Marriage.....

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Originally Posted by Hulkster

It just happens that Asians have lived with the marriage ceremony makes you husband and wife concept permanently that they are unable to accept what happens in westernised and european countries as not against morals and values..........Its unbelievable how religions cultures and traditions have brainwashed so much that we think undergoing a marriage ritual means being married. if undergoing a marriage ritual means being married then GOD would have asked the first man and woman to undergo a marriage ritual when he created them...he did not and considered them man and wife for the mere fact of them living together. Letus accept those who live together as married too and not refer to traditions religions and then decide whether they are married or not. :exactly:

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

Accepting the yoke of marriage bond needs courage, sincerity, unselfishness, taming of the beast within & showing consideration for the fellow human beings called society. A new generation of backboneless humans is evolving unaware of fine nuances of intimate relationship which can't be expected to be found in a "free" contract. What is it to anyone? How does it affect me? What a thoughtless, superficial way of interpreting/understanding the reasoning power man is endowed with! What more can be expected from people who opt to go down to the bestial style of living?The feeling of being fed up with the topic which is the fashion for long is inescapable!

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Originally Posted by rachel

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Unaku eppo intha vazhakum vanthidchi.......chi chi chi.....dirty girl! :x :notthatway:

Surya,
For the question "WHY MARRIAGE",

We can answer this after getting married several times :lol: :lol: :lol: because now everyone will say that we cannot comment on that before getting married even :lol: :lol:

I think the proverb "oRu paaNa sothukku oRu soru patham" is not applicable in this case.
My choice would be:

- Marry one girl / girls
- Live along with another girl / girls

I think you can feel the difference. :lol: :lol: if possible, do a research / pH.D work on the same. If needed, I will also contibute :lol: :lol:

If anyother hubbers are willing to take part in this experiment, they are most welcome :lol: :lol:

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Originally Posted by crazy

why marriage? ..............i guess i know, but i dont believe in marriage and all those stuffs or iam not really much into these things..............i will remain single forever, if thats possible!

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Is your difficulty with the idea of marriage, or the idea of love itself? From your post, it sounds like it is love itself you don't believe in, rather than marriage.

Anyway, has anybody read Nakkiranar's commentary on Iraiyanar Akapporul, discussing the philosophical difference between married love and "stolen" (i.e. unmarried) love? :)

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Originally Posted by Badri

PS:oops, just realized! Mates - not as in lifemate or anything like that. Mates as in friends

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Australia-le niraiya varutam irunthutingal-nu therihiradhu, mate! :lol:

podalangai, can you share with us this:

"Anyway, has anybody read Nakkiranar's commentary on Iraiyanar Akapporul, discussing the philosophical difference between married love and "stolen" (i.e. unmarried) love? "

PP-amma, I don't have the book with me now, and it's been some years since I read it. I was hoping someone who had it could summarise it. If not, I will do so in around two weeks time when I am back home.

Yes,please!

Yes,please!