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10th May 2006, 08:19 PM
Shakthiprabha.

Plantonic relatilonships WORK.
on very long runs too.

Most of u are too young to understand that.
If love is true, IT NEVER GETS BORING.
10th May 2006, 08:27 PM
Hulkster

SP akka...i might have to say something about age...age should not be used as a factor of understanding what happens around us...rather how we interpret it should be used as a factor...age is just development...but the mind start learning since we start to feel our surroundings.

Love never gets boring...the moment you have started embracing a person's character and their care for you...it is a life long journey...it can never get boring unless it is a infatuation which totally rules out love.
10th May 2006, 08:34 PM
r_o_j_a

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Originally Posted by Alan

Love without lust is meaningles.
Lust without Love is meaningless ( By lust, I mean sex) Both has to go hand in hand.

what is the love between mother and child .. of course there is no "lust"
10th May 2006, 09:18 PM
nilavupriyan

there will be a lust in love as love stats with lust mostly!

but not always a love in lust
11th May 2006, 12:10 PM
crazy

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Originally Posted by Alan

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Originally Posted by crazy

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Originally Posted by Alan

Love without lust is meaningles.
Lust without Love is meaningless ( By lust, I mean sex) Both has to go hand in hand.

second ok, but first :roll:

Sex/Lust is the culmination of love, crazy- I know u r too young to understand all this. I don't think Platonic relationships work in the long run- it just gets too boring...ok enuf! :wink:

what ever i dont believe in lust in love!i believ love is more than love!
as u said iam too young :?: to understand those things, but when i grew up :roll: i will write my opinion on this!
12th May 2006, 04:47 AM
r_o_j_a

check out this site
http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/hottopics/love/

do you agree with what the BBC site on relationships

Three stages of love
1) lust
2) attraction
3) attachment
12th May 2006, 05:14 AM
Ghlli

omg i just realised that my head teacher doesn't write any of her assemblys!!!!!!

last term...feb 14th..cos it was valentines day...the weeks assemble theme was love...and that says exactly what she said! and then she also read out the whole of those other 5 pages on that link!

omggggg!
12th May 2006, 06:50 AM
rachel

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Originally Posted by r_o_j_a

check out this site
http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/hottopics/love/

do you agree with what the BBC site on relationships

Three stages of love
1) lust
2) attraction
3) attachment

The theory goes that the more sex a couple has, the deeper their bond becomes

i completely believe this... :P
12th May 2006, 06:54 AM
Unicorn

:banghead: :banghead:
12th May 2006, 09:01 AM
selvakumar

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Originally Posted by rachel

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Originally Posted by r_o_j_a

check out this site
http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/hottopics/love/

do you agree with what the BBC site on relationships

Three stages of love
1) lust
2) attraction
3) attachment

The theory goes that the more sex a couple has, the deeper their bond becomes

i completely believe this... :P

Ya... That is the truth too... Atleast in the initial years of bonding. & a practical approach too :thumbsup:
12th May 2006, 09:02 AM
Thunderbird

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Originally Posted by Unicorn

:banghead: :banghead:

:banghead: :banghead:
12th May 2006, 09:03 AM
bingleguy

Selva machi !
12th May 2006, 09:05 AM
Thunderbird

Could anyone give us a bried description of the topic? :roll:
12th May 2006, 09:08 AM
thamizhvaanan

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Originally Posted by Thunderbird

Could anyone explain me the topic? :?

:banghead: :banghead: idhukku unicornae better!
12th May 2006, 01:08 PM
rachel

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Originally Posted by selvakumar

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Originally Posted by rachel

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Originally Posted by r_o_j_a

check out this site
http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/hottopics/love/

do you agree with what the BBC site on relationships

Three stages of love
1) lust
2) attraction
3) attachment

The theory goes that the more sex a couple has, the deeper their bond becomes

i completely believe this... :P

Ya... That is the truth too... Atleast in the initial years of bonding. & a practical approach too :thumbsup:

not only in initial years.... :roll: throughout the marriage life :roll:

where there is will there is a way :roll:
12th May 2006, 01:46 PM
Lambretta

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Originally Posted by selvakumar

Quote:

