naan irukkEn! :2thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
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naan irukkEn! :2thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
MGR intro scene maathiri irukkuthu :cool:Quote:
Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam
TM,
request you to read the thread title first :yes:
ithellaam love illai nnu solliyaachulla... that shd be enough..Quote:
Originally Posted by littlemaster1982
naan sonnathukku oru maruppum illa, rather u guys keep on coming up with new questions :huh:
ennaala thadumaari poi irukira youngsters kku vazhi thaan kaatta mudiyum.. vaazhapazhatha thoal ellaam urichchi kodukka mudiyaathu.. :roll:
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Originally Posted by NOV
It is not just a joke. Intha maathiri state thaan love panra niraya paerukku.
I know and i am very much talking on that lines.. To put it simple, there is no exist between a boy and girl before marriage.. Mudinjaa naan sonnathu wrong nnu neenga argue pannalaam.. neenga ithellaam love kidayaathaannu kaetathukku naan athukku meaning ennannu solliyaachchu. athukellaam oru maruppum illa :huh:Quote:
Originally Posted by hamid
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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam
Shakthiprabhavum inimae enakku support pannuvaanga :boo:
Thiru
PM kidaikaliya :huh: , it is ok if u r busy :)
Love-ngara per-la sila/pala per pandra thappai vachu love-e illainnu neenga solreenga. Appuram edhudhan love-nu konjam ezplain pannunga. Ketta mazhuppareenga :huh: I still don't understand what are you complaining about :?Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
It depends on what 'love' means to an individual. We are all exposed to different environment from which we have developed 'ideas' about what love is. So it may vary from person to person due to circumstances or experiences they have gone through.
In my opinion it does exist, it can either enhance your life or destroy it big time :sigh2:
I love MY father.
I love MY mother.
I love MY son.
I love MY daughter.
I love My wife.
Pure Selfishness.
I loved the girl nextdoor.
It was a "pure unselfish love", but eventually married MY wife. :rotfl3: :cheer:
Is this the "pure love" we are talking about??
"Does love exists"?
May be to avoid the confusion the steps should be followed in answering the question as to whether love exist:
1. what is love
2. how is it detected or what are some signs
3. give some description of the circumstances or situations - could be based on your own experiences
A consistent and coherent response to the three part question should provide a clear answer based on your viewpoint or position taken.
In an attempt to answer the second part, is to consider the things people do when they hate and when they love or when they say they love and describe the situation or circumstances of both extremes by examples. This coupled with your experience = a definition as to what love is. Then you yourself can determine whether love exist based on these factors.
adappaavigala, indha Love-a TMum, TM-a hub makkalum thoratthi thoratthi adikkuraangale... :D
J,
I don't know your language, but I believe it consist of a joke about TM coming to hub to find out if love exist. Quite funny. :lol: Poor Guy :cry:
illaatha vishayatha eppadi explain panrathu.. ithellaam love illainnu thelivaa theiriyuthu.. ithuthaan love nnu oru example paarthaalum poathu explain pannidalaam..Quote:
Originally Posted by littlemaster1982
athaan kaekuraen.. neengallaam love kku ivvalavu support panreenga.. niraya anubavamum irunthirukkum. :huh: . explain pannungannu kaettaa athu oru feeling nnu mazhupittu poittu irukeenga :roll:
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Originally Posted by littlemaster1982
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Originally Posted by Thirumaran
yeah :( Love a kandupidikka saamiyaaraa thaan poaganumnaa athukku naan ready :mrgreen:Quote:
Originally Posted by Ramona
TM,
Guy X likes a girl Y (for whatever reasons) and wants to marry her. What do you call this?
