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enakku muthalil konjam athirchiyaagavum, erichalaagavum iruntha vishayam, iththanai naaL maRRa oorkaLil 'aunty'yaaga irunthuvittu ingu piRantha oorukku innum athiga naraimudiyudan vanthuvitta piRagu pothu idangaLil 'paatti' enRu kooppittathu!!! :lol: paarkkaththaan paatti but manasellaam kumari, illaiyillai kuzanthai! :rotfl2: en piLLaigaL ATM enRaal aunty-turned-modern enRu solvaarkaL! vayathu kuRikkaatha PP enRa peyar enakku migavum pidiththathu!
Yes PP mam,
Unga karuththukkaLil eppOthum iLamaiyaithaan paarkkiROm. migavum theLivaana arumaiyaana viLakkangaL.
hats off...
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A news item in the front page of ‘The Hindu’ today:
Software professional kills wife, hangs himself
Bangalore: A software professional allegedly killed his wife, suspecting her fidelity, before hanging himself to death here on Saturday.
Police identified the couple as Amith Budhiraj(30) of Infosys Technologies Ltd. And Rinku Sachadev(28). It is learnt that Rinku sachadev was a managing executive with the Standard Chartered Bank.
Now I am eager to hear our hubbers’ comments upon this. Feel free to express your reactions & opinions
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must have seen a doctor :?
It is indeed very sad and incidents like these are on the rise in India.
There may be many reasons which may have influenced his decision and I do not wish to comment on other people's private lives.
IMO, any mentally stable person will not take the life of another person for whatever reason.
But generally speaking, the main cause for these type of incidents is the failure of LOVE for each other.
One of my college professor would say that the secret of successful marriage is the 3 T's....TOUCH, TALK & TEASE.
But nowadays couples donot spend enough time together due to their tight work schedules or whatever reasons and this is one of the main reasons for the failing marriages.
They should recognise that True Happiness lies not only in the material wealth.
"It's pretty hard to tell what does bring happiness. Poverty an' wealth have both failed".
Kin Hubbard
It did seem delicate to discuss a private matter. But once it becomes front page news such niceties become irrelevant. Besides, for long, I am hearing not very happy news about the married lives of software engineers in B'lore- India's silicon valley- that I fear this might be just the tip of the iceberg!
Well, this is what occurred to me:
East’s tryst with West?
Is the new ‘emancipation’ turning too heady a mixture for the Indian woman? Tragically a deadly potion too! Is this a bold attempt at differentiating ‘marriage’ from ‘sex’ a la mode the West? The Indian man not ready, not willing to accept the new trends? Relieving the ‘shackles’ of marriage on woman? Redefining woman’s sexual choices? A new brand of boundless freedom? A cancer in the minds of some modern women! Not only self-annihilating but destroying the values Indian womanhood has stood for so long! Rocking the foundation of our beautiful family system built on marriage and mutual fidelity!
Why are we blaming the West for relationship crisis when our own epics are full of them.
In Ramayanam the villan abducts the wife and the righteous husband wages war and brings her back home. But doesn’t trust her fidelity and drives her out of his home. Now I don’t want to go into details namely saying Raman was right or wrong but basically the fact remains that their marriage was not successful.
I don’t even want to go into Mahabharatam, which is seasoned generously with fidelity issues. Take them out and the tale is not as half as intriguing.
Turning the attention to our own Silapathikaram, wow what a tale. Its got it all romance, betrayal, anger, loyalty. It would easily win over any of our present day soaps. How would you define Madhavai….. I think she would fit into all of the below (maybe except the west bit)......
Now I haven’t read the epic in its original form, but all the ‘lay person’ readable version screams that she is exactly this.......Quote:
Is the new ‘emancipation’ turning too heady a mixture for the Indian woman? Tragically a deadly potion too! Is this a bold attempt at differentiating ‘marriage’ from ‘sex’ a la mode the West? The Indian man not ready, not willing to accept the new trends? Relieving the ‘shackles’ of marriage on woman? Redefining woman’s sexual choices? A new brand of boundless freedom? A cancer in the minds of some modern women! Not only self-annihilating but destroying the values Indian womanhood has stood for so long! Rocking the foundation of our beautiful family system built on marriage and mutual fidelity!
Now remind me - when was the story written ?
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