Originally Posted by rachel

The theory goes that the more sex a couple has, the deeper their bond becomes

i completely believe this... :P

Ya... That is the truth too... Atleast in the initial years of bonding. & a practical approach too :thumbsup:

But wat if one is not able to, u know- perform accordingly even initially? Does the bond not deepen otherwise? :roll:
Then how practical wud tat be, guys? :huh:
12th May 2006, 01:49 PM
selvakumar

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Originally Posted by rachel

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Originally Posted by selvakumar

Ya... That is the truth too... Atleast in the initial years of bonding. & a practical approach too :thumbsup:

not only in initial years.... :roll: throughout the marriage life :roll:

where there is will there is a way :roll:

I meant it will play a major role in the initial years. & ofcourse throughout the life too. But the intensity is minimal.
12th May 2006, 01:56 PM
Lambretta

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Originally Posted by selvakumar

I meant it will play a major role in the initial years. & ofcourse throughout the life too. But the intensity is minimal.

Got tat macha........but my qsn. wat if one of the partners is not able to be satisfactory even in the initial stage?? :?
12th May 2006, 02:10 PM
great

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Originally Posted by Lambretta

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Originally Posted by selvakumar

I meant it will play a major role in the initial years. & ofcourse throughout the life too. But the intensity is minimal.

Got tat macha........but my qsn. wat if one of the partners is not able to be satisfactory even in the initial stage?? :?

:lol: :lol: good question 8-)
12th May 2006, 02:12 PM
selvakumar

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Originally Posted by Lambretta

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Originally Posted by selvakumar

I meant it will play a major role in the initial years. & ofcourse throughout the life too. But the intensity is minimal.

Got tat macha........but my qsn. wat if one of the partners is not able to be satisfactory even in the initial stage?? :?

definitly it will be act as a trouble in achieving 100% Best out of the relationship. We might have strange exceptions. But The reality is: If they were capable of getting that, then it would have been much more better than what their present situation could be. :oops:
12th May 2006, 02:16 PM
dsath

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Originally Posted by Lambretta

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Originally Posted by selvakumar

I meant it will play a major role in the initial years. & ofcourse throughout the life too. But the intensity is minimal.

Got tat macha........but my qsn. wat if one of the partners is not able to be satisfactory even in the initial stage?? :?

Not only this, any other crinkles in a realtionship can also be ironed out by LOVE.
Thats why its said that love and lust go hand in hand.
12th May 2006, 02:22 PM
Alan

Ok, from my experience, I have grown to love my wife more after marriage ( after physical contact)- Now, I realise what I had towards her before is nothing compared to what I have now- now its like I just can't live without her ( no- not for the sex) but the mental bond that sex brings in. But if she can't have sex with me later on due to some mishap( God forbid), that does not mean, I'll leave her.
12th May 2006, 06:14 PM
nilavupriyan

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Originally Posted by Ghlli

omg i just realised that my head teacher doesn't write any of her assemblys!!!!!!

last term...feb 14th..cos it was valentines day...the weeks assemble theme was love...and that says exactly what she said! and then she also read out the whole of those other 5 pages on that link!

omggggg!

kids allowed to this topic! :?
12th May 2006, 06:45 PM
Lambretta

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Originally Posted by dsath

Not only this, any other crinkles in a realtionship can also be ironed out by LOVE.
Thats why its said that love and lust go hand in hand.

Hmm.....yea tat makes sense too I s'pose....:)
12th May 2006, 06:47 PM
Lambretta

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Originally Posted by nilavupriyan

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ghlli

omg i just realised that my head teacher doesn't write any of her assemblys!!!!!!
last term...feb 14th..cos it was valentines day...the weeks assemble theme was love...and that says exactly what she said! and then she also read out the whole of those other 5 pages on that link!
omggggg!

kids allowed to this topic! :?

Who says kids've got to be like kids nowadays?! :P :lol: :lol:
12th May 2006, 09:44 PM
Ghlli

excellent answer lamby! :lol:

:poke: @ moonpriyan :poke:
12th May 2006, 10:01 PM
nilavupriyan

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Originally Posted by Ghlli

excellent answer lamby! :lol:

:poke: @ moonpriyan :poke:

8-) :twisted:
12th May 2006, 10:21 PM
Ghlli

enaaa :rotfl:

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