The freedom to choose. Perhaps your wife did get that freedom, many women don't.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shekhar
Shekar, if it made your wife happy, would you be willing to? :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Fire111999
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The freedom to choose. Perhaps your wife did get that freedom, many women don't.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shekhar
Shekar, if it made your wife happy, would you be willing to? :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Fire111999
heya! thanks for ur qns! i didn't want to start it all over again myself. btw, do i know u?Quote:
Originally Posted by MazhaiKuruvi
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Oh yea!! She is highly educated. She is masters degree in 'Life Management', and I am a PU fail in 'Wife Management'Quote:
Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam
Do you know how she got that freedom? She just took mine. !!! :lol: :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by MazhaiKuruvi
indha level-headednessum sense of humourum endha universitilum solli kodukka mudiyaadhadhu. :clap:Quote:
Originally Posted by Shekhar
So, what do we do now? Encourage her tribe to grow & multiply or whip up dissent, dissatisfaction in poor housewives? :wink: Join hands with all the feminists with their new-fangled ideas about women's liberation? :lol:
not saying that being a housewife is bad. just saying a girl shouldn't be forced into it.
and being a housewife is also about what shekar didn't talk about, creating a nice homely environment and taking good care of the children. that is the aspect of being a housewife that girls should aspire to fulfil if they want to be housewives, not just aspire for all the comforts that shekar has pointed out.
and what do we do about pple who seem to think that educated women working is a crime? should we join them in oppressing girls into being housewives?
enna pannuvadhunu yOsippOm....
Respect every human being, male or female and/or physically or mentally challenged
Once we respect, automatically, we respect their dreams and goals
Then, we will stop using pazhamozhis like..
pombalai sirichhaa
azhuhira aanaiyum sirikkira pombalaiyum nambadha
mudam kombu thenukku asai pattathu etc. etc.
Now, there is room for compromise and everyone can encourage each other to achieve their best.
A home has to be built by both husband and wife, encouraging each other, not being selfish, not expecting one partner to sacrifice her/his goals for the sake of the other, the ability to recognize the abilities of a spouse and help further it, etc. etc. padhinArum petru pallAndu vAzhha proverbla they did not split the blessings based on gender. Ultimate goal is betterment of that home, no room for egos there.
There was a news item recently. A paani puri seller somewhere in Tamilnadu and his wife married after she finished 10th, he has put her through engineering college and she has just completed her engineering. HATS OFF to him. I am truly honoured to have seen the news and also to have seen the faces of those two beautiful humanbeings.
:D yupQuote:
Originally Posted by MazhaiKuruvi
:clap: :yes: :2thumbsup: (sorry for getting a bit carried away with the emoticons, just feeling so happy to find someone who actually makes sense (yeah, ok, so i mean someone who shares my views) :D )Quote:
Originally Posted by MazhaiKuruvi
*digr: u're not a new hubber, r u? /digr