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Originally Posted by saradhaa_sn
Ok
its her own exprience statement!!
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Originally Posted by saradhaa_sn
Ok
its her own exprience statement!!
Though this is not the thread to discuss this.... but since i feel it's not justice to just abuse Kushboo! i just wanted to share my thoughts too!
First of all her comments does not specifically point Tamil ponnu's....it was a very generic statement on Women!
It was her opinion for a survey conducted by India Today. When read clearly.. She has just tried to stress the point on how the society shld have a broad mentality and perception of Women....specifically with regard to sex before marriage, Women shld be treated fairly the same way as men. May be the way she has pointed it out directly might be unacceptable....but no were it is linked with Tamil women!
But what she has told is already followed in lots of serials today..if u see in Kolangal Usha has already had affair before marriage and now she is carrying! In almost all the serails...there will definitely be a gal character who will love a guy who is already married. She will also fight for that!!
It is the POLITICIAN - who for their cheep publicity have zoomed the issue to this extent...even after she cleared what she said and openly asked sorry!!
When speaking of her past ....In today's cine industry none of them(actors, actress, directors) have good character ( I have few friends in that industry and i have heard quite a lot of story!) They all act like good in real life too!!! That's it! But it is always the actress ( the women) who are exposed in media.
True Radhika married 4 times and the media makes big issues about this and how an actress would influence women in India to get divorce and marry some on else. There are many actors who married more than 4 times and still have affairsa with more the one women while still married. I am not a big fan of Kushboo but I admire her sucess and I don't think it's wrong to tell her openion even though I don't agry with what she said. Being asked to leave Tamil Nadu for saying having sex before marriage is ok for women seems to much and if she said it's ok for men I don't think there would be any issues of case on Kushboo.Quote:
Originally Posted by vekala
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Originally Posted by aanaa
When Kushboo accepted her affair with Prabhu in a magazine...y didn't he accept....and y wasn't he made to accept!!!! Also he knew he has a family then y did he encourage such an affair. It's Prabhu who has to be blamed first in this matter....not just him ...i mean the MEN who have affairs like this are the real culprits....but it is always, the girl who is involved is blamed! Pathetic!
Yea....all this just reveals Male chavinism and Cheap Political minds and selfish media - who blow up on such cine matters for the sake of circulation and publicity!
its so trye man! I heard prabhus dad didnt want prabhu 2 hv a relationship with kushboo infact he refused 2 hv this happening.
take care
from usha
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Originally Posted by vekala
Prabu and Kushboo liked each other and they were going to get married but the family didn't like it.
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Originally Posted by usha_pooja
No, it is a wrong news. When Radhika married several times (4?), no any media discussed about that. Same like that, actress Lakshmi ('kadhaiyalla nijam' fame) also married and divorced three times, and nobody cared about that. Because it is their personal issue. But when giving a statement about a common issue, Kushboo should use her tongue carefully.Quote:
Originally Posted by gta129
It is our narrow mentality to see 'Male chavanism' in each and evrything. When you are arguing Prabhu is a real culprit, how about Kushboo??. What she has done is correct???. Did she not know that Prabhu is already married and have children?.Quote:
Originally Posted by vekala
Several times she went to Sivaji's home as a friend (before this illegal relation) and have friendship with Prabhu's wife Punitha, calling her as 'akka...akka', but then how she (cunningly) intended to have wrong relationship with Prabhu..??. As per your arguement, even if Prabhu is wrong, then why Kushboo allowed it and done 'dhrogham' for that innocent lady...?.
"Pennukku aan ethiri alla, pennukku pennthaan ethiri" formula again proved by Kushboo by her 'dhroham' to Prabhu's wife.
When Prabhu approached her, and if she refused means, then we can say Prabhu is culprit and Kushboo is 'uththami'. But here both of them are culprits, and dont try to save Kushboo only by telling 'male chavanism' etc, which is undigestable.
its all human individual feelingsQuote:
Originally Posted by saradhaa_sn
men has different feelngs -no-
some women - some men making mistakes
not all
but blames come to women always ?why?
Our society is buld like that and even changes been happening there are still sterotype toward women.Quote:
Originally Posted by aanaa