Does Love Exist?

TM,

u r clearly diverting the topic.. and u give your own names and expect others to accept it :P

I dont know about VTV discussions and all.. but as you have said. we r talkign whether love exists between a boy and a girl or not..

for that matter.. u still havent answered my first question.....
yep.. it is a coward act, they dont know the value of life etc etc.. but what is the feeling the guy/girl have it towards the other person???

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

baaraththa paramporuL mEla pOttuttu bless paNNittu gauravaththa kaappaaththittu pOykittE irukkaanga! :huh:

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pp: Be happy you are not in the US. Here it is common for love to cross religious,caste(Indians),language(Indians),social status and national boundaries ! :lol:

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Adhil enna thappu???!!!... Idhuvum globalisation thaanye!!!... :P :lol:

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:exactly: We have a lot NRI relatives too! oru Russia-origin maappillaiya magaLukku anga kalyaaNam mudichittu inga vanthu bandhaavaa oru reception-um vachittu pORathu trend! niRaiya veLLaikkaara maappiLLainga kidaichaachu! :noteeth: yaathum oorE yaavarum kELir!

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Originally Posted by hamid

TM,

u r clearly diverting the topic.. and u give your own names and expect others to accept it :P

I dont know about VTV discussions and all.. but as you have said. we r talkign whether love exists between a boy and a girl or not..

for that matter.. u still havent answered my first question.....
yep.. it is a coward act, they dont know the value of life etc etc.. but what is the feeling the guy/girl have it towards the other person???

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It is vayasu kOLaaRu! Pure infatuation- 'hormone seyyum sEttaiyammaa' to quote a Vijay song!
In a car besides many machine parts like gears, accelerator etc there is one called brake. The so-called 'love' is being driven by hormones forgetting the 'brake' called 'sense'- aRivu. A vast majority of 'lovers' let their 'hearts'(read 'hormones') rule their head! A hundred and odd ingredients go into the making of true 'love' that can make two people live successfully and happily and meanigfully and with dignity. Marriage is a proven factory where this product is manufactured! :D

Some of you are saying that we need love for world to go around. We see suicide sometimes when love is not reciprocated or one is not allowed to love the other.

Love is an emotion yes. The emotional investment in someone makes it hard to break up. This is why a divorce can be a difficult thing. Some of the people who go to the divorce court still love their spouses.

People do live or learn to live without love. What choice do they have if it is not there? It is not something you find at all times. If as in the scenario above, it is not reciprocated and one is matured enough, one can love oneself. Some matured people are scared to even love; they rather protect their feelings from getting hurt and so they learn to live without love.

Have you heard of people cuddling and loving teddy bears and pillows? :) In most white societies, it is for these reasons too, they go out and get pets - to share love and affection.

Ramona :clap: :clap:

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Originally Posted by hamid

TM,

u r clearly diverting the topic.. and u give your own names and expect others to accept it :P

I dont know about VTV discussions and all.. but as you have said. we r talkign whether love exists between a boy and a girl or not..

for that matter.. u still havent answered my first question.....
yep.. it is a coward act, they dont know the value of life etc etc.. but what is the feeling the guy/girl have it towards the other person???

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Some one gets addicted to drug like heroin.. some people try to get cured or maintain in that state.. When in that state they dont think abt any others.. extremely selfish... At one stage they die because of this if not cured...

i dont call the drug addict is in love with the drug :wink:

ellaarum innikku nallaa pEsureenga :D yaarukku kaithatturadhunnu theriyala :?

anyway TM anna :clap: :clap:

PP mam :clap: :clap:

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Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

A vast majority of 'lovers' let their 'hearts'(read 'hormones') rule their head

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

When in that state they dont think abt any others.. extremely selfish...

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:yes: 1000000000000000000000% true :yes:

but really kodumai to be in that state :cry2:

sarna,

:lol2: podhuvaa kai thattidunga :lol2:

tm,

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Originally Posted by Thirumaran

Some one gets addicted to drug like heroin.. some people try to get cured or maintain in that state.. When in that state they dont think abt any others.. extremely selfish... At one stage they die because of this if not cured...

i dont call the drug addict is in love with the drug :wink:

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enna sonaalum, weird example kuduthu :evil: , edakku madakka pesara kuriyoda irukeenga. onnum panna mudiyathu :sigh2:

TM, still you are diverting the topic,noone here talking about infatuations,hormones surappi and all...hormones marriage aana udana surakkurathu stop aakiduma?
If love is not existing for you guys between a male and female,then what is cooking between them after marriage?