LIFE BEFORE MARRIAGE Vs LIFE AFTER MARRIAGE

Ya..
Athu oru epdi solratu..
Feelingsu....

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Originally Posted by Raikkonen

Ya..
Athu oru epdi solratu..
Feelingsu....

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feelings?!
get marry to share feelings?! :roll:

Apidyum sollalam...

mhm feelings & marriage. hope u find them both! :)

I wanted to say that..
Before Marriage you only take care of yourself, selfishly..
After marriage,u become more of a matured figure...

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Originally Posted by selvakumar

Exactly Goodsense.

Apart from that, we can free ourselves from the emotional barriers and concentrate on the broader spectrum.

If I am a bachelor, I can help others in a much more better way than as a married person. The reason is many people (almost 99%) restrict themselves to the idea of thinking about the welfare of the family rather than the society. If their son / daughter have lost something based on law and customes, they will blame it on the society. But a bachelor will understand the reality and will pinpoint the reality of the issues.

Good One, Goodsense. :clap:

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ok, being a bachelor, you might have more time to spend to help others and you might be able to give a better, fairer point of view. but do u realise what you are losing if you don't get married? i'm not saying that it is wrong to give up sth for society. but you have to understand that you will be giving up sth, the companionship that only your spouse can give you. it's not for no reason that your spouse is also known as your other half!

I dont know for sure, but married men seem always mentally troubled. Dont know if companionship is worth it?

Fire,

You are now forcing me to disclose something I was reluctant to do and people may have been having all kinds of opinions. OK, go to my thread "why women stay alone..." in this very section.

For some people marriage is a blessing and for some unfortunately its a pain.

I have seen many of my close friends and relatives suffering a lot in marriage but only one got divorce. :cry:

Guys, just rememeber after being so carried away, that poor Alan is getting married in a few days. We should hold it. Wonder what he is thinking reading through all this?