I'm actually simplifying it. But once you answer this, we can discuss more.
hmmm not xactly.... the story goes back to Vinnai Thaandi Varuvaaya movie thread where the film was commented on by many hubbers as "slice of life", "pure love", "mature love" etc, which irked TM who obviously doesn't think it's so and such things don't exist for him! now it has reached here as a separate thread, so i was just mentioning that TM is hellbent on slamming "love" and the other hubbers are behind him like hell for such comments of his! :) i can't explain this better...uff!Quote:
Originally Posted by Ramona
Anbu ngrathu nalla vishayam.. athu eppadi nammala azhikkum.. but in the love cases as u rightly say it destroys many people.. Mainly guys... nalla vishayamaa illaathathu eppadi love aa irukka mudiyum..Quote:
Originally Posted by PARAMASHIVAN
appuram eppadi love irukkunnu solreenga ????? :think:
Meant this emoticon :( and not this :cry:
intha discussion pala samayam pala edathula with different set of hubbers nadakirathuthaan..Quote:
Originally Posted by jinju
but i am not irked or anything on that lines.. I am just having fun by trying to get certain things from people :P And trying to find certain things too.
if the reason is money that is called desire towards money and so on .. :huh:Quote:
Originally Posted by littlemaster1982
Ok, there are no reasons, X just likes Y because he feels good in her company and thinks they can be happy together and wants to get married. Now what?Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
seri, vishayathukku varuvom...imo, love's an individual thing...personal experiencelirundhu thaan sollamudiyum...enakku lifela rendu vaati love vandhuthu...when first one happened, i thot it was for life but then as someone posted here in last page, i ended up marrying my wife who was my second love whom i met a few years after the first one did a 'jessie' on me :P !
regarding the VTV case, i think there are a lot of "baadhikkappattavanga" like me n the friend who posted in the last page regarding the same experience, and hence the appreciation and identification on VTV as a slice of real life and handling love in a "mature" manner in cinema rather than the usual cinematic love we see...so, TM i hope u can agree with that tag bestowed on VTV by viewers going by this explanation!
regarding TM's opinion that "there is no love between a boy and a girl before marriage" well, it is "ur opinion" which u r entitled to, and i feel it's much ado about nothing guys...TM just has his own opinion on love before and after marriage just as we all have ours, so chill n freeya vidunga :D !
there shd be some reasons/factors right.. to feel good abt and to get married.. what are those ?Quote:
Originally Posted by littlemaster1982
No you got it wrong,someone believes love after marriage,then its their opinion.I agree,But what you will call it if someone says there is no Love at all between a boy and girl?Quote:
Originally Posted by jinju
Avar Unga kitta ketta neenga avar kittaye thiruppi ketkurenga :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
It depends on the person. "Physical attraction" is one, for the starters :) You wanted this answer, right ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
illainu ellaam illa.. but i am yet to come across one such :roll: probably u guys can tell me with a movie example .. that ithu thaan love...Quote:
Originally Posted by Appu s
Dont say VTV :lol2:
simple.. intha case la oruthar accident layo or some other manner manner loses certain things, the other would find another one asap.Quote:
Originally Posted by littlemaster1982
and u know what i would answer, right :wink:
appdi podu! :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
ok time to leave.. stanley vaera en love (so called thaan :noteeth: ) paththi therinjikanumnu aavalaa irukaan.. will try to say later in the day :mrgreen: :wave:
Shabbba illave illainu snna aalu ippa inthalavukku vanthirukkaru :lol2:Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
VTV is their love,you cant generalize everyone's love is same...Mahanadhi-la Kamalukku vayasukku vantha ponnu irukkum pothu Jail-la irunthukittu suganya mela oru eerppu irukum.. Athuvum Love than. Kiss adichittu suthura youngster panrathu mattum love illa.Quote:
Dont say VTV :lol2:
TM I don wan to teach you what is Love :lol: I have asked you so many times what you will call a Husband and wife relation?if there is no love bettween them,then what it is ? :huh:
How are you so sure about this? If physical attraction is the only reason, a guy wouldn't necessarily want to marry that girl. It's just one of the reasons (important one, though).Quote:
Originally Posted by Thirumaran
Perfect :thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by littlemaster1982
adhaan, he has not come across such-nu sollittaarula...mudinjupochu...avar irukkra edatha sutthi neraya baed people dhaannu thonuthu.... :D
itha ithukku munnaadiyaa solliyaachu.. naan sollratha nee purinjikirathe illa :roll: as i said before there might be exceptions for any case.. here it is less than 1 %..Quote:
Originally Posted by Appu s
naan sollrathuthaan ..intha maathiri one or more factors saernthathu than neenga sollra love..Quote:
Originally Posted by littlemaster1982
as u itself said, the important one.. when the important one gone, that is the end...
