go out and meet friends but is definitely required when one does not have the energy or the inclination to spend too much time outside the house.You might argue that theres always siblings and real close friends but believe me no one comes close to that one person to call your own.
Well, sure you can! I dont see why not?Quote:
Originally Posted by sivajayan
And since you brought up such a sensible question, I think YOU SHOULD NOT get married, sivajayan and you should show the world that marriage is not important at all!
I heard that "living together" has been made legal in India! That is a green signal for you, sivajayan! Please be a "role model" to everyone and keep updating the developments of your achievement in the forum once in a month or two or six!
You are on your own now! 8)
Go for it! :thumbsup:
BTW, if you could not find any "spouse" for living together, dont worry, just be a single for ever which can make you a TRUE PATRIOT as u r helping India to control the growing population! After all u know that the whole purpose of marriage is ridiculous!
Of course, one can choose not to get married. However, the chosen path would be a lonely one.
As ssanjinika aptly said, one of the main reasons parents are eager to marry off their children is to get them a companion. At the end of the day, each and everyone of us want is that special someone who is legally, emotionally and physically belong to us and to us only. That is exactly what marriage is all about. Love helps a great deal in making that come true.
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I have heard many reasons why a person would want to get married :wink: but to say that one does for the need of offsprings. :rotfl:
The next course of action for any married couple is to produce offsprings. It is at this point where issues like fertility, biological clock, the need to continue one's lineage etc et comes to mind. Not when discussing about the ideal age to get married.
Though it woud be good to know the points mentioned, however, these alone would not dictate the right time to get married.
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Briefly there are two categories of Indian parents:
1)The marriage talk starts right after the daughter/son graduates or secures a job. Parents who feel that their child is ready for marriage fall into this category.
2)The other set of parents are those who let their children decide. This is not necessarily applicable to love marriages alone. Here, the indivuadual decides for him/herself.
In a way, parental influence too becomes one of the main factors.
No No, stranger, I can't agree with you here. It is these "single" ones who contribute more to the growth of population!!! Think of it... married can produce only one child per year and stop at mostly two. :lol: :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by stranger
:rotfl: :poke:
Shekar's comment is explicit about one great boon of "marriage" :D
Is it really obvious? How obvious? I know quite a lot of people who are old and behave like kids and a lot of kids behave like old. Perhaps I am too old and becomming senile. Could this be the reason for your obvious assumption? :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by ssanjinika
I am also sure that people who married regretted it later.Quote:
Originally Posted by ssanjinika
By the way why did Buddha ran away and sat under the Bothi tree? Was he happy that he was married?
What should I do if my partner dies? Should I go for another marriage?Quote:
Originally Posted by ssanjinika
But believe me, you never own anyone! Your wife/husband, fiancee/fiance or simply your partner is something your special. No, she/he is not your pet! They have their own views and thoughts and they ought ot be your other half (the better one) that takes your breath away, you get addicted to. Only that matters!Quote:
Originally Posted by ssanjinika
You got the point as always. :thumbsup: I have been doing for the last 10 years with the one and the same, in couple of years when I am over her I for sure go for 10 every year as my handcuffs are removed now :lol: I don't think it is wrong too. It is my nature to help them and of course helping me beside.Quote:
Originally Posted by Stranger
No, no! India does not need me, my views and my visions :lol: and I got stuck somewhere else.
Shekar are you sure that married only "produce" one a year? Perhaps the women "produce" one every 10 months normally. Is it Mahabharatham telling of hundred children at once? (just a joke!)
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Ultimate Kind Warrior :wink: please don't unwrap me through private messages. They are dangerous. But you can email others about me and tell them the truth about me and convey my regards. It is a tough existence being prominent. :lol: