A shame

One thing I loved in Jilaba's reply ! :smile2:
Jilaba is opposing the concept called "Marriage" !
I think the present generation has already started implementing this :lol:
We are seeing same gender marriages and live-in relationships in India as well. Here few Pudumai pengal are already in "Live-in" relationships. :lol: ( I agree that % of men who fall under this category will be pretty high ) But ponnungalukm neraya per irukkaanga !

I am seeing a girl living with a guy (marriage pannama thaan :lol2: ) ! Beauty is her BF is abroad who will marry her shortly ! :smile2:

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Originally Posted by selvakumar

I am seeing a girl living with a guy (marriage pannama thaan :lol2: ) ! Beauty is her BF is abroad who will marry her shortly ! :smile2:

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:roll: :x :banghead:

Selva and Lamby,

When there are so many things happening against poor, vulnerable and marginalised women around the world - see you guys are bothered and concerned about the wayward behaviour of possibly an elite, upper class, rich woman. It's sad and pathetic :( Where are we and what is the way forward? I dont understand :( :cry:

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Originally Posted by selvakumar

I am seeing a girl living with a guy (marriage pannama thaan :lol2: ) ! Beauty is her BF is abroad who will marry her shortly ! :smile2:

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Living together huh :-)

Onsite il ozhungaaga irukkum aangale ... pengale .... :-)
theriyaadhavargalai thirumanam seyya pogireergalaaaa ;-) :-)

Onsite la idellam sarva saadaaranamaa irukkalaam ... but inga ozhunga life a lead panravangalukku :-) idhu oru adi dhaan .....

Jilaba..!, your arguements are foolishness (sorry).

Are our Indian women ready to live without marriage?. definitely the answer will be negative. Here also many memebers (including me) are opposing your statement.

Our women will never neglect the concept of marriage, but will fall in it and then cry "aangal enagalai saavadikiraargal, kollugiraargal, kodumai paduthukiraargal".

But not even a single women will appose marriage. They will marry at any cost, by giving dowry etc. and then will file the case in the 'kudumba nala court' for divorce. On watching all these things, other women also will fall in marriages. Because, they cant live without "............." or to control it.

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Originally Posted by dev

I am married to a very nice person whohas been very supportive of me in whatever I do... He has infact spent a few lakhs on my studies after we got married...& when I decided to startup something of my own rather than working for others, he gladly accepted that decision of mine & has even funded me to do whatever I wanted to... Never has he discouraged me from doing whatever I wish or against my career decisions... Infact he is more happy & proud than what I am, that I'm a CPA...He was happier than me to see that I am independent financially ... I would say tht he played a major role in making me a mentally stronger, confident person than what I was when we got married & the credit for all these goes to him... I don't think i could've been what i am now without those encouraging words & support from him all through...

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Forwarded to all FEMINISTS, (including Jilaba) who are crying always

"Husbands are dominating their wives and keeping them as slaves".

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Originally Posted by Roshan

Selva and Lamby,

When there are so many things happening against poor, vulnerable and marginalised women around the world - see you guys are bothered and concerned about the wayward behaviour of possibly an elite, upper class, rich woman. It's sad and pathetic :( Where are we and what is the way forward? I dont understand :( :cry:

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Roshan,
I very much sympathise w/ ur statement.......similarly, we are (atleast Iam) concerned bout the fact that When there are so many things happening against poor, vulnerable and marginalised women around the world, the relatively better off present-gen girls (not nec. rich/elite only) w/out giving a thought to their plight, take their own freedom/independance for granted & think they've got the right to stoop down into such wayward behaviour promoted by the liberalised junk they r being exposed to, mistaking it as feminism & only degrading their dignity (of which they dont realise the value, unlike the poor, downtrodden women) in the process! :( :cry:

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Originally Posted by mr_karthik

Jilaba..!, your arguements are foolishness (sorry).

Are our Indian women ready to live without marriage?. definitely the answer will be negative. Here also many memebers (including me) are opposing your statement.

Our women will never neglect the concept of marriage, but will fall in it and then cry "aangal enagalai saavadikiraargal, kollugiraargal, kodumai paduthukiraargal".

But not even a single women will appose marriage. They will marry at any cost, by giving dowry etc. and then will file the case in the 'kudumba nala court' for divorce. On watching all these things, other women also will fall in marriages. Because, they cant live without "............." or to control it.

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கார்த்திக், நீங்க சொல்வதன் உள்ளர்த்தம் என்ன?. பெண்களைத் தாக்குகிறீர்களா? அல்லது தூக்குகிறீர்களா?. தாக்குகிறீர்கள் என்றால் நான் அதை வன்மையாக கண்டிக்கிறேன்.

'நமது பெண்களால் திருமணம் இல்லாமல் வாழ முடியாது. என்ன விலை கொடுத்தாகிலும் திருமணம் செய்தே தீருவார்கள்' என்று நீங்கள் சொல்லியிருப்பதன் உள்ளர்த்தம் என்ன?. பெண் என்றாலே ஆணின் உறவுக்காக ஏங்கும் பிண்டங்கள் என்ற நினைப்பா?. திருமணம் இல்லாமல் பெண்களால் வாழ முடியாதா?

முடியும்.. கண்டிப்பாக முடியும்.

இந்த 'திருமணம்' என்ற கேடுகெட்ட வழக்கத்தை, தங்கள் ஆதிக்கத்துக்காக ஆண்களால் உருவாக்கப்பட்ட வழக்கத்தை கையில் வைத்துக்கொண்டுதானே இந்த பேயாட்டம் போடுகிறீர்கள். அதை உடைத்தெறியும் காலம் வந்து விட்டது. திருமணத்தை விரும்பாத பெண்கள் சமுதாயம் உருவாகிக்கொண்டு இருக்கிறது.

இனி ஆண்களின் பாடு அதோகதிதான்.

:roll: :( :cry: :cry3:

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

:roll: :( :cry: :cry3:

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:lol: