One of my instructors once said "After a divorce, you still feel love for your spouse". Funny thing is, he was divorced about three times :lol: Wonder if he feels the same for them all and I wonder which new girl knowing all this would want to get involved!
Another funny story one man told me in UK, he was divorced about four times. During the alst divorce, the Judge said to him calling out his name loudly in a full courtroom, ....I don't want to see you back in this court. This man was relating this story to me in such a cute way, that you would laugh your head off :lol: The woman in each case had the favour of the judge, all records were pulled up. I guess what the judge was trying to say to him is that he is not capable of handling marriage and should not get married again. I guess this should be posted in the "married life" thread.
I think friendship after breaking up comes with some time. Soem people become such clsoe friends that they can talk about their new relationship - the good and bad about it and even look for support from such old friendship. Overall, I think people once in a relationship should be able to maintain friendship if they so wish, given that people break up for all sorts of reasons e.g. "distance" or some unforseen circumstances, not necessarily that the relationship was bad. I have seen people coming together after long periods apart which has caused breaking up in the first place and after they have both been involved with new partners. They go hunting out each other. Funny but true :wink:
