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20th March 2006, 01:26 PM
Sanguine Sridhar

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Originally Posted by Shekhar

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Originally Posted by Sanguine Sridhar

If the lust is with your love then no issues... But if your love changes every month then that is ofcourse an issue :roll:

No.. No.. it is the other way round. You get issues only when there is lust.

If you could produce issues by love without lust, My God, what would have happened!!! (parents of girls would have had real tough time!!) :lol: :lol: :lol:

Very funny Shekar :D :roll:
20th March 2006, 02:19 PM
Shakthiprabha.

aha RP.

Many here pronounce it as loWE only not love :lol: (kidding)

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Gaayu, why are u shocked cause lust is scoring less :roll:
20th March 2006, 11:25 PM
gorgeous gaayini

I am shocked that it has 6 votes! i was expecting no votes at all for lust!
20th March 2006, 11:54 PM
Sinthiya

I think in perfect relationship between a couple, you need a little bit of love and lust. Definitely, love is far more important to strengthen the relationship and make it last forever. But, lust is part of love....i don't think you can separate the two.....
21st March 2006, 09:57 AM
selvakumar

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Originally Posted by Sinthiya

I think in perfect relationship between a couple, you need a little bit of love and lust. Definitely, love is far more important to strengthen the relationship and make it last forever. But, lust is part of love....i don't think you can separate the two.....

I agree with you that we cannot separate the two. IMHO, Love makes the people connected for a long period of time. But during the initial years, it is the lust that increases their love life. Though lust has little presence when compared to love, that little presence indirectly influence the love on the concerned person. My point is : Lust has an indirect impact in increasing the love on a particular person. I am talking about pure love and the lust that is connected with it. I am not referring the plain lust that we can have on anybody. Ultimately, during the initial bonding, lust dominates love and opens the doors the pure love.
21st March 2006, 03:27 PM
Shakthiprabha.

There can exist love without lust.
I mean pure unadulterated shudh love WITH ZERO lust
21st March 2006, 03:53 PM
Chappani

I agree with Shakti,

Selva, I think the other way, I feel its the love that fuels lust. Just tell me can you spend time with any girl on street to satisfy your lust??? just think over.
Even for the first time, I feel its the love that takes lead and the lust just follows especially in relationships.
21st March 2006, 03:59 PM
Shakthiprabha.

chappani :) :thumbsup:

LOVE without lust, is so powerful that it ....... can win over ALMOST anything.

:)
21st March 2006, 05:30 PM
selvakumar

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Originally Posted by Chappani

Selva, I think the other way, I feel its the love that fuels lust. Just tell me can you spend time with any girl on street to satisfy your lust??? just think over.
Even for the first time, I feel its the love that takes lead and the lust just follows especially in relationships.

Beg to differ reg street girl. If u do have a look at the street girl,(A girl in a street accidently), definitly love+lust will dominate. But lust will dominate the love. Only over a period of time, you can depict your love or feel it. Initally, it is the lust that fuels the love. But I believe that both of them can never be separated.

In relationships, definitly both the things will try to dominate. But it is the lust that adds fuel to the fire.. and makes it a complete one(love). Your point is applicable in the long run. I have seen many people(pairs) losing their love in this busy life, but yet depict their love at odd times through lust. so, lust plays a great role in developing / bringing out the love that we have on a particular person.
21st March 2006, 05:46 PM
Chappani

No Selva, it looks like your quotes are by looking at others, may be you are still not in a position to quote from your personal experiences.

There is an Aunt of mine, her Husband has some physical disablity and there was no sex life between them. But they had lots of love for each other in their prime, even now though quite old enough they are taking care of each other so very affectionatly.

Tell me why do you give a new perpective to the Man Woman relationship, can't it be an extension of friendship??? You should be having friends from you school/college days, This is also love and did lust fuel this relationship??? just think over...

"Love" and "lust" are something like "likeness" and "Hunger".
Passikki Rusi teriyaadu is fine, when you are hungry all eatables on Earth will be tasty. But many things are tasty even when we are not Hungry... :)

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