A shame

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Originally Posted by kb

is there any kind off survey available..

1)how many men beating their wife have sisters. :?:

avanuku oru thangatchi/akka irrundha ippadi ellam panna maataaan.

also they are not raised properly by their parents.

i would accept 5 to 10% men are naturally like this.. with short temper.

rest ellam vetti bandha.. oru adi thirupi adicha.. saathindu olunga nadanthukuvaanga..

those who are happy and successful wont be doing like this.. vera engaiyo prachana atha avinga wife kitta kaamikaraanga
:evil: :evil:

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correct a sonneal :D

Thanks PPmam, Roshan and BG. :)
I think appreciation should go to people like Roshan who work to make positive changes in our society.
:clap: :clap: :clap:
Roshan, it is indeed a great humanitarian service to work for a NGO. People like you are the ones who are making a real difference. :thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by Jilaba

நீங்கள் சொவதை நானும் நம்பத் தயாராயில்லை. உங்கள் கணவரின் அடி உதைகளுக்கு பயந்து பொய் சொலிகிறீர்களோ என்று சந்தேகப்படுகிறேன்.

காரணம், திருமணமான எந்த ஒரு பெண்ணும் ஆணாதிக்க கொடுமையில்லாமல் வாழ்வதேயில்லை. பலர் உங்களைபோல வெளியில் சொல்லப் பயந்து மூடி மறைக்கிறார்களேயன்றி, அவர்கள் சந்தோஷமாக வாழ்கிறார்கள் என்று அர்த்தமல்ல. உங்கள் கணவரை திருப்திப்படுத்த இப்படியெல்லாம் ஒரேயடியாக பொய்களை அரங்கேற்றாதீகள். நமக்கு தெரிந்த வகையில் திருமண்மான பெண்களெல்லாம் தங்கள் கணவர்கள் என்ற குடிகாரப் பேய்களிடம் இருந்து அடைந்தது எல்லாம் கொடுமைகளைத்தவிர வேறு ஒன்றுமில்லை.

ஒருவேளை... (சந்தேகம்தான்)... உங்க கணவர் அப்படியிருப்பது உண்மையென்றால். அது கோடியில் ஒன்று. இப்படி அபூர்வ கேஸ்களை வைத்து மொத்த சமுதாயத்திலும் ஆண்கள் நல்லவர்கள் என்று சொல்ல முடியாது.

பெண்களை அடிமைகளாக்கும், 'திருமணம்' என்னும் கொடிய வழக்கம் ஒழிக்கப் படவேண்டிய ஒன்று.

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:lol2: :lol2: :lol2: Kaamalai kannuku kandathu ellam manjal... :D

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

bg, this is the solution, quoted by dsath:


"Activists felt that for intervention strategies to succeed, attitudes about violence would have to change and the level of awareness, among both men and women, about the negative impact of violence had to be raised"


Jilaba maathiri kalyaaNam vENdaam, kalyaaNam vENdaam-nu solRathu is not the solution. Male & female chauvnism irukkaannu aaraaychi paNRathum waste! Let us create an awareness in our children as they grow up about mutual respect between the sexes. Catch them young. And let the elders set an example of loving humanity, both men & women equally. Let us strive to make life more meaningful, more satisfying, more respectable, more beautiful & more worthwhile!

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:thumbsup:

:clap: @ dsath...

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Originally Posted by dsath

Thanks PPmam, Roshan and BG. :)
I think appreciation should go to people like Roshan who work to make positive changes in our society.
:clap: :clap: :clap:
Roshan, it is indeed a great humanitarian service to work for a NGO. People like you are the ones who are making a real difference. :thumbsup:

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:yes:

:clap: :clap: :clap: :notworthy: @ Roshan

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Originally Posted by kb

is there any kind off survey available..

1)how many men beating their wife have sisters. :?:

avanuku oru thangatchi/akka irrundha ippadi ellam panna maataaan.

also they are not raised properly by their parents.

i would accept 5 to 10% men are naturally like this.. with short temper.

rest ellam vetti bandha.. oru adi thirupi adicha.. saathindu olunga nadanthukuvaanga..

those who are happy and successful wont be doing like this.. vera engaiyo prachana atha avinga wife kitta kaamikaraanga
:evil: :evil:

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:lol:

Thanks dsath and Dev :notworthy:

But nAnga paNNuRathellAm kaiyyaLavuthAn - innum kadalaLavu pirachinaigaL niRaiya uNdu :( :cry:


kb,

As I have already said - Gender Based Violance is not necessarily physical abuse. There's much more than that :cry: :cry: and people need to learn and understand. It is every individual's moral responsibility.

Media can play a vital role in creating an awareness about this. It is a very powerful & far-reaching tool! Just imagine the effect the heroine of 'Puthumai peN' created! What wonderful dialogues, what climax, what message! New generation woman should have the guts to face & confront sadists & male chauvnists who have had a long reign with their base qualities, the most despicable samples of that sex! Woman has been taken for granted for too long! :evil:

Woman

For every strong woman
tired of faking "weakness"

there is a man
tired of faking "strength"


For every woman
tired of faking "foolishness"

there is a man
tired of having to act as a "model of wisdom"


For each woman
tired of being labelled as an
"emotional female"

there is a man
who has been denied
the right to cry and be sensitive


For every sportswoman
whose femininity is questioned

there is a man forced to compete
inorder to give testimony of his virility


For every woman
tired of being considered a
"sexual object"

there is a man concerned about
his sexual performance


For every woman who has
not had access to a degnified salary

there is a man forced to bear the
economic burden of another human being


For every woman who ignores the
"secrets of car mechanics"

there is a man who doesnt know
how to "boil an egg"


For every woman that
steps towards her freedom

there is a man
who rediscovers the road to liberty


The human race is a two wing bird
one wing is female
the other is male
Unless both wings are equally developed
The human race will not be able to fly !!

Some facts ...

Women and girls are the poorest of the poor because of the extreme forms of discrimination that persist in many parts of today’s world.

Women are often not allowed to own property or keep the money they earn; as farmers they get the most marginal land and as workers they are trapped in the worst jobs for the least pay. More girls than boys are denied education.

Men still have a monopoly on decision-making at every level from village councils to national government, so even when policies are introduced to help the poor, they often ignore the needs of women.

Men’s power over women often costs women their lives. Women are more vulnerable to HIV infection because they are not able to insist on protected sex, even when they know their partner is infected. Men often use physical violence to reinforce their power over women and girls.

The spread of HIV/AIDS thorugh southern Africa has underlined the extent to which women are subservient and powerless in society. They often have little say over their sexual lives. HIV possitive women are less likely to get support from their families and communities than men. In some cases they can be accused of prostitution, even when infected by their husbands. And they stand to lose any inheritance rights and mostly they are driven from their family and home.

Every time a family has good food to eat and clean water to drink, every day that a child arrives at school or a sick person makes it to the clinic, it’s usually a woman who has fought for this small, daily victory over adversity.


-70% of those living in poverty are women

-Women in poor countries grow more than 60% of the food but own - less than 1% of the land

-Every minute a woman dies as a result of pregnancy complications

-Over 65m girls in this world dont make it to school, even if their brothers do.

-Early Marriage? It imprisons the girls concerned
-Violance Against Women? It is still universal
-A political voice? Women are barely heard in public life
-HIV/AIDS? 90% of the caring is done by women; over 18m of them are themselves carrying the virus


:( :( :cry: :cry: :cry: :( :( [/tscii]