Oru question for all.
For Guys :
You are in love(true, pure, deep or whatever..) with someone.. at one stage the girl lost all her fairness and u come to know that she is no way eligible for sexual relation.. Will u still marry her ?
For Girls (not Shakthiprabha :poke: ) :
1. the above one..
2. He is no way can find a job and can provide bread and butter and u come to understand that at a time..
Will u still marry him..?
Be honest :roll:
appaala meet panren :wave:
My dear TM, idhai romba izhukkarInga.
Let's say someone destroys himself in Love - or in your words "so-called Love", how do you know he died sadder than you are happy living?
What if destroying himself for Love gave him much greater pleasure than all that we get in our Life by not getting into any such Loves scenario?
How do you define happiness? How do you define fulfilment? To each his own.
http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...ove-55982.htmlQuote:
I was wondering what is your opinion or thoughts on this situation, I went through a couple of months ago (in 2006).
It was nearing the end of my first year at University, I was dancing on the last night the pub was open; suddenly, I saw a good-looking, kind of modest girl and I got the opportunity to dance with her inside the club. Then after we danced for what seemed to be an eternity in paradise, we went outside for a walk around campus, exchanging stories - getting to know each other and we walked back to our campus college - took her back to her room and I went back to mine.
Later on (couple of days later or so), we had gotten to know each other and it had been raining outside, so we went out for a walk and she expressed her likeness of puddle-jumping. I was a bit shy to jump any puddles, but I walked over them anyway (good thing I had water proof shoes) and after those sweet moments, we went back up to her room and just sat on her bed, talking - then there came that infamous silence, our eyes locked. She was looking at me and smiling, my heart was racing so fast - I couldn't believe it, and every instinct inside of me was screaming at me to go for it.
BOOM. I had my first kiss, it was intense. The rush was unreal, I couldn't believe I was in an unending dream.
Eventually, that dream crashed when she was sitting quietly in her room, I remember she felt guilty about what happened and in that moment, I realized that she was already in love with another guy - and it's a long distance relationship. Here's the kicker, she's due to marry him after University.
I spent 10 months getting over her, built a wall around my damaged heart because I don't want to go through all that again. Guess what? she won't easily be forgotten because she's in one of my classes, and it seems like all I can do is just to ignore her. Life is never that easy.
And now, I know I won't ever fall in love again, but I can like new girls but I've learned to be cautious and careful. Since then, I've never felt the same, all because of one girl; but I've learned to move on, and met new girls along the way. I don't think love exist, but hey might as well have fun meeting someone new.
What if there is such a person? Would you believe it if I say I know such a person, or rather knew. Albeit in England. Which is another story because we are so used to denigrating the decadent west, and perhaps even people who argue love exists, some of them will possibly echo you that true love doesnt exist in the western world :-)Quote:
For Guys :
You are in love(true, pure, deep or whatever..) with someone.. at one stage the girl lost all her fairness and u come to know that she is no way eligible for sexual relation.. Will u still marry her ?
http://www.englishforums.com/English.../xrhg/post.htmQuote:
Love is beyond any theory or scope because love doesn't follow any rule. You can't understand true love but you can feel it. There isn't more wonderful thing than feeling love; it's like a sunset: every time you fall in love is different and special. I disagree with any theory about love because I think the only way to learn something about love is when you feel it in your skin, in your heart and in your soul.
This is what Ive been trying to say :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Punnaimaran
May be tm feels, love is 'pure' only when it ends in marriage :think:Quote:
I loved the girl nextdoor.
It was a "pure unselfish love", but eventually married MY wife. :rotfl3: :cheer:
Is this the "pure love" we are talking about??
and I stand corrected :thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by Punnaimaran
When love is absent it need not mean hatred is present, it can be an EMOTIONLESS state :think: