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Yeah Badri what you say is also true.Just that I found the idea so disturbing more so coz they are not being true either to themselves or to their poor wives. I believe that what ever you do ,do it without hiding. Atleast it will give the others who interact with you a chance to either be with you or leave you. Whats this business of hiding and then acting like the worlds best husbands.Quote:
Originally Posted by Badri
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Originally Posted by Lambretta
BTW really enjoyed reading your signature :wink:
How does signing a peice of paper make any difference in Intimacy?? :confused2:Quote:
fine nuances of intimate relationship which can't be expected to be found in a "free" contract.
Signing a document makes one all human like? :?Quote:
What more can be expected from people who opt to go down to the bestial style of living?
thottuteenge! :cry: :DQuote:
It just happens that Asians have lived with the marriage ceremony makes you husband and wife concept permanently that they are unable to accept what happens in westernised and european countries as not against morals and values.
It is wrong to impose marriage on humans to live together with their loved one as it is just a ceremony to announce them as official husband and wife to the world. Its unbelievable how religions cultures and traditions have brainwashed so much that we think undergoing a marriage ritual means being married. if undergoing a marriage ritual means being married then GOD would have asked the first man and woman to undergo a marriage ritual when he created them...he did not and considered them man and wife for the mere fact of them living together. Letus accept those who live together as married too and not refer to traditions religions and then decide whether they are married or not.
Abiding by the laws of govt is important. Theft, Murder, Domestic Violence are things the govt is against. If these things aren't controlled, then humans go insane.Quote:
Just as we abide by the laws of a government we created for our own good it is reasonable that we are answerable for our actions to the society we are part of.
But being answerable to our actions to society isn't reasonable. (Considering that one doesn't break the law) Espicially since Indian society itself is a very hiprocritical, nosy, and gossipy one.
I don't see why one lives his or her life trying to satisfy Society's criteria of "A Respectable Person"
It's because of that u see parents commiting suicide because their daughter elopes or something. Gladly those idiotic things don't happen anymore...
Doesn't it sound idiotic for someone to live their life the way society (A gossipy, irrational, hipocritical one) wants them to live it, rather then living life the way that makes them happy? :?
Selva,
:rotfl: :rotfl: Deivame...(tontonton) Deivame...(ton tonton) :lol: :notworthy: :P
Do we agree that One should Live their Life, the way they want, rather than living their life the way Society wants them to? :D
If Yes....
Then how many ppl here would rather live together without the commitment of marriage? :D
Surya : Engagements can be broken :) . It is a bit more difficult since it does involve the family and society but hey if you cant stand eachother when you are engaged how can you stay married toeach other and be happy?
Ultimately being happy is what counts rite.
Another reason I am pro marriage is (whether you lived together before or not :wink: ) couples tend to work harder to keep a marriage working and slack off when it comes to just relationships. It could be simply because marriages are more difficult to get out off since it involves(in most cases) going to the court and stuff.
Well..whatever the reason,the fact that you put in extra effort to save a marriage is what counts.Go that extra mile for your wife :)
BTW did you see that you have 2 same options in your poll?
Yeah. :? I don't kow why that happened...I just pm'd nov to change it. :PQuote:
BTW did you see that you have 2 same options in your poll?
Now thats a good point! :clap: :)Quote:
Another reason I am pro marriage is (whether you lived together before or not Wink ) couples tend to work harder to keep a marriage working and slack off when it comes to just relationships. It could be simply because marriages are more difficult to get out off since it involves(in most cases) going to the court and stuff.
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Originally Posted by ssanjinika
'wish it wer my/my father's story tho... 8-)
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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam
ppmaam.... manushangale miruganga maadiri just exist aana enna pannaradhu?
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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam
ppmaam.... manushangale miruganga maadiri just exist aana enna pannaradhu?
The choice rests with us!