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barani,

indha topic padichavudan enakku immediate-a thoniyadhu....

Mudhalil 'thirumanan' sariyaa illa thavara endru discuss seidhutu, adhuku apuram

"kaadhal thirumanam... sariyaa - thavaRaa?... " endru discuss seiyalaamey...
:lol: :lol:

"kaadhal thirumanam... sariyaa - thavaRaa?... "

'kaadhal' enbathil endha 'thavarum' illai...

'kaadha thirumanam' mattum epadi thavaraaga mudiyum..?? :)

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barani,

indha topic padichavudan enakku immediate-a thoniyadhu....

Mudhalil 'thirumanan' sariyaa illa thavara endru discuss seidhutu, adhuku apuram

"kaadhal thirumanam... sariyaa - thavaRaa?... " endru discuss seiyalaamey...

«ôÀÊô §À¡Î «ÕÅ¡Ç! :clap:

Kadhal thirumanam "SARI" endru thaan naan solven aanal athu unmaiyaana KADHAL thirumanamaai irunthaal.

irunthaalum unmaiyaana kaadhal thirumathirkum intha kaalathil ethirpugal irunthu kondu thaan irukirathu, ennai poruttha varai, yaetho oru inam kulam theriyatha oru pennidamo illai aanidamo nam kaadhalai solli puriyavaika mudiyumpothu, nammudaya rattha sondhamaana appa,amma'vidam solli sammatham vaanga mattum aayiram thayakkangal

nam kadhalai ulagam muzhuthum velicham pottu unmaiyai perumithathudan sollvome, atharku mun nam nerungina ulagamagiya thaai thandhayidam sammatham vaangivittu, ivan thaan naan kaadhalipavan, ival thaan naan kaadhalipaval endru..ivan/ival'odu thaan en vaazhkai.. endru solvome.. nambungal athuvae oru migaperiya asthivaaramaai irukkum nammudaya unmaiyaana kadhal vaazhkaiku..

Aathalal kaadhal seiveer !

Kaadhal thelivaanathaai, thooimaiyanathaai,kalapadam illathathai irukattum .

Mothathil Kaadhal ... Kaadhalai irukattum.!

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hi bharani,

Thanks for ur pm to invite me to contribute my thoughts on love marriages.

Actually my conn screwed up for past 2 months and then my OS went for a toss for next 15 days. So wuz kinda handicap. Even otherwise yes, I do peep in rarely into hub these days.

Marriages. Is it necessary?

Well.... Here is my view.

MARRIAGES are NOT necessary, unless UNTIL THE COUPLE have a child born to talk about their live-in relationship.

Actually, even When a Child is born, a marriage is not necesary. Cause, a mother and father is all a child wants. Whether u stay married or stay as live-in couples IS NOT the child's problem.

Then why does marriage becomes necessary?

Because, if u are married, IT STRESSES on the fact that one has a say, on other person personal affairs, even after giving enough space for the other person to breathe.

If one can balance that intrusion, and personal space, with right healthy attitude, t hen MARRIAGE IS just a social function.

Staying committed is in each one's heart. One can stray after marriage, one can stray being married, also, one can be faithful and committed in a without marriage too.

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Now that marriage is more a social acknowledgement, IS IT NECESSARY THAT MARRIAGE BE LOVE OR ARRANGED?

Well... if u love and marry u know the pros and cons of a person. U know what to expect and hence adjust faster.

IF u marry(arranged) and then fall in love, it takes lil
longer to know the person. But sure is damn exiting to go thro the phase of friendship blooming into love.

There is one song in tamizh....

Porthittu padutha enna
paduthutu pOrthittaa enna?

Its all the same.

Whether its marriage or no marriage, whether its love or arranged.... only 4 :) things are necessary.

1. ADJUSTMENT
2. COMMITMENT
3. personal space..
4. LOVE DEVELOPED STRONGLY over a period of time and patience to let that LOVE HAPPEN :)

:)

em... 8)

--- Malligai ----
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