As a modern woman of contemporary times - Now this is one aspect of the epic that I reject, whatever message it may contain, Pa!!! :x
The Woman was abducted and kept incarcerated by a villain who had a score to settle with Rama. But despite everything she had endured, she had to submit to some sort of inspection of her chastity??!!! No way Jose!! :x
All literature, whether it is modern or ancient epics, are written as mere stories by the writer. Whatever messages they may contain is merely subjective! So in that vein, I'm afraid, merely extolling the virtues alone without the negative aspects does not make a good discussion.
So sorry, if my two sen's worth is grating but as a woman, I needed to say it!!