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--- priyachary ----
aanal athu unmaiyaana KADHAL thirumanamaai irunthaal. ?!!...
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.... Aathalal kaadhal seiveer !
Kaadhal thelivaanathaai, thooimaiyanathaai,kalapadam illathathai irukattum.... Mothathil Kaadhal ... Kaadhalai irukattum.! !! ???....
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---- shakthi prabha ----
Then why does marriage becomes necessary?
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Enga bharanitharan,
Kashtapattu, etho private messege vanthirukkunnu mail la news vanthathukkaaga, inactive aaga iruntha en account ai,
hub admin uyir eduthu active akki,
menakkettu oru bathil ezhudinaa...........
" em :) "
apdeenu oru acknowledgement unga kitterunthu!
ithai ithai ithai ithaivida naan athigam edir parthEn. :)
Quote:
Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha
appadi illa... Shakthi !...
ippo just collecting the views... thats all...
sariyaa...
after collecting.. all the views... from different angles...
will post my comments... ok :)
** ungalukku mattum thaan.. andha " em :) " kooda... :D
Enga bharanitharan,
Etho private messege vanthirukkunnu mail la news vanthathukkaaga,
inactive aaga iruntha en account ai,
Kashtapattu,
hub admin "uyir" eduthu active akki,
//hub admin uyirOda.. thaane irukkaar :roll: //
menakkettu oru bathil ezhudinaa...........
" em :) " apdeenu oru acknowledgement unga kitterunthu!
ithai .... ithai .... ithai ....
ithaivida naan athigam edir parthEn.
// :D//
Sari indhaanga... pidinga...
neenga... kassssshhhhhtapattu ... ezudhinadhOda...
Hope... so... :| kastapaduthaadha badhil...
hi bharani,
Thanks for ur pm to invite me to contribute my thoughts on love marriages.
//thanks... Shakthi for your contribution too... //
*** My question is "kaadhal thirumanam ... sariyaa.. thavaRaa"
Well.... your answers ...
steps a little deep and gathers the answer from a 'being human' point of view...
//Marriages. Is it necessary?
MARRIAGES are NOT necessary,
unless UNTIL THE COUPLE have a child born to talk about
their live-in relationship.
//
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be sure that human beings are 'social-animal'
.... Thats why! marriage becomes necessary !!... :D
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Actually, even When a Child is born,
a marriage is not necesary.
Cause,
a mother and father is all a child wants.
Whether u stay married or stay as
live-in couples IS NOT the child's problem.
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indha answer'ukkum...
neenga kizhE ezudhi irukka...
1..... 2. COMMITMENT 3.... 4....
answerukkum sambandham'ea illingalea..
irandu veveru konangal... like different poles
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Because,
if u are married,
IT STRESSES
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Marriage'aagalanna Stress illennu sollreengalaa... :)
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on the fact that
one has a say,
on other person personal affairs,
even after giving enough space for
the other person to breathe.
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idhu thirumanam.. engira...
ondril mattum illayea...
kudumba sUznilaigalulum
nadakkiradhea... em...
neechal kathukittu...
kadalula irangura maadhiri...
kudumbathukkula... pazaga (adaki vaasikka) kathukittu..
societyla... kaaleduthu vaippadharkkaaha...
society'oda oru miniature...
thaanea... kudumbam yenbadhu...
1... 2.... 3.. personal space 4....
Idhu thirumanam... yengira... neengal sonna 'pUttu'la mattum illa... kudumbathukkulum ... indha athumeeral undu...
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on the fact that
one has a say,
on other person personal affairs,
even after giving enough space for
the other person to breathe.
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'other person' appadi
ninaikkumpozudhu
yeppadinga
andha....
4th point 'ok'.. aagum
:)
If one can balance that intrusion,
and personal space,
with right healthy attitude,
then MARRIAGE IS just a social function.
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yaa... marriage is a Social Function... I accept..
But... what to do.. We are social-animals :)
Add..
Family is also a Social Constitution....
Father and Mother are also ...
a Social Setup
:)
K.. Hope.. a right.. addition to your 'Social View'
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IS IT NECESSARY THAT MARRIAGE BE LOVE OR ARRANGED?
Well...
if u love and marry
u know the pros and cons
of a person.
U know what to expect and hence adjust faster.
IF u marry(arranged) and then fall in love,
it takes lil longer to know the person.
But sure is damn exiting to go thro the phase of
friendship blooming into love.
*** ok... ok...
After knowing the pros and cons... in the Case 1 and
crossing a 'Damn' exciting phase ... blooming in Case 2...
why the 'Family Court's are House ful in Both the Case ****