KAdhal eNum eNNam

whether its love or arranged....
only 4 things are necessary.

1. ADJUSTMENT
2. COMMITMENT
3. personal space..
4. LOVE DEVELOPED STRONGLY over a period of time and patience to let that LOVE HAPPEN
*********
sariyaa.. soneenga... Sakthi..

adhuvum... nachunu irundhadhu... ---- Staying committed is in each one's heart. ---

There is one song in tamizh....

Porthittu padutha enna
paduthutu pOrthittaa enna?

Its all the same.
******
sari.. :roll:
idhu yeppadi onnaa aagum..
neenga...
rendayum seidhu paarthu irukeengalaa... em :?

pOthikittu paduthaa...
// meendum oru murai.. re check pannanum.. correctaa cover aagi irukkaanu//

paduthukittu Pothikitta..
// orea velai.. ju... aduthu straighta... kanavulOgam thaan.. :razz: //

Neennukittu pOthikiradhu vera...
Paduthukittu pOthikiradhu vera...

Oru rhymin'kkaaha sonnaalum...
rendumea.. differes...
******

aanaa... yen kealvikkenna badhil ???....

þÐŨà ¦¾¡Îì¸Àð¼ ¸¢¨Ç §¸ûÅ¢¸û :

01. ¾¢ÕÁ½õ ºÃ¢Â¡.. ¾ÅÈ¡?...
02. ¾¢ÕÁ½ò¾¢ý «Åº¢Âõ..?
03. ¦ÁöÂ¡É ¸¡¾ø ±ýÈ¡ø ...
04. ¸¡¾ø-¦À¡Õû-±ýÉ?
05. Å¢ÕõÀ¢ð¼¡ø ¸¡¾Ä¡?
06. «ýÀ¡... ¸¡¾Ä¡... ¸¡ÁÁ¡... Á¢Ìò¾ ¯ð¦À¡Õû ¸ñ˧á ?
07. '¸¡¾ø ¾¢ÕÁ½õ'... ±ôÀÊ ¾ÅÈ¡¸ ÜÎõ???
08. º¢ýÉŧà ÓʦÅÎìÌõ ¸¡¾ø-¾¢ÕÁ½õ ¿¢¨Ä¡§Á¡?
09. À¢ïº¢§Ä§Â ¯¾¢Ã º¡¾¨É§Â¡ ?
10. §Å¾¨É§Â ¦ÅõÀ¢¼§Å¡ Å¡ú쨸 ?



idhuvarai thodukkapatta kilai kealvigal

01. thirumanam sariyaa.. thavaRaa?...
02. Thirumanathin avasiyam?...
03. meyyaana kaadhal enRaal?
04. kaadhal-poRuL-enna?
05. virumbivittaal kaadhalaa?
06. anbaa.. kaadhalaa.. kaamamaa.. miguththa utporuL kandeeroo ?
07. 'kaadhal thirumanam'.. eppadi thavaraaga koodum ??
08. sinnavarea mudivedukkum kaadhal-thirumanam nilayaamOa?
09. pinjilea udhira saadhanaiyO?
10. veadhanayea vembidavO vaazhkai?

03. ¦ÁöÂ¡É ¸¡¾ø ±ýÈ¡ø ...
04. ¸¡¾ø-¦À¡Õû-±ýÉ?
05. Å¢ÕõÀ¢ð¼¡ø ¸¡¾Ä¡?
06. «ýÀ¡... ¸¡¾Ä¡... ¸¡ÁÁ¡... Á¢Ìò¾ ¯ð¦À¡Õû ¸ñ˧á ?

03. meyyaana kaadhal enRaal?
04. kaadhal-poRuL-enna?
05. virumbivittaal kaadhalaa?
06. anbaa.. kaadhalaa.. kaamamaa.. miguththa utporuL kandeeroo ?


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«Æ¸¡É Å¢Àò¾¢ø þýÚ
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§Åñ¼¡õ ±ý§Èý...
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azagaana vibathil indru
aiyOO naan maattikondean
thappikka vazigal irundhum ...
veandaam endrean ...

Film: Sachien - Kanmoodi thirakkum pozudhum ...
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Answer for the Questions ...
'Love - A Positive Psychology'
In Pages 50-52 'kAdhal eNum eNNam'

01. ¾¢ÕÁ½õ ºÃ¢Â¡.. ¾ÅÈ¡?...
02. ¾¢ÕÁ½ò¾¢ý «Åº¢Âõ..?

01. thirumanam sariyaa.. thavaRaa?...
02. Thirumanathin avasiyam?...






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valiyavan
padaithu
eliyavan
yeatru
kondadhu
podhunalam

thannalam
yendra ondru
yendru thoandriadho
andru thoandriyadhu
podhu nalamum...



thanadhu endru
thoandriya
andru thaan

thoandriyadhu
orudhaara
muraiyum....

andru thaan
kaadhal enum
vaarthai
kuzappathil
maattikondathu.....

andruthaan
karpu enum
kavasamadhai
penmaikku
poottapattadhu....

andruthaan
karppai
kaiyil
yeduthukonda

aanaadhikkam
samuthaayam yendra
peyaril seyalpada
aarambithadhu...







adhuvarai
manidha
vilangugalaai
mattum...

thirindhavar
yaavarum
samudhaaya
vilangugalaai...





indru...
thanimanidha
viruppugalayum
veruppugalayum
samudhaayam
theermanikiradhu...


namadhu
athiya
avasyamaagum
uNavu udai
kalvi thozil
ivatrai yellam
indru
samudhaayamea
theermanikiradhu...



thirumanam
enum
oruvaziyai
manidhan
kandariyum varai
kondadhu
kaamam yenil ..

manam enum
vazi muraiyai
kadaipidippadhum
adharkkaagavea...

kaadhal
yenil
kaadhal





sariyaana ondrayea
sariyaa thavaraa endra
vivaadhathirkul
vidhaithu vittadhu

thani manidhan
mealulla
samudhaayathin
aadhikkam...





adhan adutha
azuthathin
aazndha
velipaadea

indraya
ilaya
thalaimuraiyinarin
indha... kealvi...

01. thirumanam sariyaa.. thavaRaa?...
02. Thirumanathin avasiyam?...





nanbargalea...
manadhil kollungal...
nam veetilum
idhai pOndra oru vidhaiyai
samudhaayam thoovi sendrirukka koodum...




yenna seyyappOgiropam .... ???

Selected §¸ûÅ¢¸û (Questions):

09. À¢ïº¢§Ä§Â ¯¾¢Ã º¡¾¨É§Â¡ ?
10. §Å¾¨É§Â ¦ÅõÀ¢¼§Å¡ Å¡ú쨸 ?
08. º¢ýÉŧà ÓʦÅÎìÌõ ¸¡¾ø-¾¢ÕÁ½õ ¿¢¨Ä¡§Á¡?
07. '¸¡¾ø ¾¢ÕÁ½õ'... ±ôÀÊ ¾ÅÈ¡¸ ÜÎõ???

09. pinjilea udhira saadhanaiyO?
10. veadhanayea vembidavO vaazhkai?
08. sinnavarea mudivedukkum kaadhal-thirumanam nilayaamOa?
07. 'kaadhal thirumanam'.. eppadi thavaraaga koodum ??




þó¾ §¸ûŢ측É.. À¾¢ø¸û... ¿¡ý §¿ÃÊ¡¸ ±ý ¦Àü§È¡Ã¢¼õ §ÀÍÅÐ §À¡Ä... ±Ø¾¢Â¢Õ¸¢¦Èý... þó¾ §¸ûÅ¢¸¨Ç... ¦¾¡Îò¾.. ±ý ¿ñÀ÷¸û... §¸¡Å¢òÐ ¦¸¡ûÇ §Åñ¼¡õ... ¾Â× ¦ºöÐ... þ¨Å... ¾í¸Ç¢¼õ... §¸ð¸ ÀÎõ §¸ûÅ¢¸û... «øÄ... ºÓ¾¡Âò¨¾.. §¿¡ì¸¢ Å£ºôÀÎõ §¸ûÅ¢¸û...


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indha kealvikkaana... badhilgal... naan nearadiyaaga en petroaridam peasuvadhu pola... ezudhiyirukkirean... indha kealvigalai.. thoduthaa... en.. nanbargal... thayavu seydhu.. koavithu kolla veandaam..
ivai thangalidam... keatkka padum kealvigal alla... samudhaayaththai.. nooakii veesapppadum kealvigal...

pin kurippu: ivai.. kavidhaikkaaha ezudhum... vetru vaarthaigal alla... en nanbargalaagiya... en peatravargalidam.. Edho oru pozudhil... utkaarndhu... vivaadham seydha... visayathin koarvaiyea...

09. À¢ïº¢§Ä§Â ¯¾¢Ã º¡¾¨É§Â¡ ?
10. §Å¾¨É§Â ¦ÅõÀ¢¼§Å¡ Å¡ú쨸 ?


09. pinjilea udhira saadhanaiyO?
10. veadhanayea vembidavO vaazhkai?









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uruti vandhu
adhil naan
undhi yerugayil
yeanappa...

yen pinnodu
oadi vandhaay ??...

un vandi
udaindhu
vidumendraa.. ??

alladhu

un magavu
vizundhudaithu
koLLumendraa !!

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eduthuvaa yendru

nee sonna
maathirathil
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pasiyarindha naan

odoadi sendru
aduppilirundha
paathiram thodugayil
pathiram.. pathiram..
yendru

paayndhoadi
vandhaayea
un
kalaipayum meeri

annathai
kavizthu
viduveanO
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acchathilaa ??..

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suttukoLvean
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neevir kondathu
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parivendraal...
paasamendraal...

naan virumbum
kaadhal idhuvendru
kai kaatiya
pozudhu...

Enamma
Enappa
ekkeadO
pOvendru..

odhungi
koNdeer !!